Choosing your relatives carefully, a wise move.
Marriage is a major life event, involving family relationships, financial status and other aspects. However, many parents tend to focus only on financial conditions and academic appearance, and ignore deeper considerations. In this article, we'll dive into the three key factors that make your life decisions to help you choose your life events carefully for a bright future.
Do not associate with "pitted" families.
The first is to avoid marrying a "pitted" family. In real life, we often hear about other people's marital status and understand the reasons that lead to divorce. By summarizing these experiences, we can discover the patterns and then weigh the pros and cons of the marriage of our children. For example, if the future in-laws are single-parent families, they are likely to live with the younger couple when they retire. This requires a careful examination of whether the other person is getting along well and what possible living arrangements are possible in the future. It is wise to consider these issues in advance and avoid hasty marriages.
The foundation of trust cannot be ignored.
Trust is an indispensable cornerstone in a marital relationship. Therefore, it is crucial to avoid marrying someone who is not sincere. The lack of trust in marriage is one of the main causes of relationship breakdown. If the future in-laws show insincerity during the marriage process, such as exaggerating during the blind date, and playing tricks several times before marriage, then it is best to reconsider the marriage. All kinds of performances before marriage are often the epitome of future marriages, and the quality of character directly affects the stability of marriage. Therefore, for marriage, it is crucial to choose a partner with a high level of trust.
Parents get along and decide the fate of marriage.
In marriage, the relationship between parents is also an important factor. As the saying goes, "Marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog", and the partner you choose is often closely related to your family background. If one of the parents is difficult to get along with, there will be huge problems after marriage. Especially in traditional Chinese culture, it is often necessary to live with one of the parents after marriage. If there is a contradiction in this link, it will bring a heavy burden to the marriage. Therefore, when choosing a partner, carefully examine the other person's family environment to ensure that both parents are easy to get along with.
Epilogue. 
To sum up, marriage is a complex and solemn ceremony, and careful selection of in-laws, choice of trust, and consideration of parents are important steps to ensure a happy marriage. When parents give their children advice on getting married, they may wish to think more deeply, rather than just staying at the superficial level such as economics and education. By understanding the situation of your in-laws in advance, choosing a sincere and trustworthy partner, and considering the problems of your parents, you can lay a stronger foundation for your marriage. I hope that everyone who enters the marriage hall can usher in a bright future and build a happy family together.