In a person's life, one day they will reach the end of their life. When they are old, the old people will experience some special feelings, suggesting that they are about to say goodbye to this world and leave the red dust. These feelings include running out of oil, arrogance, falling leaves, and good words.
First of all, the lamp ran out of oil. In ".Romance of the Three Kingdoms",Zhuge LiangI used to feel that way. When he was in his fifties and felt powerless in his last campaign against Wei, he realized that his life was coming to an end. However, in order to fulfill his promise, he took the light "".Seven Star LightsThe way to prolong life, tell his subordinates: "If the lamp is not extinguished in seven days, I will be able to live twelve more years;If the lights go out, it means I'm going to die. "However, it backfired, and at the moment when the final success was in sight, the generalWei YanIn order to convey military information, he hurriedly walked inZhuge LiangThe battalion turned out to be "Seven Star Lights"It's extinguished. AlthoughJiang WeiFurious, I want to killWei Yantime,Zhuge LiangBut it stopped him, yesJiang Weisaid: "Life and death are fateful, irretrievable." "Some people thinkZhuge Liang's death is nothing more than "the time has come", and it is also "the destiny of heaven". However, if there is no feeling of running out of oil, even ifSeven Star LightsWhat kind of results can be achieved if you light it up successfully?Therefore, it can be said that with the growth of age, all aspects of the body's functions gradually decline, and the exhaustion of the lamp is also a sign of the end of life.
Secondly, the feeling of hubris. There is a sentence in "Zhou Yi": "The house of goodness, there must be Yu Qing;."If you don't accumulate goodness, there will be aftermath. This means that if a family accumulates good deeds, it will inevitably have good results;And if you accumulate bad things, you will inevitably suffer. When people are old, they have abnormal arrogance, which not only lacks good character, but also brings disaster to the family and even leads to the shortening of their own lifespan. We once witnessed an incident in which an elderly man got on a bus and found that his seat was full and he was very angry. Despite the presence of a thin girl in her seat, the old man demanded that the girl give up her seat. The girl explained that she had left work late and wanted to sit down for a while, but the old man refused to give up, squeezed the girl away, and threatened to beat her. However, the old man did not feel ashamed, but justifiably told the people around him that the girl was immoral and unreasonable. However, the eyes of the masses were bright, and the old man's behavior was criticized by everyone. The age of sixty is the age of the ear, and if people in this age group not only do not have a good heart, but also do bad behavior, they will undoubtedly hurt their families, and eventually lead to leaving Hongchen not far away. Therefore, we should understand that kindness and virtue are the truth and the law of nature, no matter where outside the body, no matter where you are wandering, when you are old, you should follow this truth.
Third, the feeling of falling leaves returning to their roots. The Song Dynasty's interpretation of the Tao was originally written in ".Jingde Chuan Lantern RecordIt is said: "The leaves fall back to the roots, and there is no mouth when they come." This phrase means:LeavesIt grows from the roots, then withers, and finally returns to the roots. In the same way, when people come to this world, they are also guests in a foreign land, and they will eventually returnHometown。This is a feeling of groundedness, after all, "dust to dust, dust to dust". HuaxiaPeople pay attention to the return of fallen leaves to their roots, which is mainly influenced by Chinese farming culture. Five thousand yearsHistory of civilizationGive us a sense of nostalgia for our hometown. Therefore, no matter where we are, we will want to return to it before we reach the end of our livesHometown, back to the down-to-earth old house. I have an uncle who got cancer a few years ago. His family continued to take care of him, and after his condition deteriorated, he began to say many last words, hoping to returnHometownBury. Although he was unable to fulfill his wish, it was clear that his wish was to return to his homeland and reunite with his loved ones. This feeling of returning to the roots is the deepest desire of everyone's heart.
Finally, his words are also good. In old age, many people begin to think about the meaning and value of life. People especially cherish every opportunity to talk, as it may be the last time they can communicate with their relatives and friends. This feeling motivates them to become more caring for others and to pay attention to the needs and feelings of others. They no longer speak at will, but choose every word carefully, knowing that a typo, an inappropriate remark, could lead to an argument or hurt others. Therefore, they choose to communicate with others in kind language and give warmth and care to others. This feeling of being kind is the result of the old man's thinking and goodness, and it is also the voice of the heart when he bids farewell to this world.
In short, when people are old, they have special feelings, suggesting that they are about to say goodbye to this world and leave Hongchen. The running out of the lamp, arrogance, the return of fallen leaves to their roots, and the kindness of their words are the manifestations of these feelings. These feelings give us an opportunity to contemplate and reflect on the meaning of life, but they also remind us to cherish the present moment, care for others, and take care of our inner world.