Every day after school, parents will go to the school gate to pick up their children and take them home, which is a precious time for parents to spend with their children. In modern times, parents pay more and more attention to their children's family education, and invest a lot of energy and financial resources, hoping to make full use of every moment to effectively cultivate their children. Many parents ask about how their children should interact with their children during the time they go home from school to eat, so as to enhance their interest and ability in Xi school.
First of all, the first thing after school is not to get your child to start doing homework right away, as this can cause resistance and book fatigue. Instead, I recommend the following activities:
1) Chat, talk. This is important to develop children's expression skills, values, and ability to communicate with others. At the same time, it cultivates children's self-confidence and motivates children's motivation Xi learning. The general situation is to ask questions in four areas:
The first type of question, is there anything good happening at the school?What's going on at school?
This kind of question is to understand the child's values and how much he cares about the school, and what he thinks is good and what is notLet your child know what's interesting and what's new.
The second type of question, what are you doing well today?Have you been praised by your teachers and classmates today?
This kind of problem allows children to discover their shining points, motivate them, and increase their self-confidence.
The third type of question, is there any good harvest today?What did you learn today?
This kind of problem is for the child to recall what he has learned today. It plays a role in consolidating Xi.
The fourth type of problem, is there anything we can help with?How can Mom and Dad help you?
This kind of problem allows children to feel the care of their parents, and they can also understand their children's real thoughts and learn to accept help from others.
Parents should insist on communicating with their children every day, help them establish the correct three views, and summarize and review today's knowledge. Learning to communicate with others is very important for the cultivation of IQ and emotional intelligence. Parents can ask their children on the way home to pick them up.
2).Appropriate exercise or games: Don't rush your child's homework when you get home, you can spend some time with your child doing some physical activity or playing games. This helps to increase children's physical fitness, make them more confident, and can also choose to quickly visit ** and bookstores to pave the way for financial intelligence development.
3).Reading Books: Under the guidance of parents, you can read some extracurricular books together to expand your children's knowledge and cultivate their reading Xi. Parents can create a quiet reading environment for their children and accompany them to discuss what they are reading. Choose some targeted books, such as geography, history, biographies, travel travelogues, ** appreciation and art appreciation, etc., to help children broaden their knowledge.
4).Participate in household chores: Encourage children to participate in household activities and develop their hands-on and observational skills. Let children understand the operation of various affairs in the family, and feel the warmth of the family in the housework.
Designed to make the most of the time between school and dinner, these tips provide some tips for parents to help them interact better with their children. The process of family education needs to be persistent, and parents' participation, likes and attention are the driving forces for the success of family education. Hopefully, these suggestions will provide you with a useful reference and you are welcome to enjoy my article.