Colleagues, classmates, friends, these seemingly intimate relationships seem to be extraordinarily distant after retirement. I used to think that these relationships would accompany me throughout my life, but the reality disappointed me.
After retiring, I started a new life, and without the constraints of work, I had more time and space to pursue my dreams and hobbies. However, as time went on, I gradually realized that my former colleagues, classmates, and friends were no longer an important part of my life.
My colleagues, after I retired, faded out of my life. Although we have worked together and experienced many difficulties and challenges together, once we retire, these relationships are like gravel, gradually eliminated and forgotten by time.
My classmates, after I retired, also began to become strangers. Although we have spent our youth together and experienced the pains and joys of growing up together, once we retire, these memories are like dust, and they are gradually submerged and forgotten under the blowing of time.
My friends, after I retired, drifted apart. Although we have shared joys, sorrows, and ups and downs together, once we retire, these feelings are like shooting stars, gradually disappearing in the passage of time.
However, I have also found that this alienation is not a bad thing. After retiring, I have more time and space to focus on my inner world and pursue my dreams and hobbies. I started a new life and started a new social circle, which gave me more opportunities to meet new people and experience new things.
Although the relationship between colleagues, classmates, and friends is gradually estranged, it does not mean that I have lost the connection and friendship of these people. In the modern world, we have more ways and opportunities to stay connected and maintain friendships. We can use social networking**, WeChat and other ways to keep in touch, and we can find like-minded people online to exchange experiences and ideas.
At the same time, I also realized that the passers-by in life are not limited to colleagues, classmates, and friends. At every stage of life, different people appear and leave, and this is the only way to go through life. We need to learn to accept this change and parting, and we need to learn to face the loneliness and loneliness in our lives. It is only when we are able to face these changes and partings calmly that we can truly enjoy every stage of life.
After retirement, we need to learn to adapt to this change and loneliness. We need to learn to find our own interests and hobbies, and we need to learn to get along with ourselves. When we find our interests and hobbies, we find that life is full of endless possibilities and opportunities. We can learn Xi new skills and knowledge, and we can explore unknown areas and things. In the process, we will make new friends and partners, and we will find life full of meaning and value.
In addition, we also need to learn to cherish the people and things around us. Although the relationship between colleagues, classmates, and friends is gradually estranged, it does not mean that we do not need to cherish these people and things. We need to be grateful for every person and thing that has accompanied us, and we need to cherish the people and things in the present. Only in this way can we truly enjoy every moment and every stage of life.
Finally, I want to say that the passer-by in life is not terrible, but what is terrible is that we are not able to face and accept this change and parting. We need to learn to face loneliness and loneliness in life, and we need to learn to find our own interests and hobbies. Only in this way can we truly enjoy every stage and moment of life.