Be bold, Jiang Ying - bold and bold.
Don't think that everyone in the world cares about you. Do you think everybody's all eyes on you?
In fact, everyone has their own troubles, and no one cares about you.
- Mo Yan, "Frog".
When I used to go to school, the teacher asked you to go up and answer the questions, but you didn't write them down, and you blushed.
After stepping off the podium, you can't calm down for a long time, and you don't want to listen to the rest of the class.
After you came out to work, because you didn't do some things well, your boss scolded you in front of your colleagues, and you felt like you lost your face.
After that, every time I saw my boss and colleagues, I couldn't help but think of the situation that day, and my heart was so embarrassed that I was furious.
You meet someone of the opposite sex you like, and then you muster up the courage to confess to the other person, and the other person says that you are a good person.
You feel ashamed, your self-esteem has been hurt, your self-confidence has been greatly reduced, and you don't dare to show love easily.
Many years later, you will realize that in fact, when solving problems in public, many students will not answer them themselves.
They don't laugh at and look down on you in their hearts, but secretly rejoice that the person who was called up is not themselves.
When you are criticized by your boss in public, everyone doesn't take it seriously, and you quickly forget about it afterwards, and you are the only one there to repeatedly recall and torture yourself.
There is also the rejection of confession, in fact, the other party did not say that he looked down on you, but just felt that it was not suitable between you, or that he did not call you.
It's you who are adding drama to yourself, devaluing yourself to worthlessness, and thus losing your self-confidence.
I hope you can all remember one sentence: be bold in life, you don't have that many audiences!
Even if you make a fool of yourself and make a mistake, don't blindly magnify the mistake and hold on to it, feeling embarrassed about everything will only miss a lot of good things.
Munger mentions a gorilla effect: if you sit with a gorilla and explain to it a thought that you hold dear, you may end up with a confused primate, but your own mind will be clearer.
It means saying all your thoughts out loud to everyone and not caring what others think of you.
On the premise of not breaking the law and not hurting others, don't be stingy with your mind, don't be timid, and do whatever you want.
What others think of you has nothing to do with you, and how you want to live has nothing to do with others.
Your own life is your own, and you can adjust your life to your favorite color.
Hopefully, we can all live our true selves.
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