Before graduating, I fantasized countless times about the work I would engage in in the future, and at that time, I would think that I must be like the white-collar lady in the TV series, wearing a beautiful little suit every day, putting on high heels, carrying my favorite bag every day, and going to work happily, and the working environment is also very good;In the era when most people went to the factory to look for a job, at that time, I felt that white-collar workers were really a lucrative and decent job, and it was really my childhood dream to be in a high-rise building.
But I didn't expect that a few years later, when the real thing was realized, I found that the small cubicle in the high-rise building trapped me;Not only the body but also the soul, the so-called "white-collar workers" are not as decent as they seem.
Because I can't see the imaginary planning of urban white-collar workers, nor can I see the lights of their high-end restaurants, let alone their happy outings on their rest days. All I see is that most people are on the verge of struggling because they can't find their dream job, or even can't find a job for a long time, so they are unemployed.
So for such situations, I often ask myself, am I not good?How hard do I need to work to fit in?
For example, not long ago, I had dinner with a friend Xiao A: when my friend Xiao A chatted with me, he said that Xiao B, we have been friends for many years. Saying that Xiao B has been in a bad mood lately, I asked her what was going on. In my eyes, Xiao B really belongs to the kind of girl who is tall, beautiful as a flower, gentle in personality, and serious in her work. But I didn't expect that when their company selected her at the end of this year, she had full marks in all indicators this year, and the rating was A. But because she didn't want to be in the original team anymore and wanted to transfer a group, the head of their department, she changed his rating to B, and swore that if she had any opinions, she could go to the manager. After a year of serious work, I got this. Little B cried aggrievedly.
When we were children, if we didn't study hard, our parents always told us that we must work hard and study hard, otherwise we won't be able to go to a good high schoolAfter you go to high school, you have to work hard, otherwise you won't be able to go to a good university.
From childhood to adulthood, whenever we are a little lax, as long as we fail a little, it seems that the people around us say the most common sentence around us is "work hard", and we feel that we will be able to become excellent if we work hard, and we will achieve something if we work hard.
The word "effort" is like a trigger factor in our blood vessels, as long as you say it, it can drive the nerves and flesh of the whole body to cheer us up.
But have you ever thought that "I'm just an ordinary girl", which is just a very small one in the population of 1.4 billion? Sometimes I also think about how hard I have to work to become one of those people who have a salary of tens of thousands on the Internet, can achieve financial freedom in their 20s, and can achieve a counterattack in life, start a company, and run all over the country in their 20s.
But sometimes that's the case, I'm just ordinary, with an ordinary life and an ordinary careerIn this day and age, no one tells me how to do it to become better, just like others brush some self-** platforms to increase knowledge, and we are purely a waste of time. I made excuses for my boredom, and as time went by, I accepted my ordinariness and ordinarinessAfter all, people have to reconcile with their ordinary selves in this life.
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