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Wang Guozhen said:
"Chances, fight for them on your own;
Destiny, grasp it yourself,
Life is your own drawing board, why rely on others for coloring. ”
To live, people must be confident, not tempered.
Before you find your confidence, you must quit your temper and use your own ability to suppress your temper.
In the end, rely on yourself, fight for opportunities, rely on yourself, and control your destiny.
In this way, only by making ourselves more and more confident and more powerful can we stride forward and walk this life confidently and calmly.
Make enough money
As the saying goes: "The confidence of adults is given by money." ”
It can be said that making enough money is the hardest confidence for a person.
As Kazuo Inamori said:
"Only when you are financially independent, you can't see so much, you don't have to be low, you have the confidence to straighten your waist and accept love and be loved. ”
People need to spend money every day to live, and they need to use money to buy material things every day, live with money, and extend life with money.
Money, arguably the most standard standard of living.
Food, clothing, housing, transportation, human relations, the most realistic is just birth, old age, sickness and death, all of which are inseparable from the business of money.
I like this sentence very much, a rich man, it is difficult for a man without money.
Although money is not the only one, it is not the most important, but don't underestimate the broken silver in your hand, it can save lives and solve all kinds of difficulties at critical times.
Therefore, if you have enough money, you will have enough confidence, and there is nothing wrong with this.
Zhang Ailing said:"I like money because I haven't suffered from money, I don't know the disadvantages of money, I only know the benefits of money. ”
The essence of life is reality, and the essence of reality is simplicity and instinct.
To be a person and do things, talk about good ** first, talk about good money first, so as not to make extraneous branches.
Because, talking about money is not cheesy, and if you don't talk about money, you may hurt your anger.
In the eyes of many people, if a person has a good character and a big heart, he should not care about money and should not talk about money.
Don't deal with people who don't talk about money, because these people don't talk about money on the surface, but in fact, once you want to talk about money, there is a big hole waiting for you to fill, and you will never be satisfied.
This is the truth in human nature, which is difficult to fill.
To be a man, don't dare to talk about money because of face, don't dare to talk about money because of favors, and don't want to talk about money, which seems to have no pattern.
In fact, if you don't know how to talk about money after doing things, not only will you not show your generosity, but you will attract the contempt of others.
Writer Mo Yan once said frankly that the purpose and original intention of his writing was just to make money to buy leather shoes.
On your own
In life, whether it is making money or living a life, it is all your own business, or most of it is your own business.
If you take the initiative to hand over the initiative of life to the other party, you will live a life of greed for pleasure and develop the Xi of good and bad work.
Then, your life will definitely become more and more unconfident.
Because relying on others, relying on others, hoping to live carefree, this in itself is a kind of irresponsibility, and it is also a bad Xi without any growth mentality.
If you lie flat for too long, you will definitely be taken away from your talent.
Even if you can't take away your talent, time will shoot you on the beach, unable to move, and eventually become a salted fish.
Relying on oneself, only by oneself, can we accumulate confidence for ourselves little by little and bring changes to life.
Everyone has their own life, and everyone has their own problems and pressures.
We can't let someone else ignore their own pressures and difficulties and then turn their heads around and solve their own stresses and difficulties.
Even if there really is such a person, he will only do such a thing once or twice.
Relying on others will eventually make you more and more incompetent and mediocre.
Relying on others, even if you get a lot of luck for a while, sooner or later you will be asked to go back by the other party, and even let yourself lose more.
The famous host Meng Fei said:
"Never expect too much from someone else's help, even your parents, to do everything on your own. ”
Rely on yourself in everything, don't rely on anyone, lower your expectations of others, and lower your expectations of others.
Only in this way can we be willing, down-to-earth, grasp the moment, and accumulate resources and experience.
Only in this way can we gradually grow and become strong on our own.
Hayao Miyazaki once said:
"Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your Xi and make you cowardly. Learn to walk independently whenever and wherever you are. ”
The reason why people can become human beings is to rely on themselves, to walk independently, and to truly have an independent personality.
In this way, you will become more confident and confident.
Live with confidence
In this life, the most important thing is to live with confidence, so that your confidence is getting harder and harder, and more and more qualified.
Only in this way can we swallow our breath and raise our eyebrows.
Everyone hopes that they can live better and better, and live more and more confidently.
Therefore, in order to achieve such a goal, we should strive to grow ourselves, improve ourselves, find our potential, believe in our actions, and adhere to our good Xi.
The French writer André Gide said:
"Everyone has amazing potential, believe in your own strength and youth, and keep telling yourself: everything depends on me. ”
Therefore, rely on yourself in everything, never rely on yourself, rely on yourself without regrets, and rejoice in yourself.
In the end, relying on the strength of bravery, hard work, and perseverance alone, I walked alone for a long, long time, and carried a lot of pressure and hardships.
Then, you will definitely become a better and better self, more and more radiant.
At this time, your whole body will be full of confidence.