Will the man who betrayed his marriage really return to the family?
The answer is yes, but very few cheating men do.
Men who can do it must have a sense of morality and feelings for their wives.
And Xiao San did a lot of things to hurt this man, and he was completely disappointed in Xiao San.
A cheating man still has feelings for his marriage, and he is completely disappointed in the extramarital affair, so he will sincerely admit his mistake and return to the family.
For example, Su Yue had contact with a cheating man before.
He said that he sincerely regretted that he shouldn't have cheated and wanted to live a good life with his wife.
But his wife, although she has no plans to divorce, still has a shadow on the affair.
I don't trust him as much as I used to, and I don't trust him as much as I used to.
The relationship between husband and wife has become a little awkward, although his wife does not always turn over old accounts and will not make trouble with him, but he obviously feels that his wife does not care so much about him, just for the sake of the children, do some superficial work.
The cheating man felt very uncomfortable, he said that he really knew what was wrong, and wanted to go back to the past, so he asked Su Yue what to do.
Why would this cheating man sincerely admit his mistake and want to repair the relationship between husband and wife?
On the one hand, he and his original wife continue to have a deep relationship
The two are college classmates, campus couples enter marriage, and their relationship has been good for eleven years of marriage.
There are some small contradictions in life, but there are no big problems that cannot be overcome.
On the other hand, the cheating man is completely dead to the mistress.
may have true feelings for the mistress before, even if it is not to the extent of divorce and marrying the mistress, he is not willing to easily end the affair with the mistress, and wants to continue the affair with the mistress for a long time.
But Xiao San doesn't love cheating men, Xiao San said that he has feelings for cheating men, but in fact, he is just trying to make money in the name of love, and when he can't get money, he will find other men, and the cheating man finds out the true face of Xiao San, and he is completely dead to Xiao San, and he will want to return to the family to end the extramarital affair.
A cheating man who will cheat for his feelings and really give his feelings to the mistress,
They will also have some residual feelings for their wives, and they will also end their feelings for the mistress because of the ruthlessness of the mistress.
So many times, it is easier for a cheating man to have feelings for the mistress than for a cheating man who is just having fun.
Because if the cheating man is just playing, he cheats for the sake of freshness and excitement, then this extramarital affair is over, and other mistresses can bring him these feelings, he can still continue to cheat, they themselves are also very indifferent, seemingly amorous, but in fact the most ruthless, not only ruthless to the mistress, but also ruthless to his wife.
Therefore, the cheating man does not love the mistress or his wife, and it is easy to end up with the mistress, and it is easy to start over with the new mistress.
But if the cheating man likes the mistress, his cheating is aimed at the mistress, and he will choose to cheat in order to get the mistress's like.
So once there is a problem with this mistress, the relationship between the two people is completely broken, and the cheating man will not go to find another mistress, and he will end this extramarital affair, as long as he does not cheat with this mistress again, it will be difficult to cheat again.
Especially the mistress also hurt the cheating man, making the cheating man feel that there are no good women outside of marriage, if he continues to find the mistress, it will still be the same result, or the same hurt, leaving this kind of impression, the cheating man will not cheat again, and the wife can be regarded as the real solution to the extramarital affair.
So it's not that the cheating man and the mistress are true love, and the wives can't solve the extramarital affair.
Because most mistresses don't really love cheating men, or love, but mistresses don't love for long.
The wives need to find the emotional problems of the mistress and guide the mistress to betray the cheating man.
Let the cheating man be hurt by the mistress, and let the cheating man no longer believe that there are true feelings in the extramarital affair.
In this way, it is not easy for a cheating man to cheat again, compared to cheating for other reasons, cheating for love.
In the end, cheating men who are hurt by love and have no confidence in extramarital love are more likely to sincerely repent
Not all cheating men will never forget Xiao San after breaking up with Xiao San.
Not all extramarital affairs have one time, there must be a second and countless times.
Will the cheating man break the connection with the little three, and will the original partner suffer a second derailment.
It is determined by a combination of many factors, wives are not necessary, they believe that they will lose at the beginning, and the things you believe will definitely be reflected in you.
When people often say, "I've prepared for the worst," they inadvertently draw the "worst" to them.
It is said that man will win the day, if you think of the worst outcome of things at the beginning, you will not deal with this problem properly in the future, and let the problem continue, which will naturally be the worst situation.
On the other hand, if you can show the expectation of success, happiness and abundance at the beginning, the process of resolving the affair will go more and more smoothly.
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