A kinship is a special relationship in which the marriage of children binds two families together. In general, apart from the bond of marriage, there is not much intersection between the two families. However, at a wine table in Sichuan, a blind date in which a single mother and a single father-in-law "held hands successfully" attracted people's attention. This happened on December 3rd, when everyone sat around and chatted happily after dinner. The daughter-in-law arranges for the single father-in-law and the single mother to sit together. My father-in-law looks energetic, but he is still heroic when he is over half a hundred years old;Although my mother is also over half a hundred years old, she looks young and lively, without a trace of gray hair, and her face is still full of youth. The daughter-in-law seems to have made arrangements and arranged the seats next to each other. During the chat, when it was mentioned that both of them were single, the daughter-in-law walked up to them and took her mother's hand into her father-in-law's hand. The father-in-law blushed and was a little embarrassed, and he didn't dare to look directly at his mother, so he could only turn his back to her. The mother, on the other hand, laughed with joy, took her father-in-law's hand tightly, rested her head on his shoulder, and covered her mouth with the other hand and chuckled. Under the arrangement of their daughter-in-law, the two silently got closer, and their smiles revealed shyness and satisfaction.
According to the daughter-in-law, her mother and father-in-law have been single for many years. They are very talkative, and they all want to find their other half. However, although they thought about themselves in private, they were embarrassed to express them in front of their children because of face problems. This time, the daughter-in-law just helped to pierce the window paper between them. Seeing them smiling and holding hands, the daughter-in-law knew that the blind date was successful. In this way, my father-in-law and mother no longer have to go outside to find a partner. They get to know each other and don't have to worry about being deceived. In the future, they can live together and take care of each other. It's a really nice arrangement.
However, some netizens made teasing and humorous comments about it. Some people say that this daughter-in-law is too smart to at least bring together the property of both families and save the child from fighting for decades. Some people also said that in this way, it will be convenient to take care of the two old people when they are old. At the same time, it's great to have two more free laborers in the family. In this way, there will be no friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
For this kind of seemingly smart and interest-in-law arrangement, the writer believes that the relationship between the in-laws is not restricted by blood relations, and as long as the children have no objections, it is acceptable for the two to love each other. After all, when the two are together, it is not only convenient for each other, but also for their children. They can take care of their grandchildren together. When the two get older, it will be convenient for them to support their children. The family lives happily together, and does not need to be swayed by the eyes of the outside world, as long as the family is happy and happy.
As for the ridicule and humorous comments of netizens, it can be said to be a witty interpretation of this story, but it does not represent the real situation. In this story, the daughter-in-law's behavior is out of kindness and love, hoping that her father-in-law and mother can find a life partner and spend their old age together. It is an act of kindness that should not be judged by assumptions and speculations about the interests of others.
In real life, different people have different emotions and thoughts, and every family's situation is different. The relationship between the family needs the understanding and support of all parties, and should not be influenced by some external factors. The most important thing is that the children and both families are able to accept and support this arrangement, so that the marriage can be more stable and happy.
In short, the kinship relationship is a special but important relationship, which is not only the bond between children, but also the heart-to-heart line between two families. Respecting and supporting the formation of kinship and family relationships can promote family harmony and happiness. Whether it is a daughter-in-law's kind arrangement or any other form of family relationship, as long as both parties are willing and happy, it is the best thing.