Pregnancy, childbirth and confinement are extremely important stages in a woman's life journey. This is not only a major test for women's bodies, but also for their mental health. In this process, if the in-laws do not contribute money or effort, for many women, it may be troubled and disappointed. So, in the face of this situation, how should it be viewed and handled?Will you hate your in-laws for the rest of your life?
First, understanding and accepting emotional responses is necessary. When your in-laws don't help them when you need them, you may feel lonely, helpless, and disappointed. This is a very normal reaction, don't feel stingy or shouldn't have such emotions. Allowing yourself to feel these emotions and find the right way to deal with them is a healthy and mature way to deal with them.
However, we cannot allow these emotions to dominate our lives. After understanding and accepting emotions, we need to take positive action to solve the problem.
The first step is communication. Try to have an honest conversation with your partner about how you feel that your in-laws are not helping you when you need them. Maybe your partner doesn't understand your needs, or they may have some concerns or misunderstandings. Through communication, you can get a clearer picture of each other's thoughts and feelings, and it also helps to find a common solution.
If communication isn't successful, or your partner can't understand your feelings, then you can consider seeking professional help. A counsellor or family tutor can help you deal with your emotions and think about how to deal with the problem. They can also help you and your partner establish better communication styles to solve this problem.
Finally, you need to focus on your mental health. Pregnancy, childbirth, and confinement are stressful times, and you need to take care of your physical and mental health. Find activities that will allow you to relax and enjoy, such as walking, yoga, meditation, etc., that can help you relieve stress and anxiety.
Don't let emotions dominate your life. By communicating positively, seeking professional help, and focusing on your mental health, you can better handle this and create a better future for yourself and your family.
In addition, we also need to be clear that everyone's situation is different. Some women live well with the help of their in-laws, while others are not so lucky. This does not mean that women who have not received help from their in-laws should hold a grudge against their in-laws for the rest of their lives. Life is complex, and everyone has their own story and background. We need to learn to understand and embrace these differences, rather than defining and judging others with simple labels.
On this issue, we need more understanding and tolerance, rather than accusation and hatred. We need to approach problems with a positive attitude and look for solutions instead of dwelling on negative emotions. Only in this way can we create a better future for ourselves and our families.
In closing, I would like to say that you should value your life and health no matter what your situation is. During this special period, you need to take care of yourself and maintain a positive mindset and an optimistic attitude. Believe in your own abilities and believe that you will overcome all difficulties and move towards a better future.