Among the five beauties described in the TV series "Ode to Joy", Andy was the first to enter the marriage hall, he and Bao Yifan got married in the company of their children, and this marriage was also obtained by Bao Yifan after countless efforts.
In fact, Andy has a plan not to get married deep down in his heart, and he has enough confidence. She is fully capable of raising her own children alone, and even her younger brother for the rest of her life, all of which is due to Andy's own abundant resources.
Andy's assets are unmatched in a family business like the Bao family. Previously, Bao Tai suspected that Andy might have been attracted by the Bao family's assets, so he came into contact with Bao Yifan.
In the end, Bao Yifan said that in Andy's eyes, the Bao family is not important, and Andy is not interested in the Bao family's industry at all. What he said was not exaggerated, but unmistakable. Therefore, in the marital relationship, Andy occupies a dominant position, and she is happily entering the palace of marriage.
In contrast, although Qiu Yingying's marriage is not as confident as Andy's, she is extremely humble, which makes me feel very disgusted with girls like her.
If you ask me which of the five beauties of "Ode to Joy" is my favorite, I may hesitate, but if you ask me which one I like the most, I will immediately answer Qiu Yingying.
I once wrote an article called "Ode to Joy" describing how Fan Shengmei gradually became a "fishing girl" character. But when I read the original book deeply, I found that even though Fan Shengmei is a fishing girl, she is still better than Qiu Yingying.
Although Fan Shengmei is engaged in the profession of fishing for women, she always has her own bottom line and will not intervene in other people's marriages and become a third party. In addition to this, she also showed a genuine passion for her friends.
What makes Fan Shengmei even better than Qiu Yingying is her self-esteem. After she broke up with Wang Baichuan, she fought a lawsuit with her brother alone, and this series of events finally proved that Fan Shengmei is not a bottomless person, and she at least maintained her self-esteem in the end.
However, in the original work, Qiu Yingying was an extremely offensive character. This revulsion is not because of her clumsiness, but because of her selfishness, lack of empathy, and complete self-esteem. Not only did she lack self-esteem, she also demanded that her parents put down their self-esteem and pay the price for her marriage.
First love experience: in trouble.
Qiu Yingying's first love was the director of their company.
Director Bai was Qiu Yingying's direct superior, and although he may not have taken obvious action at first, once he joined the company, Qiu Yingying quickly classified him as the handsome Director Bai.
In her eyes, as long as the handsome white guy waved his hand lightly, her soul would be attracted away.
Qiu Yingying knows that office romance is a taboo, and it is something she can't be completely unaware of. But for some reason, she behaved rather stupid. Moreover, she has a strong interest in the white handsome guy. After reading the original book, I found that the white handsome guy did not reach that level of handsomeness that is overwhelming.
Although his appearance was not bad, as long as he made a slight move, Qiu Yingying rushed forward without hesitation.
In fact, she later had many opportunities to really see the true face of the handsome guys around her, but she was too stupid, and she also had a strong love mindset.
She fell deeply in love with the white handsome guy and gave her heart to him without reservation. She is full of trust in the handsome guy Bai and firmly believes that they love each other deeply. Therefore, she told almost everything to the white handsome guy, even if they had only been together for less than a few days, she had already revealed to him the ** of her parents at home and the address of her hometown.
When the handsome guy invited her to join the class for the first time via text message, she became so excited that she didn't notice anything suspicious behind the note left by Guan Juer.
Before the date, Fan Shengmei also mentioned her, but she didn't seem to really listen. After less than a week of spending time with Director Bai, she hadn't returned all night. Guan Juer was very worried about her, and she neither answered** nor replied to text messages.
Qu Xiaoxuan later conducted a test for her, which confirmed that the handsome white guy was actually unreliable. When she learned the truth, although she was a little angry with Bai Shuai, she was appeased by him in a few words. On the contrary, she feels very reproachful for her friends who usually care very much, and even regards Qu Xiaoxuan as an enemy, thinking that she has seduced her boyfriend.
Guan Juer once said that "flies don't bite eggs", but she didn't listen. She thinks that the reason why Guan Juer helped her was because she felt that Qu Xiaoxuan was very rich, and finally she decided to move out.
In fact, Guan Juer later began to wonder if his words were too harsh, and he tried to persuade Qiu Yingying not to move out. But Fan Shengmei pointed out in time that Qiu Yingying didn't actually move out because she was angry, but wanted to find a reason to move out and live with her Bai supervisor.
At this particular moment, she has only been with a handsome man for a month, which is also the first time Qiu Yingying has fallen into a love predicament.
When she moved outside, she didn't feel particularly happy in the white handsome man's rented place, the atmosphere there was not even as good as Ode to Joy, and the white handsome man forbade her to touch any of his personal belongings, whether it was a computer or a mobile phone.
Qiu Yingying finally endured everything. Later, the roommates told her that the white handsome guy had recently had several wealthy girlfriends and played outside every day. Qiu Yingying is skeptical of what the outside world says, and is full of trust in her handsome white guy. It wasn't until she saw the handsome guy Bai appear in front of her in a car of a rich second-generation girl that she was convinced that all this was real.
Therefore, in this case, she will feel extreme heartache and disappointment and return to the Ode to Joy community. At this time, her roommates Fan Shengmei and Guan Guan were comforting her. Fan Shengmei even went to destroy the rental house of the white scumbag in order to vent her emotions, and was deceived by the white scumbag afterwards, and almost couldn't extricate herself at the police station.
Fan Shengmei is so righteous, Qiu Yingying is still thinking about the handsome man.
When she started working the next day, she was not thinking about Bai Handsome Guy's infidelity to her, but hoping that Bai Handsome Guy would clarify all misunderstandings with her. If the handsome guy really apologized to her and said a few good words at this moment, Qiu Yingying would definitely get back together with him immediately.
However, the handsome white guy has lost interest in Qiu Yingying and is no longer willing to interact with her. Fan Shengmei vented her emotions for her, which made the white handsome guy full of dissatisfaction. Therefore, he made all kinds of difficulties for Qiu Yingying in the workplace. In the end, Qiu Yingying angrily exposed everything, which the handsome white guy didn't expect at all. Therefore, the handsome white guy finally spoke ill of him, and Qiu Yingying really saw the true face of the person in front of him at this time.
Judging from Qiu Yingying's first love experience, she seems to be a girl who is overly dependent on love and has almost lost her normal judgment ability. So, after experiencing her first relationship, Qiu Yingying did become smarter, but her essence remained unchanged, which led to her mistakes again and again.
Second relationship: involves the intervention of a third party.
Qiu Yingying's second love experience with the white scumbag is different, she is regarded as a relatively high-quality partner, that is, an affordable attendance.
Ying Qin is not a scum like Director Bai, nor is he as shrewd as Wang Baichuan. On the contrary, he is a very honest person. Not only that, but he was a programmer for a large company in his youth, owning a property and a vehicle in Haishi. What's more worth mentioning is that he and Qiu Yingying are fellow countrymen, and such a fate is really rare.
Therefore, in their second relationship, Qiu Yingying learned the lesson of the failure of the first relationship, and her progress was relatively slow and she did not fully show herself to the other person at the beginning.
However, her second relationship did not succeed because Ying Qin felt that she was not **.
In Haishi, although Ying Qin, who has a house and a car, does not have the property of Bao Yifan and Wei Wei, his condition is not to worry about finding a girlfriend, and he is an honest person, and he falls in love just to get married.
Therefore, he actually has specific expectations for his future marriage partner, of which ** is just one of his many expectations, but Qiu Yingying is not satisfied, so he chooses to break up.
Qiu Yingying felt extreme heartache after the breakup. Soon after, Ying Qin found a girl from a privileged family in his hometown as his fiancée. The relationship between the two families developed very quickly, not because of Ying Qin's love for the girl, but because the girl happened to meet his criteria for choosing a mate.
However, his fiancée later wanted to add her name to the property deed and brought her three aunts and six mothers-in-law from the countryside to the city to ask for help with the work. This made Ying Qin very unhappy, because he didn't like these behaviors of his fiancée, because they seriously damaged his interests.
Therefore, at this critical moment, he found Qiu Yingying to share his feelings, and I think we should work harder, and since we have ended the relationship, we should not bother her.
Qiu Yingying was very surprised by the sudden appearance of the attendee. She originally thought that Ying Qin was coming to her to get back together, but later found out that Ying Qin was simply unhappy and wanted to talk to her.
Qiu Yingying always listened to his heart silently, calmed his emotions, and continued to date him. When Guan Juer learned of this, he immediately realized that this practice was not advisable, and warned Qiu Yingying to keep her distance from Ying Qin in the future, let alone go on a private date with him.
Despite this, Ying Qin is already a person with a fiancée, and such an encounter can easily stir up strife.
Despite this, Qiu Yingying did not take Guan Juer's advice, and she still chose to go out on dates with Ying Xian at night, and often checked Ying Xian's Weibo updates in front of the computer.
Unfortunately, it did happen, and Ying Qin and Qiu Yingying were beaten by Ying Qin's fiancée and her men, and both were seriously injured and taken to the hospital.
After entering the hospital, Qiu Yingying was surrounded by her neighbors on the 22nd floor, but neither her beloved Ying Cheng nor her relatives greeted her.
When she wakes up, she first asks Ying Qin what happened, and tearfully hopes that Fan Shengmei can help her take care of Ying Qin, because she thinks that Ying Qin has been hurt more seriously than she is.
In addition, she also found it very unpleasant that Andy did not provide enough funds to help Ying transfer to the hospital, and she even told Fan Shengmei that her boyfriend was more important than her friends.
Andy obviously won't bother with her, he paid the money and left, Qu Xiaoxuan felt very speechless about her, even Fan Shengmei felt a little disappointed, and even Guan Juer, who had a good relationship with Qiu Yingying, began to keep a certain distance from Qiu Yingying.
Despite this situation, Fan Shengmei eventually visited Ying Qin instead of her and learned about the current situation of Ying Jia's family for her.
In addition, Guan Juer also took the initiative to prevent Ying's mother from visiting Qiu Yingying, because she knew that Qiu Yingying's injury was already very serious at this moment, and she could no longer withstand greater psychological pressure. Therefore, she will do her best to get her mother to avoid meeting Qiu Yingying for the time being, so as to reduce her mood swings.
However, Ying's mother said to Guan Juer: "Dear girl, I don't know much about the tradition of young people in the metropolis in love. If the little girls here learn that their ex-boyfriend has a fiancée, will they often go out alone at night to have dinner with their ex-boyfriend?Isn't this common?”
Guan Juer clearly felt her mother's deep affection for Qiu Yingying, but at this critical moment, she didn't know how to respond. She knew that Ying's family and Ying's fiancée would not let go of Qiu Yingying easily.
Later, Ying Qin's fiancée came to Qiu Yingying's door, which made the friends of No. 22 very worried, so they suggested that Dr. Zhao intervene and transfer Qiu Yingying to another hospital. In order to ensure that Qiu Yingying can be transferred to the hospital smoothly, everyone injected her with ** sleeping pills before that.
After the incident, Qiu Yingying found that she had been successfully transferred to the hospital, and Ying Qin may face a dilemma. She cares about Ying Qin very much, insists that she wants to rescue him, and insists that if Andy doesn't pay to help Ying Qin, it is the behavior that should not be.
Later, when everyone was not paying attention, Qiu Yingying quietly left the hospital to find Ying Qin. As a result, everyone had to intervene in Ying's family's affairs, but Yingjia's problems became complicated, her friends were not obligated to help Yingqin, and Yingjia and Yingqin's attitude towards Qiu Yingying was not friendly.
After that, everyone assisted Ying's family to solve the problem of his fiancée and successfully rescued Yingqin. Both Ying Jia and Ying Qin expressed their gratitude to Qiu Yingying, but only to express their gratitude.
Although everyone was deeply disappointed, only Qiu Yingying seemed particularly happy, and she thought that she should be grateful, because with her in her heart, there must be more opportunities between the two.
I can understand how painful it is to fall out of love, but I can't understand why everything is in the past, that man already has a fiancée, why do you have to go out on dates with him so often, be his mental trash can, and help his family deal with those old things afterwards, and people don't necessarily look at you.
However, Qiu Yingying's performance in this regard is really disappointing. In order to cater to Ying Routing, she did not hesitate to intervene, even at the expense of angering all her friends. She is extremely selfish, because in her opinion, attendance may be the most appropriate choice. Therefore, she must hold on to this, even if it means giving up her dignity.
The marital relationship between Qiu Yingying and Ying Qin was established through "fraudulent" means.
At first, Ying Mu was actually very clear about her attitude, she said:
Xiao Qiu, I strongly disagree with your desire to become a couple with Ying Qin. Our Ying family is just an ordinary and well-behaved family, and it is our life's responsibility to find a suitable daughter-in-law. Life is long, there will be all kinds of challenges and **, we have no other expectations, nor do we pursue your family background or appearance, we are looking for a person who knows how to measure, abides by principles, and can spend his life in peace. We can't afford to lose our integrity just because we hear a few sweet words or receive a few frivolous pieces of clothing. We don't need you. ”
This description is very clear, the daughter-in-law they expect should be the kind of honest and trustworthy family, and it is definitely not a girl like Qiu Yingying who has problems in the first love and mistakes in the second love.
In addition, the situation of Ying's family is also quite bad, and he is entangled by Yingqin's fiancée. Ying's mother even left a note for Qiu Yingying, hoping that she could help their family, and use Qiu Yingying's affection for duty so that she could use her own resources to save their family. When it was over, she simply thanked her.
Ying Mu has a contemptuous attitude towards a girl like Qiu Yingying in her heart, and Ying Qin's love for Qiu Yingying does not seem to be deep.
But in the end, why did Qiu Yingying choose to enter the palace of marriage with Ying Qin?
In this, Ying Father played a crucial role.
Although Ying's mother did not have a good impression of Qiu Yingying, the real decision-making power was still in the hands of Ying's father. In fact, Ying's father did not meet Qiu Yingying, including Ying's hospitalization and the woman's arrival at the hospital, Ying's father did not intervene.
In the end, the reason behind letting him reveal the truth to Qiu Yingying was that there was a ** dialed by Qiu Yingying's mobile phone, but it was Guan Juer who answered.
Qiu Yingying was very nervous and uneasy in that **, she was afraid that she would not be able to speak clearly, so she asked Guan Guan for assistance. This time, Guan Juer reached out to help, and it was precisely because of this ** that Ying's father's attitude towards Qiu Yingying changed.
Ying Qin's father felt that Xiao Qiu was indebted in the small section, but he performed quite well in the big section and was full of affection, so he agreed that she and Ying Qin were together. He said that this matter was decided by him, and Ying Qin's mother had given his consent.
Guan Juer's ** communication style is very organized, which makes Ying Father mistakenly think that the person on the other end is Qiu Yingying. At first, everyone didn't understand why Ying's father's attitude had changed in such a way, but after in-depth analysis, everyone realized that Ying's father mistakenly thought that Guan Juer was Qiu Yingying.
Qiu Yingying realized at this critical moment that the seriousness of the matter was beyond her expectations, so she chose to continue to deceive the other party until they got married. When things became no longer so simple, she decided not to meet her father again, which was the most important reason for her decision.
But this is absolutely impossible. After Qiu Yingying was discharged from the hospital, her mother suggested that she live in Yingqin's house. Although Qiu Yingying didn't feel it was appropriate to do so, she chose to move in and planned not to come out again once she had moved in. However, Ying's father called ** again at this time, because he thought that moving in before marriage was not a good choice, and his impression of Qiu Yingying may not be as he imagined.
At this critical moment, Qiu Yingying once again asked Guan Juer for help. But Guan Juer had already learned the truth of the matter, and she decided not to do it, because she knew that deception would not lead to good results. However, under Qiu Yingying's pleading, she finally agreed to record her thoughts and hoped that Qiu Yingying could call her in person.
This time, Father Ying was deceived again. However, it didn't take long for Qiu Yingying to visit Ying Shi in the hospital. There, she meets Ying Qin's father, and Qiu Yingying becomes very nervous. She is not Guan Juer, no matter how she disguises, she will not act like Guan Juer. Therefore, she decided to talk to Ying Qin less. After that, she discussed with Ying Qin how to reduce mistakes before marriage, Ying Qin answered all the questions of Ying Jia's parents, and all the questions of Qiu family's parents were answered by Qiu Yingying.
Qiu Yingying resolved the crisis again, but Ying's father had already begun to have doubts about her at this time. He realized that the Qiu Yingying he expected after the two met was obviously different from the Qiu Yingying he actually met, and there was a big difference between the two, which made Ying's father deeply suspicious of her.
Therefore, Qiu Yingying turned to her parents for help at this critical time, and she told them: "I really like Ying Qin, I want him." Please help me enlist their support. ”
Indeed, in order to be with Ying Qin, she hoped that her parents would whisper to Ying Jia. In order to make the Ying family think that the Qiu family is not a family that lacks rules, Qiu's father slapped Qiu Yingying hard in front of the Ying family's parents and accused her of not meddling.
In reality, these efforts were in vain. Later, Ying's father and mother even arranged for someone to disguise themselves as intermediaries, claiming that the house had been rented out, and that Qiu Yingying and her mother had already lived in Ying Qin's home, and Qiu Yingying had completely left the Ode to Joy community.
On the day of the agency's trouble, Qiu Yingying and her family had no choice but to return to Ode to Joy. Unfortunately, Qiu Yingying's room has been occupied by Fan Shengmei, and the dark room where Fan Shengmei used to live has become part of the new tenant. To save money, she and her mother laid a floor in the living room, while her father laid a floor in the hallway on the 22nd floor.
In addition, her father left home early the next morning to go to the hospital. Because Ying Qin was discharged from the hospital that day, her father had to talk to Ying Jia in a low voice. In fact, Ying's family didn't want to recognize Qiu Yingying, but when Yingqin came home and found that Qiu Yingying was not there, his emotions became very excited. At this time, Ying's parents suddenly changed the situation, explained that everything was a misunderstanding, and suggested that Qiu Yingying move back.
After this experience, Qiu's father fully understood the true intentions of the Ying family, and he said:
They told us that Yingying should not try to control their children. This time there was a little trouble, and our momentum immediately weakened, and when Yingying saw that they were three points shorter, she didn't want to fight with them anymore.
They also showed us that they have the means to do anything to us at any time, and that Yingying will have to choose to follow their instructions in the future. They also told me that when he was with her, they were like two people, and they would quarrel and get much better after the fight. After all, although they eventually came to the palace of marriage, the specific date of the marriage was no longer a discharge procedure agreed upon by them in advance. They said we would wait for him to come back, because we are his children and we are his parents, so he will definitely come back. Are they now saying they want to act now, or are they grateful to us, and we should be grateful to them.
Our height has been lowered another notch. Don't mention anything like the bride price.
I think that if it weren't for the fact that Xiao Ying really has a deep affection for us Yingying, it is obvious that the relationship between the two children seems to have become closer this time. Both of us are quite honest, both of us are raised by our family, and our family can be regarded as a big family. Moreover, at first glance, we are all good people, dignified, and unwilling to play scoundrels, unlike the one in front who occupies the nest and does not move the nest, our family is reasonable, so they are not worried that we will take advantage of the Ying family in the future.
As long as we have the slightest difference, they won't demand anything from us. They are a very characteristic girl, her voice is sweet and gentle, and her eyes are clear and bright. ”
Qiu Yingying married Ying Qin, her marriage lacked dignity and love, was extremely humble, and after marriage, she could only be obedient.
Before getting married, Ying's mother wanted her to cut off contact with her former friends in Ode to Joy, and Yingqin hoped that she would not go out to work after marriage, but stay at home as a housewife and take care of his daily life.
In this marriage, Qiu Yingying's friends not only helped her solve the problems in her life, but also caused problems for her family. But afterwards, she did not express her gratitude. In Qiu Yingying's eyes, her boyfriend is worth more than her friends, and this selfish attitude is too cold.
What's even more surprising is that the Ying family married a daughter-in-law without spending any money. Qiu Yingying has neither friends nor a job, why did she choose to marry Ying Qin so accommodatingly?
As the Ying family is weighing the pros and cons, the Qiu family is also considering various interests.
For a family like Qiu Yingying, it is undoubtedly a rare opportunity to be able to marry Ying Qin and develop steadily in Haishi. Qiu Yingying's feelings for diligence were deep and firm, and she even gave up her self-esteem. Qiu Yingying's parents also did not hesitate to submit and compromise for the sake of their daughter's future, only hoping that she could marry the person they liked.
Although Qiu Yingying has no friends and no job, can she really maintain a long-term relationship with Ying Qin in marriage?
I really don't know, but I know that in this world, there are many women like Qiu Yingying. In order to pursue marriage, they gave up their friends and jobs, and devoted themselves to their families every day. They do not seek the wealth of a man, love him with all their hearts, and never cause him any trouble. They are very obedient and humble.
I really hope that Qiu Yingying can always love Ying Qin so much, and Ying Qin is also a moral person, and he will not leave Qiu Yingying in the end.
In any case, I really don't have a good impression of Qiu Yingying, and I really hope that there will not be a woman like Qiu Yingying in this world, because her humble personality makes it difficult for people to have a good impression of her.