Young love, many of them are the compensatory part of some missing parts of family affection, and the willingness to appreciate each other unconditionally and want to love and protect each other is indeed not fake at all. Therefore, when the other party says that he is neglected by his family and pushed away by the impermanence of the world called growth, even if he knows that the other party has a hedgehog-like barb in his heart, he is willing to tolerate it with the softness of his heart and is willing to take a step back.
However, our respective personalities polished by life circumstances will eventually make each other understand - as long as the other party's family does not give up on their children 100%, there are few friendships and loves between people, and they can pay more for their children than each other's parents. When you get along day and night, you understand the other party's more helplessness, and what you can do with each other is to find a suitable distance with each other in a lasting intimate relationship, and help each other understand themselves better and love themselves more.
The author of this book divides the states of different singles into nine states, such as "virtual singleness", "social fear singleness", and "suspension singleness", and makes readers understand the intimate relationship between adults by analyzing the attachment state of adults, determine their own identification with intimacy, and vividly integrate into the social status quo and Internet terminology, and accurately display the social status quo of young people about intimacy, mild fear, expectation but dare not take the first step, and commitment so they are unwilling to easily enter into marriage.
And, continuing the style of the previous work "How to Hug a Hedgehog", it still selects film and television works for each single mode, so that readers can truly understand the feelings of others while relieving their own anxiety, and can truly recognize their expectations for love, as well as the only footnote they will write for love - after all, their own love, which belongs to every unparalleled in the world, will always be unique, even if some time ago, in the eyes of the people around them, they are showing a "social phobia-style single" In fact, it's just because there are people who can't let go of the heart, and they don't want to give up the signs of "giving the other party a chance to chase themselves" easily, and the next step, simply because of the fear of being urged to marry, directly make a payment of themselves is obviously a "virtual single", "I have already given my heart to giegie", in fact, as long as a new WeChat of the person who is secretly placed on the top can be blown up full of anticip......ation
This book also adds the module of "Who is the most suitable for xx-style singleness", using poetic language to "push" readers of each single mode to describe the most suitable type of person, hoping that everyone who really finds the right half by reading this book can really read these words to the right person, so that their love has a poetic beginning.