"Tiandao" is a TV series loved by the audience, adapted from Doudou's ** "Distant Savior". ** Ying in the play is a business geek who has a different way of thinking and extraordinary business intelligence. In the play, **Ying's sister Ding Qiuhong once said: "My brother doesn't have many friends, just a few, and even fewer can speak." This simple sentence tells the truth about adult socialization.
Socializing is an integral part of human society, it can help us build relationships, expand our network, and get support and help. However, as we get older, we find that socializing becomes more complex and difficult to maintain. Ding Qiuhong's words reflect the reality that adults' social circles are often limited, and there are even fewer friends who can really speak.
Growing up, we meet all kinds of people, some of whom will be our friends, and some of whom will be just passers-by. And over time, our living environment, work experience, values, etc. will change, which will also affect our social circle. We will find that once good friends may drift apart for various reasons, and new friends need time to form deep friendships.
In addition, adult socialization often carries a certain utilitarian nature. At work, we need to connect with colleagues, customers, partners, etc., and these relationships are often based on the needs of the job and lack a real emotional bond. And in life, we may also associate with certain people for various reasons, such as to expand our network and obtain resources. These relationships, while also bringing some benefits, often lack genuine emotional communication.
So, how do you find real friends in a limited social circle?First of all, we need to be clear about our values and interests, and find people who share our interests. These people tend to share common topics and interests with us, and it is easier to form deep friendships. Second, we need to put in the time and effort to maintain social relationships. True friendship takes time to cultivate and precipitate, and we need to keep in touch with friends frequently, share the bits and pieces of life, and care about each other's growth and development.
Finally, we need to learn to reject social interactions that don't make sense. In socializing, we may meet people who are warm and friendly on the surface, but who are actually just trying to take advantage of us. For these people, we need to be vigilant, learn to say no, and avoid wasting time and energy.
In short, **Ying's sister's words tell the truth of adult socialization, that is, the friends who can really speak are often limited. In social interaction, we need to be clear about our values and interests, find like-minded people, devote time and energy to maintaining social relationships, and learn to reject meaningless social interactions. Only in this way can we find true friends and establish sincere friendships in our limited social circles.
The time when the TV series was broadcast was reviewed, and a lot of the content in ** was deleted, for example: **Ying and Han Chufeng whipped traditional culture, **Ying went to Wutai Mountain to discuss with the masters, etc., these are just flashes in the TV series, but there are detailed dialogues in **, everyone must have gained a lot from reading it.
The most classic is not actually the storyline, but the TV series only saves the storyline, and a lot of wisdom is not shown, everyone wants to understand more "Tiandao" intelligence, after watching the TV series, there is no sense of method, as long as we can better understand the in-depth truth conveyed to us by the author.
In addition to this "Distant Savior", there are two other works of the same classic by the author: "Betrayal" and "Red Dust in the Sky", these three ** are called "Doudou Trilogy" by readers, these three books have a strong sense of idealism, they are full of Doudou's wisdom about business, and I believe it can help everyone.
Reading Doudou's works can give everyone a new direction in the time of confusion, find the strength to start again in the time of frustration, and make everyone more confident in the business competition and smoother on the road to victory.
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