To be a man should be like a master who has mountains and valleys in mind when painting, and to do things like deep still water, not arrogant, not impetuous, not impetuous. Life is essentially a colorful painting, and each of us is a painter of it. There are joy, anger, sorrow, parting, reunion, and various understandings of life. Really smart people have already figured out the secret: be a man, open up the pattern, do things, and relax the mind. This is the true meaning of life and the motto of the wise.
Large patterns bring a more comfortable life. For example, the eagle spreads its wings and soars in the sky, not because of its huge size, but because its heart has penetrated the small space and embraced the vast sky. On the contrary, a person with a small structure always has only a small part of the visible world. They are like frogs at the bottom of a well, thinking that if they have a small piece of sky above them, they have the whole world. They are trapped in their own small circle, so busy with trivial matters that they forget to look up at the outside world.
The world is so big, and we are always subject to a lot of external interference. Only by looking at the world from a larger perspective can we determine what the crisis is and what the solution is to each time. By keeping the big picture in mind, we can compose and write as easily as a master. We know it's time to emphasize, it's time to downplay. We won't get stuck in the current difficulties because we know it's all about a better future.
Only by looking at the world from a broader perspective can we seize opportunities and control the pace of life. From a big point of view, our lives are like a symphony of passion, with ups and downs, but always very exciting. We know when to move forward and when to go back. We do not intend to pursue superficial prosperity and glory. Because we know that true success isn't about how much you have, it's about how much you give.
The pattern determines your destination and who you will become. Someone said: "Life is like a play, the important thing is not the length, but how to perform." "It's like a great drama. They don't worry about temporary gains and losses. This is because we know that this is an essential experience and asset in life.
So how can we cultivate the big picture?The answer is both simple and complex: relax your mind. If your mind is relaxed, the world will naturally become bigger, but if your heart is narrow, even the largest place will feel cramped and uneasy. To relax the mind is to learn to be patient, to understand, to be grateful, and to cherish. Be tolerant of people and things that are different from your own, understand seemingly complex and difficult truths, be grateful to those who have given you help and support, and cherish your relatives and friends who spend time with you.
It's not easy to be a big-picture person. Because you need to keep learning, thinking, practicing, understanding. However, as long as we experience and practice with our hearts, we will gradually be able to open up our own pattern, relax our minds, and make our lives more colorful.
Everything in life is a source of wisdom and a ladder of growth. If you use your heart to understand and experience, you will definitely be able to draw infinite wisdom and strength from it, and make your life wider and more profound. Really smart people understand that as a human being, you have to open up your patterns and do things you have to relax your mind. This is not only the wisdom of life, but also the philosophy of life, and the attitude and values of life that each of us should pursue and uphold.