Wen Lingling.
In a relationship, if a man really loves you, then you are everywhere he looks, and he is all about you in his heart.
If a man doesn't love you, then he won't care about you, he won't take into account your feelings, and he won't think about things from your point of view, he only cares about himself, he only loves himself, he only cares about himself, but he is indifferent to you and very indifferent.
When a man doesn't love you anymore and starts to change his mind, then he has nothing to say to you, and he doesn't want to communicate with you, and he doesn't want to see you, he starts to cut off contact with you, he doesn't want to reply to you, and he doesn't want to involve you too much.
In love, if you can't feel the temperature of a man's love for you, then you should not deceive yourself, don't have any illusions, but learn to let go and leave, and learn to love yourself.
You should also understand that men don't love you anymore and start to show these 3 moves.
1. I don't want to communicate with you, and I don't bother to talk to you.
When you start to find that the attitude of the man around you has changed, you have to pay attention to the premise of all changes of heart is actually because you don't love you.
Only when I don't love you anymore will I start to be indifferent to you, I don't want to take care of you, I don't want to pick up your topic, I won't communicate with you if I have something, I will do my own, live my own, and I won't talk to you when I get home from work, when you are air.
At this time, you feel very twisted, and you would rather quarrel with him, and you want to ask why you are doing this.
When a man starts to use cold violence against you, it means that he no longer loves you, begins to dislike you, begins to want to leave you, or is already planning how to leave you, no matter what you say, he remains silent, refuses to communicate, and does not look at you, indicating that there is really no you in his heart.
In fact, a man loves you, has something to say to you every day, and will communicate and discuss with you even if he encounters anything at home.
Communication is a way for two people to have a stable relationship, and if you don't communicate, it is the index of the problem and the most hurtful.
When two people get along, when you find that the man is unwilling to communicate with you and discuss things with you, it means that he is no longer in love.
Second, it was found that the man had been coming to transfer assets and would not let you know.
One day, you start to find out that after the man marries you, all the money and all the assets that he has been hiding from you from the beginning are actually a small part, and most of the assets are actually not in your joint account, but have been transferred.
The man who does this actually doesn't love you from the beginning, and he never trusts you at all, and he is afraid that when you can't get along with him, he will share his money.
When he transfers assets, he doesn't want to give you a penny at all, and you can't take away his money as soon as you leave.
Such a man is very selfish.
When you find out that a man treats you like this, you have to know whether he has someone outside, whether he wants to leave you, and whether everything has been planned for a long time.
Only after seeing a man's heart can you leave resolutely.
A man who really loves you will worry about whether you have money to spend, and will even take the initiative to hand over your salary, never guard against you, and always be honest with you.
3. No longer cares about you, and it doesn't care about your feelings.
When a man loves you, he is always very caring, he will care about your every move, he will care about you everywhere, he will come to pick you up from work, he will buy vegetables and cook, share housework, he will give you some sense of ritual, let you feel romantic, will notice your emotional changes, feel your joys and sorrows, will tolerate you, accommodate you, and understand you.
When a man doesn't love you, he starts to ignore you, he starts to care about your feelings, even if you come back from work late, he won't give you a hot meal, he won't sit on the sofa and wait for you, but just swipe his phone, play games, and live in his own world.
Zhang Ailing said that people who really love you will not say many words that love you, but they will do many things that love you.
When a man doesn't love and changes his mind, he starts to stop caring, he loses patience with you, he loses his care, he doesn't care what you like to eat, he doesn't care about whether your emotions are happy or happy.
In his eyes, you are no longer important, you are already dispensable. In the end, the two of them also ended up in non-stop internal friction.
You will never be able to keep a person who insists on leaving, if you don't love it, you just don't love it.
We don't have to force it, others don't love us, then we love ourselves.
When we are independent enough, strong in heart, sober and open-minded, then even if a man doesn't love himself, he can get out of it.
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