The sea is a city without walls, and you seem to be an impenetrable fog.
Every person in love longs for a definite commitment to be the only being.
There are countless kinds of love, but none of them can hide the truth of love.
When you start to doubt someone's love for you, you already have the answer in your heart.
Love and non-love are embodied in the most ordinary daily life, and actions are far more real than words.
When a man completely stops loving you, he will exhibit the following three characteristics: First, he will no longer pay attention to you.
There is a good saying: "Time is the greatest Zen master, making you believe or not believe."
With the passage of time, he who was once inseparable from you slowly becomes dispensable to you.
For him, everything about you becomes unimportant, as if watching a fire from the other side.
He no longer cares about your joys and sorrows as much as he used to, and his concerns become indifferent.
In the face of your occasional petty temper, he is no longer as tolerant as before, but coldly retorts.
For your admonition and nagging, he is no longer as moved as before, only frowning and bored.
It's not that you've changed, it's not that he's changed, it's just that his love isn't so deep anymore.
When the feelings fade, the bottom of the heart will naturally no longer swell with tenderness and joy.
As the saying goes, "For the person you love, trivial things can also trigger a reaction;For those who don't love, no matter how big things are, they can be brushed aside.
You used to be the one he had to dry his hands in the shower, but now it's just his "can't read".
No matter how much you ask, he will only answer "very busy", which in fact means "you are not important".
The people who love you will always put you first, and the people who don't love you will feel that anything but you is more important than you.
You can see the change in his love for you because you have seen him love you in the past.
Second, choose not to break down.
Sometimes, people prefer to play dumb rather than face reality, just to stall for time.
However, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.
Instead of spending anticipation in disappointment, it is better to let go of the other party and yourself.
In the end, the beginning and end of the story are often sudden.
Reminds me of my former colleague Michael.
Michael and her boyfriend have been in love for more than two years, and their relationship is plain but happy.
However, my boyfriend has to go to work in a different place because of his family.
Mi Ke was going to go with him, she felt that no matter what she was working at, as long as she could be by her boyfriend's side.
However, her boyfriend refused her request, citing the fear that he would not be able to take care of her because he was too busy.
Gradually, Michael found that her boyfriend was becoming more and more indifferent to her, and in the end, she didn't even reply.
Everyone craves the affirmation of love, but sometimes we have to face the brutal truth.
Love is not static, it goes through ups and downs and changes.
When a person no longer loves you, his behavior will gradually be revealed.
As painful as the process is, letting go is also a relief.
Only when we no longer have expectations can we truly find our own happiness.
She kept working hard to save this relationship, posting small compositions, posting moments, and sharing her mood and songs.
However, her boyfriend's non-response to her starts to break down, so she decides to go to her boyfriend's city, only to be "Let's forget it."
Only then did she realize that it had already been a complete disappointment.
When a person no longer loves you, they will choose to stay away silently, and even the explanation will feel redundant.
However, all that has been read and not returned is quietly moving away, no longer touching you.
Sophie Marceau once said, "My body rejected this assumption earlier than the mind, and the body was always the most honest, perhaps for more primitive reasons."
A smile can be faked, words can lie, but body language and eyes cannot be hidden.
When he loves you, he can't help but want to be close to you, both physically and inwardly;He doesn't love you anymore, every cell in his body is resisting, always trying to keep his distance from you.
Ann once recalled her time with her ex-boyfriend.
At first, everything was beautiful, he liked to tilt his head to look at her, he would hug her tightly on rainy days, and let her lean in the crook of his arm every day when he went to sleep.
However, as time went on, Ann began to feel his coldness towards her.
It wasn't until her boyfriend proposed to break up and she had a new love the next day that she realized that in fact, he had already told her with his body that it was over between them.
In fact, people who say "I love you" but always stay away from you are like a person who never waters flowers and says he loves flowers.
By the time one is leaving, a lot of things have changed.
In that case, stop wishful thinking.
Someone said: "The reason why a relationship fails is not that you are not worthy of love, but that you are not worthy of love."
When you find that the other person has become cold and no longer gives you the same as before, maybe it's time to let go.
Because, a man who is willing to pay for you does not necessarily love you, but a man who is not willing to kiss you must not love you.
Whether it is listening to love or seeing love, it is not as real as feeling love with your body.
This is a passage about life, which tells us that life is short, and that we should cherish our time, let go of those things that are not worthwhile, and follow those people and things that lead us forward.
Each of us has our own future and return, but as long as we move forward firmly, we will be close to happiness.
In this long rest of our lives, we must find the person who is truly worthy of our life together.
That's what life is all about, because we love the world and the people around us.