In 1990, a Qiong Yao drama caused a huge sensation at the time, and the actors in the play also emerged. Jin Ming, who played the leading role in the play, won the love of many fans with his excellent acting skills, and even the young Sa Beining expressed to his family that he hoped to marry Jin Ming as his wife in the future.
However, Jin Ming, who was just popular, suddenly disappeared from the entertainment industry, time flew by, and the 33-year-old reappeared in the public eye in a blind date show, and she still remains single.
So, why did Jin Ming choose to leave the entertainment industry when his career was in full swing?What is her current state of life?
In 1980, Jin Ming was born as a premature baby with dystocia, and because she was frail and sickly at birth, her parents regarded her as a treasure and took good care of her. As the only daughter in the family, Jin Ming is very pampered, and her parents have high hopes for her, expecting her to make a difference in the future.
Therefore, they did their best to create an environment for her to grow up and pave the way for her future.
Since childhood, Jin Ming has received special courses carefully arranged by his parents, including ballet, painting and playing. Her parents are also actively learning Xi various knowledge, which they then patiently pass on to their daughter.
Under the careful education of her parents, Jin Ming gradually grew up, not only smart and clever, but also her facial features became more and more exquisite, especially her big watery eyes, which are lovely.
She excelled in her Xi and specialty courses and was highly praised by her teachers.
Jin Ming, a gentle and introverted little princess, is always coquettish on her parents' knees and shares interesting stories at school. In 1989, when director Liu Lili was looking for the actor of "Little Wanjun" in the TV series "Wanjun", Jin Ming's mother, the props master of the crew, accidentally mentioned this incident to her husband on the way home.
Looking at the lively and lovely daughter beside them, they suddenly had an idea and decided to take her to the audition. The next day, Jin Ming, who was only 8 years old, was led by his mother to the audition site.
She was wearing a light blue shirt and a small skirt, with two braids tied with pink ribbons at the end, looking lively and cute.
As soon as screenwriter Qiong Yao saw Jin Ming, her eyes lit up, she was in her mind"Xiao Wanjun"image. Qiong Yao decided to let Jin Ming play this role at the moment, and there was no need for others to audition.
Jin Ming was very happy to get this role, she immediately began to Xi her role, although she did not receive professional acting training, but under the patient guidance of the staff, she quickly adapted to the filming work.
In the TV series, she can truly show the strong feelings of the crying scene according to the needs of the plot, and tears burst out of her eyes;At the same time, when she needs to show happy and playful shots, she can also be lively and cute, and the performance is just right.
Whenever her mother came to the crew to pick her up, the crew would praise Jin Ming for her well-behaved and obedient, her acting talent was amazing, and everyone believed that she would be able to show her strength in the future.
Through the training of this TV series, Jin Ming's enthusiasm for acting has become increasingly high, and he has gradually determined his future acting path.
After the broadcast of "Wanjun", Xiao Jinming's image of "Little Wanjun" quickly won the love of the audience, and became famous for a while, becoming a well-known "national girl".
At that time, Sa Beining was only 14 years old, but he often pointed to Jin Ming on TV and told his family that he wanted to marry her when he grew up, which caused everyone to laugh non-stop.
After becoming popular with "Wanjun", Jin Ming received countless notices, but her parents insisted that she put her Xi first in order to ensure her future, and even refused some film invitations.
Jin Ming also understands her parents' intentions very well, so in addition to her busy work, she is also trying to maintain her studies. Although this made her Xi progress a little slower than her peers, her parents also consulted a lot of tutors for this.
Jin Ming has never relaxed, and in her spare time, she always picks up textbooks and Xi, and because of this, her studies have not been greatly impacted. Between career and study, Jin Ming was successfully admitted to the School of International Relations of Peking University in 1999 with excellent results, which was another wish of her before becoming an actor.
In order to be able to study Xi wholeheartedly, Jin Ming decided to put aside his acting career for the time being.
In campus life, although everyone knows that she was a child star, she still keeps a low profile, focuses on her Xi, and gives up the opportunity to participate in many popular film and television works such as "Huanzhu Gege".
However, what Jin Ming didn't expect was that the Xi at Peking University was much more difficult than she expected. Although she has always maintained the top 10 academic Xi grades in the school during her high school years, she feels an unprecedented challenge at Peking University.
She put in a lot of effort at Peking University to barely keep up with most of her classmates. However, her parents were unaware of her hardships at school and were still proud of her.
They happily showed off to their relatives and friends that Jin Ming must be fast and good when he Xi at Peking University. However, in order not to disappoint his parents, Jin Ming had to fight hard and force himself to study Xi harder.
After four years of study, Jin Ming finally succeeded in obtaining a Bachelor of Arts degree in International Relations, with the help and support of his classmates and teachers. After graduating from college, she returned to the entertainment industry and became a member of an art troupe.
However, now she is no longer the child star who once shined, and she can no longer attract the attention of the audience. Facing the outside world against her"It shouldn't come back"'s doubts and criticism, Jin Ming was also troubled in his heart.
In order to regain her former glory, Jin Ming is constantly looking for opportunities in the entertainment industry, but the reality has hit her again and again. Her resume was ignored and auditions were scarce.
Even if there is an occasional opportunity, it is just some inconspicuous small roles, the proud daughter of the sky in the past, and now it has been reduced to an existence that no one cares about.
Jin Ming experienced several years of hardship, living on only a meager salary, and she began to question her living space in the entertainment industry. She realizes that the glory of her childhood as a child star may have become the pinnacle of her life, and any other pursuit may become meaningless.
This sense of powerlessness forgotten by the world is eroding her heart, and Jin Ming understands that if she doesn't make changes, she will only fall deeper and deeper in the whirlpool of the entertainment industry.
So, she plucked up the courage and decided to say goodbye to her career as an actress and transform into a host.
After graduation, Jin Ming no longer devoted himself to Xi as before, but turned to the hosting industry, hosting some small variety shows and talk shows. Although the hosting work is not as smooth as the performance, it has allowed Jin Ming to regain his self-confidence, find the direction of his life, and feel unprecedented peace in his heart.
After Jin Ming's career is stable, he hopes to find someone to accompany him. After graduating from college, she had two relationships, both of which ended in failure. The first boyfriend is a typical "mom treasure man", he behaved very well at the beginning, he was very considerate of Jin Ming, the distance between the two was just right, and Jin Ming also had a good impression of this man.
However, when Jin Ming thought that he had finally found the Prince Charming he had been waiting for for many years, the boy suddenly became no longer the same as before. No matter how big or small, he has to discuss with his mother, and even accompany him to go shopping.
What made Jin Ming even more unacceptable was that the man asked her why he didn't have his exclusive slippers when he came to the door for the first time. This made her very angry, and she felt that the boy didn't take her seriously at all.
In the end, she chose to break up and couldn't bear it.
Jin Ming met his second boyfriend after work, and the two fell in love because of their many collaborations and quickly established a relationship. Jin Ming is full of expectations for this relationship, and she believes that this may be the true destiny she has been looking for.
However, a few months later, the boy proposed to Jin Ming, who was ecstatic, thinking that he had finally found true love and could live a happy married life.
Jin Ming once met a man, and at first she thought that his feelings for her were sincere. However, she later discovers that this man only acts like he is superior and enjoys the praise of others when he is present with outsiders.
This emotional setback made Jin Ming understand that she can no longer be obsessed with the pursuit of love, but should let herself live more freely and freely. She believes that the love that belongs to her will eventually come, which is her belief and her persistence.
So, in 2013, 33-year-old Jin Ming appeared on a blind date show. Although she still longs to find a partner in her heart, in the end, Jin Ming did not find her favorite person in the show.
Over time, she came to understand that the ideal marriage must be based on deep affection and cannot be forced.
After years of precipitation, Jin Ming learned to look at emotions rationally. She began to think that perhaps it was her overly obsessive expectations and doubts about her self-worth that led to the emotional twists and turns.
Now Jin Ming is independent enough and no longer needs emotions to prove his worth. Now, although she is 43 years old, she still remains single, seemingly "nothing", but her life is very satisfying, perhaps, being single allows her to have more time to pursue her interests, which is also a kind of happiness for her.
Jin Ming understands that it is impossible for everyone to fully meet the expectations of others. She learned to accept her imperfections, to stop running away and being anxious, and to focus more on herself.
Now, she's starting to participate in reality TV shows, Xi learning new skills, and in the rest of her time, she's looking for her favorite plays to perform.
Jin Ming is currently focusing on Xi and chasing her dreams again, which belong to different stages of her life. She realized that cherishing the present moment and paying attention to every bit of warmth in life was the way to find peace and happiness within her.
Looking back on Jin Ming's growth process, although it is full of difficulties, she can still stay free and easy, and she is grateful for everything she has now. Her attitude is worth learning from Xi, because only by learning to love and accept yourself can every day be full of sunshine.