I remember that every winter and summer vacation, the school would distribute a lot of practice Xi books, so that I spent the whole vacation with these practice Xi books. My sister and I happened to be in the same class, and she had the same copy of my homework. As soon as the holidays began, I was doing my homework. While my sister was eating, I was doing my homework. While my sister was playing, I was still doing my homework. She would sometimes laugh at me and be in a hurry. In her opinion, the holidays are still very long, and there is no need to rush to do homework. Sometimes her mother would ask her to do her homework, but she just wouldn't listen and still had fun. 
1. Arranged family
When the child eats hard, the parents feed the child;When the child's things are thrown around, the parents follow behind the butt to clean up;If you don't want to take a bath, your parents will wring a hot towel to wipe your body ......
This kind of arranged approach is tantamount to telling the child:It doesn't matter if you don't do these things, someone will do it for you. In such a vicious circle, children will form a dependency mentality and have poor autonomy.
2. I simply don't like to do certain things
If your child is vigorous in doing something he is interested in, but when you ask him to do something, he does his best to do something, it means that he may really not like to do certain things, or he may not be interested.
Parents insist that their children do it, and the child does not want to do it, so he can only choose to procrastinate or perfunctory.
The following three methods are worth learning from.
1.Set rules and develop Xi
In elementary school, children should set corresponding rules, such as writing homework first and then playing, checking homework carefully, and packing school bags before going to bed every night. Cultivating good Xi, parents and then slowly letting go, is more conducive to the cultivation of children's consciousness and self-management ability.
Parents should appropriately delegate authority and let their children take responsibility for their own affairs, such as forgetting to write a certain assignment this time, and after getting a lesson, they will copy it down next time to avoid forgetting. Only when parents delegate power can children have the opportunity and space to manage themselves, be responsible for their own learning Xi, think about it, and gain their own valuable experience.
2.Nurture your child's ability to focus
Concentration is the foundation of all children's learning Xi, without concentration, children learn everything is three minutes of heat. Children's concentration needs to be cultivated from an early age, and it can be improved through professional and systematic training.
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3. Parents should be role models for their children, and parents and children should work together to overcome "procrastination".
The parents are the original, and the child is a copy of the parents, and this copy not only copies the genes of the parents, but also all the strengths and weaknesses of the parents. If parents want this copy to be of high quality, they must set an example for their children to set a good example Xi school.
First of all, parents need to be self-aware. First examine whether you have a bad example for your child, because imitating parents is the safest and easiest thing for children to do.
Second, have faith in yourself and self-acceptance. "Procrastination" is a stubborn disease, and its causes are many factors, and it is not easy to overcome it, and it requires a high degree of perseverance and perseverance to defeat it. However, everyone is not a perfect person, if your parents already have the problem of "procrastination", you might as well have the courage to admit and accept your imperfections, so that you can adjust your mentality and deal with it positively.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning Xi methods, the stronger the child's Xi in learning.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in the lower grades, and corresponds to the key issues in children's learning Xi, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, cultivate good XiXi learning habits, and develop good time management Xi habits from an early age.
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