Wen Qianyun.
On the plane, there was a couple who got into a loud argument over a trivial matter, regardless of being in public.
At this time, a man in the back seat kindly persuaded the young couple.
He said that his wife had ovarian cancer 10 years ago, and the doctor said that his wife only had five years to live.
As a result, his wife lived for ten years, five years longer than the doctor's lifespan.
At that time, after learning about his wife's condition, he felt like a bolt from the blue, and he didn't know what to doI don't know how to comfort my wife, and I don't dare to face my wife's absence where I will go.
However, his wife was very calm after learning of her physical condition, and in the following days, her wife never complained about why God made such a joke for her, why he only gave her a short life span of five years, did not complain about the injustice of fate, did not complain about the cruelty of life, and did not turn this grief into anger and vent it on her family. Until the last day of her own life, even though her body was tormented by illness at that time, she still faced all her family, relatives and friends with a positive attitude, full of tenderness and sunshine, and she tried her best to bring consideration and love to her family in the limited time.
The doctor said: Most people are already receiving hospice care if they are not in good health, but she is so calm and tenacious.
The man, while telling his sad things, wept bitterly.
Exhort the little couple who quarreled in front as well as the other passengers around :
Those of you who have found your loved ones should love each other well, cherish each other well, and live well.
Whenever you are dissatisfied with a seat, she doesn't make a meal on time, and he doesn't let you quarrel over a favorite bag;For him to forget your birthday, did not give you a gift, and has conflicts, cold wars, etc., please stop, think about what is really important, what really matters is the other person himself, is the love between you and each other, do not leave regrets and regrets.
It is unlikely that there will be no contradictions between husband and wife, no matter how big or small, there will still be a little bit of it.
Many couples have lived for a long time, lost their freshness, felt that the other party was no longer cute, and lived more and more passionlessly every day, becoming more and more numb, unable to find a direction, and unable to find a goal.
Living in quarrels every day, arguing over trivial things, complaining easily over trivial things, or hating each other, even to the point that there is no way to keep them, they must be separated and go their separate ways.
Actually, it's really not necessary.
When impermanence comes, everything is so insignificant.
Cherish the moment and grasp the time of today.
Spend your limited time eating and sleeping well, take care of all the people, everything, and things around you, and accompany your family with warmth and gratitude.
Don't waste your precious time on trivial matters.
Face everything with a grateful heart, and bring more understanding, tolerance or help to others within your ability.
Truly be grateful to each other and care for each other with love.
When you truly learn to be grateful, you will find that living in this world is a very beautiful thing in itself, and you will also find a lot of beauty that you have never found before.
A lot of things that keep you up at night will be let go, they won't matter anymore, and you'll cherish everything more and more.
30,000 days of life is both short and long, learn to pursue true happiness and satisfaction, and experience the infinite possibilities of life.
On the big clock of time, there are only two words - now.
Living in the present and grasping today is always a good way for us to be calm.
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