My in-laws asked me how much my pension wasI was about to say 9000, but my daughter-in-law winked at me, and I changed my words to 3000
The daughter-in-law's daughter-in-law's surname is surnamed Wang, and her mother is washing bones at home, and I will string relatives.
Before parting, my in-laws asked, "Mom, how much is your pension?"”
I want to say in my heart, it doesn't matter more or less, the important thing is that I have such a good daughter-in-law and have such a good relationship with her mother!
Three......Three thousand. "I didn't dare to look at my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang, for fear that she would be unhappy.
Three thousand. The in-laws' eyes widened, as if they were surprised.
Well, three thousand. I smiled and nodded, not daring to say anything more.
We walked slowly towards the house, surrounded by my relatives, and I was not embarrassed to talk much. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang didn't speak all the time, and she didn't know what she was thinking. I was a little flustered, and I didn't know if I should take the initiative to explain it to my in-laws.
Walking to the door of the house, the daughter-in-law surnamed Wang suddenly spoke: "Mom, why do you say three thousand?"The pension is obviously 9,000. ”
Then why did you blink at me just now?"I was a little angry, thinking that she had an opinion just now, and now she came to speak for me.
I'm afraid that if you talk too much, she will think that our family is rich. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang lowered her head and said softly.
Hey, so what?Our family is not bad for money, what does she have to mind. "I was a little dissatisfied and felt that my daughter-in-law was too restrained.
The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang glanced at me and stopped talking.
I went into the house, feeling a little sullen, not knowing what I had done wrong. My son came over and asked, and I waved my hand angrily, signaling him to leave me alone.
At night, I sat alone in the yard, in a daze.
The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang came over with a bowl: "Mom, eat some grapes." ”
I didn't answer, I didn't look at her.
Mom, you're ......The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang seemed to want to say something, but stopped.
I'm telling you, don't think I don't know that your family is in good condition!I finally couldn't help but speak.
Mom, it's me who is bad, I'm sorry. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang bowed her head and admitted her mistake.
It's not that you're bad, it's me who's bad, I shouldn't have said three thousand. I sighed, feeling that it was too unpleasant.
Mom, in fact, I also know your hardships, you are afraid that your in-laws will think that our family is rich, so you ......”
Hmph, that's right, I'm afraid she thinks our family is rich!But why should she mind?"I feel a little aggrieved and feel that my daughter-in-law is too calculating.
Mom, she's also afraid that you will say too much and let others know that you take a lot of money. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang said with some embarrassment.
I froze for a moment, but I didn't expect it to have this meaning.
I was wrong, I'm sorry. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang hurriedly added.
I looked at her and was a little moved.
Silly boy, I shouldn't be so angry. I touched the head of my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang, and said with some distress.
Mom, I won't make you sad anymore. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang had a little red circles in her eyes, and she was also a little moved.
We both smiled and felt a lot more comfortable. This daughter-in-law is still a sensible and sensible good girl.
Mom, I actually have one more thing to tell you. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang frowned and seemed to be a little hesitant.
What's the matter?I asked, a little uneasily.
That's right, ...... the other day"My daughter-in-law, surnamed Wang, began to talk about some of the conflicts between her and my son.
After listening to her story, I fell silent. My son never mentioned these things to me, and I was a little angry that he dared to hide it from me.
Mom, don't be angry, there is something wrong with my son, but I believe you can solve it. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang comforted me softly.
I let out a long sigh and felt tired. There were more and more conflicts at home, as if I had become a helpless outsider. I turned my head to look at my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang, her eyes were full of worry and apology, and I suddenly felt that she was also a victim.
Thank you for telling me this, and I'll have a good talk with my son. I hesitated.
Mom, I'll help you reconcile. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang smiled slightly, and this smile was full of firmness.
We looked at each other silently, tacitly acknowledging each other.
On this day, I sat down with my son and had a good talk, and we talked for a long time. Finally, he lowered his head and admitted his mistake. I looked him in the eye and I knew he was truly repentant. We hugged each other and cried, and the conflict at home was alleviated a little.
As the days passed, the atmosphere at home seemed to have changed somewhat. My relationship with my son has become better, and my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang has become more concerned about me. She always made me soup and asked me if I needed help. I clearly felt her kindness and intentions.
However, on a hot summer afternoon, I received a ** from my wife "Lao Zhang". Li Lao Zhang spoke in a hurried tone, saying that his family was in trouble and needed my help.
After listening to **, I hesitated for a long time. I know that going to help Lao Zhang will definitely worry my son and daughter-in-law surnamed Wang. But Lao Zhang is my husband, and he is in trouble, how can I ignore it?What should I do?
I chatted with my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang for a while, and my mood became much brighter. The daughter-in-law also seemed to be a lot happier, and the two of us chatted about family life together. But at this moment, there was a sudden knock on the door.
I got up to open the door and found that it was Xiaofang, the daughter of the neighbor Xiao Li's family. She panted and told me that she had found someone littering in our back garden, and she walked over to see that it was actually the mother of her daughter-in-law surnamed Wang. She said that she didn't want to say it, but she couldn't stand it anymore, and she was afraid that we would affect the environment of the community, so she came to tell us.
I listened to Xiaofang's words and was a little incredulous. My daughter-in-law surnamed Wang and I glanced at each other, and we felt a little uncomfortable. Then, we hurried to the back garden.
Sure enough, there was a big pile of garbage in the back garden, with plastic bags, cardboard boxes, shabby furniture, etc., which looked very messy. I was a little angry, this is the courtyard of my house, how can I tolerate someone making this place so bad?
Mom, you threw away all this garbage?The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang looked at her mother in disbelief.
Yes, I threw these all away, and there must be no one in the community to help our family throw away the garbage, so I thought it would be nice here, so I threw it away. My mom said disapprehantly.
Mom, how can you do this?This is the back garden of the community, not your home!The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang said a little angrily.
Don't worry about me, you're ignorant!Your husband has given you a job to resign and take care of the children at home, and you don't have anything to do yourself, I think your family life is very good, so I don't put pressure on you, I brought you my own ingredients, you see how fat your children are, and they can eat well!After my mother finished speaking, she turned around and went straight back to the house.
My daughter-in-law surnamed Wang and I were dumbfounded, we didn't expect my mother to become so domineering. I was a little irritable and didn't know what to do.
I looked at my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang, and I was a little moved. Perhaps, I should have been more understanding of her worries and concerns.
Mom, I won't make you sad anymore. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang had a little red circles in her eyes, and she was also a little moved.
We both smiled and felt a lot more comfortable. This daughter-in-law is still a sensible and sensible good girl.
In the following months, my relationship with my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang became better and better, and we listened more to each other's ideas and understood each other's struggles better. We can already sit together and talk about family matters, and we can also discuss family matters together.
However, something new is happening in the house. A few days ago, my son told me that he and his daughter-in-law surnamed Wang were going to take their children on a trip abroad for a while.
How does this work?One of you children is taking you so far to play abroad, what if there is any accident?I said with some anxiety.
Mom, don't worry, we'll take notice. And in this way, the family can also go out for a walk more. The son said with a smile.
But ......I was about to say something, but was interrupted by my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang.
Mom, don't worry about it. You see that you are so worried, isn't it easy for our family to relax?The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang said a little angrily.
I just think it's ......"I want to explain.
Don't talk about it, we'll take care of our own affairs. Didn't you keep saying that we want to start a family on our own?You're worried again this time. My daughter-in-law surnamed Wang interrupted me and said a little angrily.
I was a little stunned by what she said, and I felt a little uncomfortable. Yes, it is also appropriate for children to start a family and have their own way of life and decision-making. However, as parents, they are always worried about their children's safety and hope that everything will go well for them.
After a few days, I still kept it in my heart and was a little depressed. Maybe it was because I was unhappy, and my daughter-in-law surnamed Wang came to talk to me once.
Mom, I was a little impulsive before, and I made you unhappy. The daughter-in-law surnamed Wang said with some embarrassment.
When my kids are away from home, I always worry about their safety and well-being. You have to understand my feelings. I said with some emotion.
I know you're worried, but we also have our own thoughts and plans, and I hope you understand. We'll take care of it and won't let you down. "My daughter-in-law surnamed Wang held my hand tightly and spoke sincerely.
I looked at her and was a little moved. Perhaps, I should have been more understanding of her worries and concerns.
Conflicts at home may not be so easy to solve, but at least we can respect each other's decisions on the basis of mutual understanding.