In the face of love, we often have different expectations and encounter different results. For some people, they are only there to be you company, not to be permanent in your life. Everyone's encounter in this world has its cause and effect, and everything in the world has a cause and effect. Writer Tong Hua once said: "There are many kinds of encounters in the world, and the most beautiful thing is to meet you in my most beautiful time." "It's a blessing to meet the right person in a good time. Therefore, we should cherish the time we spend with each other, and don't regret it until we lose it.
In the past, Duan Yihong's family conditions were not good, so he may have some inferiority complex in his heart. Once, a female classmate in the class gave him a mango, and because he had never eaten a mango, he ate it in one bite and accidentally bit the mango pit. Duan Yihong looked very embarrassed at that time, but Tao Hong beside him didn't blame him. Due to the difficult conditions at home, Duan Yihong did not go home for the New Year in four years of college. After Tao Hong learned about it, she invited Duan Yihong to her house for the New Year, giving him warmth and care. Such a move has made Duan Yihong unforgettable. Later, in an interview with **, Duan Yihong was asked if he had a crush on a female classmate in college. He replied that Tao Hong, but Tao Hong was already someone else's wife at that time, so the relationship between them was destined not to come together. People who are really emotionally moved cannot easily forget. In the face of those who are moved but have no chance to be together, the best way is to let go.
People have different attitudes towards love depending on their age. When we are young, we pursue passionate love;And when we reach a certain age, we pay more attention to waiting in the ordinary. When we see the elderly walking hand in hand in the park, we feel envious, because it represents a silent happiness and tacit understanding. It is already a great blessing for us to meet a partner who supports each other and loves each other. However, in this era of fast-food love, it is normal not to meet the right person. Not everyone is able to find happiness. In the face of those impossible loves, we must learn to let go.
Love is a special emotion that does not disappear, it only shifts. Wang Jingjing has been married for 7 years. Her husband behaved very well to Wang Jingjing when they first started dating, and he was courteous in all kinds, but as time went on, her husband's attitude changed. Because she has seen the appearance of the other party when she loves her in the past, Wang Jingjing is very sensitive to her husband's coldness. In the past, her husband would always give her a hug when she came home, but now even when she is lying in the same bed, the two do not have a common language. For countless nights, Wang Jingjing couldn't help crying, but her husband next to her was indifferent. True love is a two-way street, and if only one party insists, then love will only disappear in the end. In the face of those who can't be loved, we must learn to let go, because time will fade the pain.
The American writer Salinger once said, "You must marry someone who laughs like you." This simple sentence expresses the true meaning of love. If two people are just going to be together, that kind of love is meaningless. Writer Rao Xueman also said: "Love is love when it's right, and love is youth when it's wrong." "However, how much time of our youth can be wasted on the wrong person?Maybe everyone needs to go through the pain of love to be truly mature, but it is not wise to use time to prove love. In the world of feelings, what we learn is to stop losses in time. For an unworthy person and an unworthy relationship, we have to say no in time, because not everyone is worth our giving. If we are always attached to a person or a relationship, we will only put ourselves in a dilemma, and in the end life will not be able to move forward. Learn to let go, let the past become the past, and let a better future come, this is the free and easy treatment of feelings. The best way to let go of a person is not to block or delete, but to gradually forget in memory, as if it had never been. Years later, looking back, we will only smile and be speechless.
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