In the countryside, there is a popular saying: "There are 3 empty in the family, and the children and grandchildren will be poor for generations." This made me think deeply about what the "three emptiness" mean and why it will lead to poverty for future generations.
Let's uncover this mystery and see the truth and practical significance.
These are the wisdom of our ancestors, and they have summed up the words based on life experienceTo a certain extent, it is also scientific.
For a family, the study is a symbol of intellectual curiosity and spirituality.
A study room with no books and utensilsIt represents the family's lack of emphasis on knowledge and culture.
This will not only affect the development of this generation, but will also make it difficult for future generations to escape poverty and truly achieve leapfrog development.
It can be said that the study room is the family's boat and vehicle tool, carrying the beam of family teaching.
Since ancient times, our ancestors have attached great importance to reading, and Xin Qiji, a great poet of the Southern Song Dynasty, refused to sell his books in the war, which also shows that he believes that books are more precious than life.
The ancients often said that there is poetry and books in the belly, which means that reading can enrich a person's connotation and improve his temperament.
If there is an empty study, then the family will inevitably be affected and become superficial and ignorant.
Further, an empty study room means that the family lacks the desire for spiritual and cultural pursuits.
A person's Xi and sentiments are often influenced by their living environment.
If you live in an empty and simple environment all day long, you will inevitably become narrow-minded and lack deep thinking, which is extremely detrimental to a person's growth.
On the contrary, if a child has lived in a beautifully furnished study room with a large collection of books since childhood, they will often unconsciously develop the Xi of reading and thinkingThis helps to open minds and develop a broader view of the world.
And a person's vision determines his height, so the study has a profound impact on family members.
Of course, the collection of books in the study can be literary or related to other disciplinesParents can guide their children to read different types of books according to their interests.
For example, if your child likes mathematics, you can buy some books related to mathematics, and if your child likes literature, you can buy some classical classics and so on.
Appropriately guide children to read some educational and encyclopedic booksYou can also increase your knowledge and expand your thinking.
More importantly, the study must be well lit and ventilated, after all, it often works long hours here, requires good environmental conditions, and uses a calm and simple color scheme, not too fancy.
The simple arrangement is conducive to people's focus on work and enjoy the fun of reading.
Of course, we should not be superstitious that the study determines the fate of a family.
After all, modern society offers more opportunitiesAnyone who works hard can change their destiny.
However, a study room with a beautiful and rich environment can undoubtedly help the family accumulate a wealth of knowledge, which is an important cornerstone to change the destiny.
The living room plays a very important role in every family.
As the largest communal area in the home, it is not only about the physical and mental health of the familyIt is also related to the first impression of the guests.
Whether ancient or modern, the first place in the home that cannot be "empty" is the living room.
So, why can't the living room be empty?
From a functional point of view, the living room is the main place for family members to gather, communicate, and entertain.
An empty and deserted hall is not conducive to enhancing the relationship between family members.
The ancients said that to build a family, we must first gather their family, so we need to put a comfortable sofa and coffee table in the living room, and purchase some entertainment facilities suitable for the whole familyIn this way, everyone can get together and enjoy the warmth of home.
From the perspective of living comfort, the living room is the center of the family's daily living activities.
Whether it's serving a cup of tea, watching TV and movies, or playing and chatting, it's inseparable from the support of this space.
If you don't even add basic furniture such as dining tables, sofas, TVs, etc., it will undoubtedly greatly reduce the quality of lifeIf this continues, the physical and mental development of future generations will inevitably be affected.
From the perspective of family image, the living room is a window to entertain relatives and friends, and the neatness and cleanliness it reflects, the high-level and exquisite degree of decoration and decoration will directly determine the status impression of the owner's home in the minds of others.
A simple, dim and empty living room, when guests first set foot in it, will inevitably rise in their hearts strange and repulsive, which invisibly contributes to the alien distance between the host and the new friendIt also weakened the warmth of the original old acquaintance, and fortune and fate declined.
After all, this is often the first place guests see, an empty hall that can easily give the impression of being in the middle of the road.
On the contrary, a living room that is warmly and generously furnished will make guests feel the hospitality of the host immediately.
Therefore, whether it is from the perspective of ensuring the living environment or maintaining personal relationships, the home should not be "empty living room".
The kitchen is the heart of the family, and it is always full of fireworks, both ancient and modern.
In the past, people lived on food, and the storage of food at home determined the life and death of a family.
Although there are all kinds of takeaways**, takeaways are unhealthy after all, and families who always eat takeout are often indifferent.
Indeed, we modern people are busy with workWhen I got home, I was exhausted and too lazy to cook.
However, how warm and beautiful the scene of the family sitting around the dinner table is so warm and beautiful.
It is this atmosphere of family reunion that can enhance the relationship and make the family more harmonious.
So, despite the heavy workload, we try to find time to make the kitchen our second "place to work".
Even if it's just a few side dishes, everyone can relax and communicate in the process.
When the child is also involved, helping to help or handing over the spices, this kind of affection is invaluable.
The kitchen is of great significance to a family, it not only undertakes the basic function of eating, but also is an important place to connect and inherit family affection.
The ancients said that the people took food as the sky.
Food, related to the survival of a family, if the kitchen pots and pans are empty, there is no food at home, it indicates that the family is declining, and the children and grandchildren have no dependence, so the ancients paid special attention to the layout of the kitchen.
We can imagine that in ancient timesThe rise and fall of a family is inseparable from whether the kitchen is rich or not.
A kitchen with pots and dishes and racks, and full of grain and rice and silk, means that the main family is in excellent economic condition, and there are many children and grandchildren in the family, and there is a harmonious reunionThat indicates that the family is declining, the heirs are extinct, and the family will face disconnection.
It can be said that the kitchen is directly related to the rise and fall of a family's life.
As the only place in the family where you can sit and eat together face-to-face, the kitchen has witnessed countless warm moments.
The most important wealth of a family is not salary and savings, but the affection between family members.
This affection is often cultivated in the kitchen, so remember not to leave the kitchen empty, let it become an important place for the inheritance of human touch in our home.
When we buy a new house, we must not neglect the layout of the kitchen.
Reasonable kitchen flow and complete kitchen utensils will become an important cornerstone of family happiness.
Of course, if you really don't even have time for simple cooking, it's okay to order takeout once in a while.
It's just that takeout is not as healthy as home food after all, and it is inevitable that you will get tired of eating too much, so it is recommended to seize the opportunity to cook more with your family.
You don't have to study any famous cuisine masters, just start with simple home-cooked dishesAs long as the family is happy and satisfied, it is the best enjoyment.
Every family has the opportunity to make the kitchen an important place to enhance the relationship and inherit the human touch.
Of course, this requires both husband and wife to work together and find time to buy groceries and cook together.
Parents taking the lead will definitely set a good example for their childrenEveryone sat at the table in harmony, and the warm atmosphere was priceless.
No matter how busy your life is, make sure to cherish the time you spend with your family.