01 There are many regrets in the world, and the most painful of them is recklessness and rudeness when lacking grace. This is the wisdom motto of Professor Tsang Shiqiang. In life, we have repeatedly encountered difficulties, and hard work and perseverance may not be able to bear fruit;Without the help of others, if there is no appreciation of Bole, the road of life will be full of thorns. However, in the face of these adversities, we only need to remember the words "hit the key" to save the day. It doesn't have to be too glamorous, it doesn't have to be too high-profile, it doesn't have to be too ostentatious. When your light is no longer there, when your dependence is gone, you must know how to be gentle and think carefully about your life path, instead of blindly wandering and causing unnecessary trouble for yourself. When you stay humble, you can find your true self, especially when you're alone. It's a journey, a piece of advice.
02 Life is full of variables, and many times, it is not that we lack ability, nor that we are not good enough, but that we lack opportunities and lack of a stage suitable for our talents. Often, if you don't meet the Bole who can recognize Maxima, the hero will be useless. At such a moment, if you are still energetic, if you are still burdened, and you don't know how to introspect yourself, then you may fall into a vortex of jealousy of others, and even cause trouble. A common mistake people make is to let themselves shine when they lose their support, mistakenly thinking that this will gain the favor and support of others, but they don't know that such behavior is tantamount to planting a time bomb on themselves. Therefore, when moving forward alone, stay calm, move forward steadfastly, be true to yourself, act modestly, do not show your head at will, learn self-control, and learn to restrain your edge.
03 The true meaning of life is to understand oneself, understand one's mission and value, and not lose oneself in adversity. When you're alone, you understand that the most important thing a person should do is keep a low profile. Because there is no one behind you to rely on, because there is no one around to help, you can only rely on your own efforts to climb step by step. Even if the road is bumpy, even if there are many difficulties, we must be steadfast and move forward steadily. To live, we must know how to move forward with a heavy load, maintain a vigilant heart, no longer move forward easily, and think more with words. You need to know how to hide it so as not to arouse suspicion and jealousy in others. You are only truly safe if you think you are safe. Remember, if you don't have an assistant, you're your most important assistant, and be careful not to let yourself fall.
04 We must admit that a person's success is inseparable from support, and a person's survival is inseparable from advocacy. If we have mentors and friends, we will grow faster and the pace of life will be more brisk. Therefore, when you lack a helper, you can only be self-motivated and self-trusting. Even if you're strong, you don't need to show off too much, because that's not going to do you any good. Without an assistant, you may experience more setbacks and may fall into deeper troubles, but you must understand what you have to do and stay calm. Only with stability can life set sail;Only with stability can there be hope in life;Only with stability can we go further. In the days when there is no helper, learn to hide your strength, wait for the moment, and be ready to make everything ready.
05 When the pillars of life are gone, we don't need to be overly sad or think too much. There is a time in life, there is no time in life, and we don't need to suppress ourselves. This is not a pessimistic attitude, but an open mind. You don't have to think about it, it's clear. You still keep a low profile, based on your field, do what you are good at, do what you love, and live life to the fullest. Professor Zeng Shiqiang once said that what a person is most afraid of is losing himself, his mentality is unstable, and everything is no longer equal. Even if life abuses us thousands of times, we should still love life like our first love, live modestly, not care about gains and losses, not get carried away by happiness, not get lost because of anxiety, but live well in our own world. Perhaps everyone's fate is different, some are lucky enough to be helped by the nobility, while others are destined to live an ordinary life. So we continue to live, stay upright, live with humility, and take control of our destiny rather than let it take our hands. Is this what happiness is called?- Epilogue.