I beg you, let's remarry!I'm alone, I can't take care of that home!Sun Yang's (pseudonym) ex-husband stood at the door, pleading bitterly.
It's impossible, you get out of the way, I'm going to go to work, I'm going to be late for a while!Sun Yang refused.
You said that when you go to work, you don't go to someone else's house to be a nanny, if so, why don't you go home and be my wife and be the mistress of the house?The ex-husband asked puzzled.
Sun Yang sneered twice, looked directly into her ex-husband's eyes, and said loudly word by word"Because it's better to be your wife than to be someone else's babysitter!”
Well, since you're a nanny, it's not a babysitter to do it in someone's house, you go back to our house to be a nanny, and I'll pay you!"My ex-husband changed his way of summing.
How much can you pay me?Sun Yang asked.
How about 5,000 yuan a month?The ex-husband said.
Sun Yang sneered again and said unceremoniously to her ex-husband:"I'm sorry, I've earned more than 10,000 a month now!”After saying that, I pushed my ex-husband away and went to work.
On the way to work, Sun Yang felt resentful and aggrieved in his heart, and recalled all kinds of blows and insults from his ex-husband to him in the past 7 years of marriage.
In the 7 years of marriage, what made Sun Yang most aggrieved was that she had no freedom to spend money.
In the first year of marriage, Sun Yang became pregnant, because of her poor physique, threatened miscarriage, and an advanced maternal age, Sun Yang had to follow the doctor's instructions to stay on bed restIn this way, Sun Yang lost the job that he had been working hard for 8 years at that time and was about to be promoted.
After giving birth to her daughter, Sun Yang wanted to return to the workplace, but her mother-in-law was not in good health and could not help take care of the childSecond, when the country had just let go of the second child, her husband begged Sun Yang: "Let's have another one, I am the only son in the family, how can we have a son!."You don't have to go to work, I'll earn money to support you!”
That's all,Sun Yang gave birth to two children in three years before marriage, instead of earning money to support her, her husband restricted her from spending money everywhere and at all times.
On Valentine's Day in the year she gave birth to her second child, Sun Yang coquettishly said to her husband: "I like roses, you can buy me a discounted bouquet of roses at night when the flower shop is about to close!."”
What about discounts?Doesn't it cost money yet?19 pieces?29 blocks?You can buy toilet paper for your home, you don't make money, you should use your brain to think about how to save money!The husband refused.
A year after giving birth to her second child, Sun Yang's sister got married, and Sun Yang discussed with her husband: "I am my own sister, I can't dress up too shabby, I am ashamed of my sister and my mother's family, I gave birth to two children, I am 30 pounds fat, and I can't wear the previous skirt, buy me a dress!."”
How much does it cost?The husband asked.
I went to the physical store to take a look, like me, fat and good-looking, are more expensive, two or three thousand, I looked for it on the Internet, it can be half cheaper!Sun Yang said excitedly.
What?It costs more than 1,000 to buy a torn skirtAren't your pajamas very good, your sister is married, everyone is looking at your sister, not you, besides, you are the mother of two children, who cares what you wear!Don't buy it!The husband sternly refused.
As a result, the day before her sister's wedding, her mother couldn't look past it, so she bought a decent dress for Sun Yang for 2,399 yuan, which made Sun Yang aggrieved and ashamed.
Knowing that Sun Yang's clothes were so expensive, her husband directly sarcastically said: "What, this dress costs 2399 yuan?."You are really stupid, don't use your brain, you should not take off the tag, wear it and then return it, you think about 2399 yuan, how much milk powder and diapers can you buy?You don't deserve to wear such good clothes now, and you don't look good when you wear them, and people still think that you are wearing a stall, what a waste of money!
In recent years, in order to restrict Sun Yang from spending money, her husband has made a ruthless move, usually giving Sun Yang no more than 100 cash, and all online shopping lists must be reviewed by her husband before placing an order.
A shopping trip last year ago completely chilled Sun Yang's heart.
Sun Yang added the required items to the shopping cart in advance and asked her husband to place an order to buy them, but the goods arrived one after another, and Sun Yang found that something was wrongThree things are missing, and three things are more.
In the shopping cart, I bought a foot bath for my mother, why is there no more?Sun Yang questioned her husband.
You don't make money, honor your mother, leave it to your brother, and your mother didn't buy you a house or a car!The husband replied confidently.
But my mother often subsidizes our life, and also helps me take care of the children, she has always had leg pain recently, what happened to me to honor a 69 yuan foot bath?Sun Yang said as he cried uncontrollably.
What's wrong with 69 yuan?You go and earn 69 yuan to try, it's hard to kill you!The husband replied.
I also bought blood pressure medication for my dad, why is it gone?Sun Yang asked her husband again.
Your mother's family is too poor to afford it, right, and even a dozen yuan of blood pressure medicine can be bought by my son-in-lawI won't buy it!The husband replied.
There is also a 99 yuan lipstick, why didn't I buy it?I pick up and drop off my children every day, the wind and rain come and go, my mouth is chapped, and I can't buy a lipstickSun Yang cried.
Just apply some sesame oil, 99You can buy a big bottle of sesame oil, why buy lipstick!If you don't earn, you have to save, when will you understand this truth!The husband said indifferently.
And the extra goods from this shopping are a set of values for the husband3999 yuanKeyboard and mouse for gaming;It is sold in the live broadcast room of the beautiful anchor599 yuan7 of the "upscale" men**;And for my mother-in-law699 yuanA pair of mahjong.
There is no way, if you don't make money, you won't have the right to speak!Sun Yang said helplessly.
In addition to financial restrictions, her husband turned a blind eye to all of Sun Yang's contributions.
Every morning at 4:00, Sun Yang has to get up, change his son's diapers, and prepare clothes for his daughter and husband to go out.
At 5:00, he began to choose vegetables, wash vegetables, boil porridge, and make cakes, and then asked her husband and daughter to get up and eat, with four people at a table, Sun Yang kept picking vegetables for her daughter and husband, and she had to feed her son.
You haven't washed your dishes!I can't do anything!The husband dropped his chopsticks and said angrily.
Wait for everyone else to finish eating, in order to be in a hurryWhile stuffing her husband's remaining half of the cake into her mouth, Sun Yang picked up the remaining half of the fried egg that her daughter had eaten, picked up her son again, and prepared to send her daughter to kindergarten.
Look at you, it's like a starving ghost reincarnated!What a shame!The husband sarcastically ridiculed Sun Yangdao.
At night, Sun Yang often holds his son with one hand and his daughter with the other, and carries more than a dozen catties of melons, fruits and vegetables bought from the vegetable market on his shoulder.
As soon as she entered the door, Sun Yang saw two socks thrown by her husband and a pair of shoes at the door and a pair of shoes at the bathroom.
Help me pick up the baby, my arm is numb!Sun Yang shouted at her husband.
The husband did not respond, and continued to lie on the sofa and brush the beauty**.
Sun Yang put down the child, picked up her husband's two socks and a pair of shoes, and put them away: "You arrive at home a little early, can you clean up and boil the porridge!."Sun Yang said helplessly to her husband.
I've done all the work, what are you doing?You don't make money, and you want to be lazy?The husband said as he continued to swipe his phone.
Can you help me, I'll cook, you watch my son go to tutor my daughter's homework, otherwise we won't be able to eat dinner!Sun Yang pleaded with her husband.
Don't help!You are just lazy and stupid, other women are taking care of work and family, you will always be, you can't figure out how to take care of a child or cook!After her husband finished speaking, he locked the door of the study and went to play games by himself.
Waited for Sun Yang to make dinner, fed the children, cleaned the kitchen of the restaurant, took the two children to take a bath, washed the family's underwear, tutored his daughter's homework, and read picture books to his sonThe moment I lay in bed, it was already 23:30.
The husband was already asleep, and the phone was smashed in his face, and the seductive voice of the beautiful anchor came from inside.
Can you not watch these women's live broadcasts in the future?Sun Yang woke up her husband.
I'll see what about it?I didn't make a mistake again!What are you waking me up for, I have to get up early to go to work at 7:00 tomorrow, unlike you who are relaxed and don't have to go to work every day. The husband said angrily.
But I've been married for 7 years, I get up at 4:00 every day, 365 days a year, and there are 19 alarm clocks a day in my mobile phone!Sun Yang whispered and cried in a low voice, she didn't want to disturb the children's sleep.
What made Sun Yang decide to divorce was her husband's increasingly frequent domestic violence against her.
He decided that I couldn't do anything, and my two children were my weakness, and after a test of domestic violence against me, it became commonplace. Sun Yang said aggrievedly.
Last year, Sun Yang's mother-in-law was hospitalized with stroke paralysis and offered to let Sun Yang take care of her, Sun Yang was too busy with the two children, and proposed to find a nurse for her mother-in-law, and her husband raised his hand to slap her:"What are you busy with, you are just unfilial!
After her mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, she lived in Sun Yang's house, once Sun Yang went to pick up the child, and when she came back, she found that her mother-in-law was pulled on the bed, she was just about to clean up, and her husband entered the door, and he raised his hand and slapped him again:"You're an elder abuse!”
Last year, Sun Yang's son went to kindergarten, and Sun Yang wanted to go out to find a job, so he discussed with her husband and sent her mother-in-law to a nursing home.
There is no doubt that Sun Yang was greeted with another resounding slap in the face.
This slap was expected by Sun Yang, she barely dodged or cried, but took a picture of ** and left evidence.
With evidence, it didn't take much time to sue for divorce, Sun Yang didn't have children or a house, and left the house.
The day after the divorce, the ex-husband had to go to the talent market to hire a nanny.
The first nanny had a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, and she quit after a day of work:"Your family has too much work, and you won't do it if you give 8,000 yuan!”
The second nanny had a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan, and she resigned after three days of work on the grounds that ".Old people, children, I can only hire one, and you have to hire another nanny to do all the work!”
The third nanny has a monthly salary of 5,000 yuanHowever, it strictly requires an 8-hour work system, with weekends, holidays and annual benefits, and in the past month, the ex-husband has taken leave 13 times and is facing dismissal.
The fourth nanny asked for a monthly salary of 12,000 yuan according to the situation.
There was no way, the ex-husband had to resign and take care of the children and the elderly at home, because he couldn't afford to hire a nanny.
So, 85 days after the divorce, he had to find Sun Yang again, and there was the scene at the beginning of the article.
It's a loss to know how to cherish it, but it's a pity that it's too late!
May the above words be of encouragement to my readers.