Article First Publication ChallengeIn ancient times, there was a talented woman, beautiful and virtuous, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. For the person you love, you have already set the outline in your mind.
Therefore, many matchmakers come to the door, but they do not say that they are matchmakers.
One day at the temple fair, the talented girl saw a boy in the crowd, liked it, and hurried to chase it.
But the crowd was too crowded, and there were too many people. After a quick glance, I couldn't find it anymore.
The talented girl made a wish in front of the Buddha that she would rather practice for a hundred years than see a boy again.
The Buddha recited his sincerity and fulfilled the wish of a talented woman.
On the last day of a hundred years later, the talented girl finally met the boy.
But the talented woman is unwilling, and she wants to touch the boy again.
The Buddha fulfilled the girl's wish again.
The talented girl turned into a graceful plump tree, and on the last day of a hundred years later, she met the boy.
The boy finally leaned against the tree and fell asleep, woke up and thanked the tree, the boy looked up at the tree affectionately, and left.
The Buddha reappeared and asked, "Do you want to spend your life with him?"”
The talented girl said: "Is his wife also suffering for a hundred years like me?"”
The Buddha smiled and nodded.
The talented girl said, "Then, then I don't have to." ”
The Buddha smiled without saying a word, looked at the talented woman with a smile, and said for a long time: "Seriously." ”
The talented girl said, "Yes. I feel like I've suffered enough. ”
The Buddha nodded and smiled and said, "That's fine!."A hundred years for women, a thousand years for men. What you don't know is that this boy has been waiting for you for 2,000 years, and that's fine. He didn't need to wait for the last thousand years. ”
The talented woman cried bitterly, wanting to continue the front edge, but the Buddha had disappeared.
I have adapted this story slightly, just to tell you that when you think you pay a lot in love, in fact, you often don't know that your lover pays more.
Those silent efforts behind the scenes, you neither know nor will know.
But if you really know, it may not be a good thing.
So, when you find that someone is silently giving for you, remember that you are only seeing 1% of the effort. And that 99% of the pay, he really doesn't want you to see. Because those trivial acts of love don't seem to be worth mentioning at all.
But that's what you did when you were in love, and you fell in love with him.
Over time, I slowly don't feel these immutable loves, and there is still a little existence.
Because, the more true the love, the more bitter the love.