My name is Zhang Wei, I am 35 years old and I am a doctor. I was born in an ordinary family and have a younger brother named Zhang Qiang. Our family conditions are average, and our parents are ordinary workers. Growing up, I always tried to Xi in the hope of changing my destiny. Today, I am a doctor with a stable job and income. 
Recently, my mom got sick and needed surgery**. When I heard the news, I immediately rushed home to take care of her. The cost of the operation required 100,000 yuan, and I did not hesitate to pay for it. Even though I was busy at work, I still tried my best to take care of her until she was discharged. In this process, my brother Zhang Qiang only gave 200 yuan. I was disappointed because I knew he was working hard and earning a lot of money. I couldn't resist asking him why he did this, and he replied, "I'm not married yet, I don't have a family of my own, and I have to keep my money for later." I felt that his answer was selfish, because parents are the most important people in our lives, and we should do our part when they need help. However, I also understand his thoughts because everyone has their own way of life and values. On the day my mother was discharged from the hospital, she gave me 200,000 yuan, saying that she was grateful to me for paying for her surgery. I was very surprised and grateful. However, I was very angry when I heard her say that she had saved the money with her brother. I asked her why she did it, and she said, "It's to thank you for paying for my surgery and also to bring you and my brother closer together." ”
I felt very disappointed and sad because I felt that my brother's actions were very irresponsible. I think he should have given me more support when I needed help the most. However, I also understand my mother's thoughts, because she wants our family to be more united and help each other. My younger brother Zhang Qiang has always been selfish and only cares about his own interests. He always kept his money on his shoulders and was unwilling to contribute anything to the family. I was angry and disappointed because I thought he should know the importance of family and should play a more active role in it. I decided to cut ties with my brother. I felt that he was acting irresponsibly, and I didn't want to have any contact with him anymore. Although I was very touched by my mother's approach, I couldn't accept her approach. Because I feel that she should be more concerned about her health and happiness instead of sacrificing her own interests in order to thank me. In the months since my mom was discharged from the hospital, I have been trying to repair my relationship with my brother. But his attitude left me disappointed and heartbroken. He doesn't seem to realize his mistake and doesn't show any sense of responsibility to his family. One night, my wife and I were watching TV in the living room when we received a **. The people in the room said, "Are you Zhang Wei?"I am the creditor of your brother Zhang Qiang. He owes me a lot of money and can't be reached now. ”
I was stunned when I heard the news. My brother owes a lot of money to others and can't pay it yet!I was shocked and outraged by this news. I feel that he is completely irresponsible, and his actions have caused a lot of trouble and distress to the family. I decided never to have any contact with him again. I feel that he is an irresponsible person who will only bring more trouble and distress to the family. I hope to be able to cut ties with him and never have anything to do with him again. This story made me deeply aware of the importance of family relationships and the importance of personal responsibility and responsibility. Although my brother was disappointed and heartbroken, I also learned a lot from it. I believe that in the future, I will cherish my family and friends more, and at the same time, I will pay more attention to my health and happiness, and I will not let anyone or anything affect my life and mood.