I'm 40 years old, but I'm still single, as if forgotten by time. I look okay, I am 168 tall, I am thin, I have a melon seed face, **fair.
The personality is more introverted and does not take the initiative to socialize with others. The biggest joy of my work is that I am an editor, and I feel very fulfilled when I work with manuscripts every day.
It's just that at this age, the voices of parents urging marriage are becoming more and more frequent. "Xiao Yang, look at Liu Ming, who is two years younger than you, and has given birth to a second child. Why aren't you in a hurry now?”
Every time my father said that, I had to make all kinds of excuses to prevaricate. For me, the big event of getting married seems to be a long way off. But my parents' urging also made me anxious, and I always felt that I was out of touch with the army in this matter.
Recently, a new colleague from the department, Xiao Zhang, came. As soon as she was assigned to our department, I took the initiative to familiarize her with the environment. "Xiao Yang, you're forty years old, why aren't you in a hurry to find a partner to marry?”
Xiao Zhang asked me at a lunch. I smiled awkwardly: "I'm very happy at work now, and I haven't thought about it yet." "What do you mean by not thinking about it, when you are old, you should really hurry up and get married and have children." Why don't I introduce you to someone?Xiao Zhang volunteered.
Can you meet him first?I guarantee that he is a good man and in excellent condition. You just promise to meet. "Xiao Zhang insisted on introducing me to someone. Seeing that she was so enthusiastic, I couldn't refuse, so I had to agree to meet with the people she introduced.
After all, it's just a meal and a chat, and there may not be any further development. But once the other party was confirmed, I was still a little nervous. I haven't dated the opposite sex in years and have absolutely no idea how to interact with people naturally.
I feel like I'm a bit conservative in this regard. Just when I was anxious, Xiao Zhang had already made an appointment for me, and the time was set for the weekend. "I won't tell you what the subject looks like, I'll leave you a surprise!
Rest assured, you will be satisfied with my vision. You have to be proactive when the time comes, you know?"Xiao Zhang is like a matchmaker in Shakespeare's plays, which makes me feel less stressed.
I took a deep breath, plucked up my courage, and thought to myself: since I promised to meet, let's face it positively. I'm 40 years old, and it's time to think about my future.
On the weekend, I started putting on makeup an hour early. Before going out, I looked in the mirror to make sure that my makeup was delicate and natural, and that my hairstyle was fine. Taking a deep breath to calm down, he showed up at the restaurant where he had agreed with his subject.
Xiao Zhang said that the other party would wait for me in the private room, and I pushed open the door of the private room, and a tall man was sitting inside. He stood up, at least 180 centimeters tall and in good shape.
With deep facial features, he is a boy with a very manly charm. "Hello, my name is Song Chen, and I was introduced by Lin Yang. You must be bayberry, fortunately. He greeted me gently, his voice low and magnetic.
I nodded a little shyly and whispered, "Hello, I'm Yangmei." What should I call you?”
After an afternoon of conversation, Ah Chen offered to see me next time, and I shyly agreed. This date was like a ray of light that illuminated my long-standing dark heart, and I saw a glimmer of hope that maybe I could really change my single status and have a warm family.
Time passed like water, and Ah Chen and I began to date frequently. Once, Ah Chen invited me to the playground. Although I was a little embarrassed, I was infected by his enthusiasm and agreed to go with him.
Yangmei, let's go play roller coaster!Ah Chen pulled me and ran towards the roller coaster. I was a little scared, but seeing Ah Chen's excited appearance, I also plucked up the courage to sit up.
The moment the car started, I couldn't help but hold on to the safety railing. "Don't be afraid, don't be afraid, I'm here. Ah Chen grabbed my hand, and his big warm hand reassured me a little.
The roller coaster was violently tumbling up and down on the tracks, and I felt dizzy. Just when I thought I was going to pass out, the roller coaster finally stopped. "Haha, it's exciting!
But Yangmei, you are doing very well, braver than I thought!Ah Chen said happily. I blushed and felt a little pride.
Ah Chen played many rides with me, and we had a happy day together. At the time of separation, he cordially invited me to his house and offered to cook for me himself.
In the moonlight, he looked at me seriously and expressed his heart to me. I felt very moved, but a little shy, because I found that I had occupied Ah Chen's heart.
I told him that while I enjoyed being with him too, it was too sudden for me and I needed some time to think about it. Xiao Zhang was very excited, he thought that Ah Chen really liked me, and I shouldn't hesitate.
Xiao Zhang told me earnestly that Ah Chen is really good, and if I miss him, I will regret it. I began to seriously think about the possibility of being with Ah Chen. He's really the boyfriend I've always dreamed of, and what kind of happiness would I get if I was with him?
After much deliberation, I finally decided to accept Ah Chen. He was like a gift from heaven to me, and I couldn't give it up.
I sent a message to Ah Chen: "Ah Chen, I decided to try to build a relationship with you because I like you. "In this way, Ah Chen and I officially started a relationship.
For me, this was an important change in my life, and I couldn't be more excited and happy. After Ah Chen was with me, he cared about me very much. He often gave me small gifts, invited me to watch a movie or go for a walk in the park.
I've also gradually become more confident and offer to do things together. As a result, our feelings deepened day by day. Half a year later, Ah Chen proposed to me. It was Valentine's Day, and he invited me to a fancy restaurant for dinner.
His mysterious appearance made me think he was planning something. "Yangmei, are you willing to marry me?Ah Chen knelt on the ground and opened a red velvet box.
Inside the box is a sparkling diamond ring. I covered my mouth with my hands in surprise and nodded excitedly. Ah Chen stood up excitedly and hugged me. "I love you, bayberry.
Thank you for making me the happiest person in the world. "I love you too, Ah Chen. So, our engagement was ready to begin.
Ah Chen's parents quickly accepted me as a fiancée, and my relatives were full of praise for Ah Chen. The engagement ceremony was a great event and everyone was proud and happy for us.
After we got engaged, Ah Chen began to prepare for the wedding. He said he had to throw a big wedding for me and make me the center of attention. Finally, our big day has arrived.
I put on my wedding dress and stood in front of the mirror to take a look at the solemn and beautiful bride, and I couldn't help but cry. The mother also wiped away tears excitedly, saying that her daughter was finally saying goodbye to girlhood.
The wedding was held at the hotel and was warmly and romantically furnished. Walking into the venue, the guests sent us blessings one after another. I gently grabbed Ah Chen's hand and walked the red carpet with him.
The witnesses gave a touching opening remark, and then we exchanged rings. "Now the groom can kiss the bride. The witness said with a smile. Ah Chen carefully lifted my veil, and then under everyone's gaze, he kissed me affectionately.
Applause and cheers rang out, and we officially became husband and wife. My heart is filled with endless happiness and satisfaction. After the wedding reception, we went to the honeymoon hotel.
Madame, our wedding night has finally arrived. "Ah Chen's eyes were full of love. "Husband, I can't wait. I said with a smile. On this night, we expressed our love for each other and achieved the union of body and mind.
I went from a girl who had not left the cabinet to Ah Chen's beloved wife. Every stage of life has its value, and I finally stopped running away and bravely chose my own happiness.
In the flowering season of life, I met my significant other. Thank you for God's favor and for the one who loves me. In the days to come, I will love life even more and spend every wonderful moment of my life with my beloved him.
After my honeymoon, I officially moved into Ah Chen's house. At first, I wasn't comfortable living with my parents-in-law. My mother-in-law's various demands on me, my new daughter-in-law, also made me a little overwhelmed.
Although I was a little overwhelmed, I nodded as I took notes. Ah Chen knew that his mother was more serious, and he would patiently tell me to obey her wishes. Slowly, I got used to this rhythm Xi life.
I became close to my mother-in-law and father-in-law. My mother-in-law saw that I was diligent and capable, and she didn't make things as difficult for me as she did at the beginning. "Daughter-in-law, thank you for your hard work. I'll cook tonight, so you can rest. My mother-in-law would already speak softly to me.
Thank you for taking care of your mother-in-law!I responded with joy. Ah Chen would give me a hug every day when I came home from work and cared about my day's life. Our relationship is stable and sweet.
However, just six months after we got married, I noticed some signs of pregnancy. It made me a little incredulous because our sex life was just beginning. In order to confirm, I secretly went to the hospital for a check-up.
The doctor told me that I was already a month pregnant!Excited and nervous, I returned home and decided to keep it a secret for a while and observe for a few more days. However, my demeanor seemed to expose me.
Ah Chen keenly spotted my anomaly. One day, he asked me directly, "Honey, are you hiding something from me?""What?Pregnant?Ah Chen excitedly picked me up and spun me around, "Great, dear!."
We're going to be mom and dad!"But we've only been married for half a year, will it be too soon?""I'm a little worried. "What's the matter!Children are the crystallization of our love, and it is good to come whenever they come!Ah Chen happily hugged me and kept kissing.
We are immersed in joy and look forward to the arrival of our baby. The mother-in-law was excitedly preparing the books for pregnancy, and the father-in-law was busy preparing the candy for the grandson. Every day, I was touched by Ah Chen's careful care, and as long as I had any discomfort, he would immediately accompany me to the hospital for a check-up.
When we were six months old, we went to the hospital for an ultrasound and the doctor told us it was a safe and healthy baby girl!Looking at the little life on the screen, Ah Chen was so excited that he shed tears, and he said gratefully: "Our daughter is so cute, wife, thank you for giving me such a happy family!."”
I was also infected by him, shed tears of excitement, and hugged Ah Chen. This home has become more complete and happy because of the new life. I'm starting to enjoy being a pregnant woman and I'm looking forward to creating more wonderful memories with my baby.
Ah Chen and his family redecorated the baby room in order to welcome their daughter's arrival. They painted the walls pink, painted clouds and angels, and prepared a white crib.
Ah Chen said expectantly: "Everything is ready, our princess can come to this world at any time!.""During the waiting period, Ah Chen's mother and sister took turns taking care of me, and also taught me how to breastfeed and take care of the baby.
My mother-in-law taught me the parenting scriptures: "If your child cries incessantly, pat her gently and sing a lullaby to help her fall asleep." Finally, nine months later, I was admitted to the hospital to give birth.
Ah Chen held my hand tightly and accompanied me through the difficult labor process. He kept encouraging me: "Wife, you must hold on!Our daughter is about to be born!”
The doctor smiled and said, "Congratulations on a very healthy and beautiful baby girl!""We decided to name our daughter "Chenchen", which means joyful and beautiful dawn.
After returning home from the hospital, the whole family revolves around the baby. Her pink little face and cute mannerisms adored everyone. "Chenchen is the cutest!Grandpa's baby. The public laughed openly and heartily.
Look at this little face, it is exactly the same as when Ah Chen was born, it is really cute!"The mother-in-law smiled from ear to ear, and the joy of her parents was beyond words. As night fell, I sat on the edge of my crib and quietly watched my sleeping daughter, filled with happiness.
Ah Chen also walked over gently and put his arm around my shoulder"Wife, our kids are so perfect. Being able to start a family with you is the most correct decision in my life. "
Me too, dear. The appearance of Chenchen completes our lives. " "This is just the beginning, and we will have many more children in the future. It's even more lively then!"Ah Chen said with a smile.
Okay, I'm already looking forward to the next baby. "I leaned on Ah Chen's arms, looking at my sleeping daughter, and my heart overflowed with happiness.
I used to be a person who was lost because of my age and singleness, but now I have the care of my husband and the attachment of my daughter. The world is more wonderful and gorgeous in my eyes. Thank God for giving me these precious gifts of life.
I will cherish everything in the present and create a happy future that belongs to us with my loved ones.
Chenchen, do you want a little sister?"Chenchen suddenly made this request at the dinner table. Ah Chen and I looked at each other and smiled, and then Ah Chen took the opportunity to say, "Chenchen wants a little sister, does it?"
Your wish Daddy will come true!"Ever since Chenchen proposed to have a little sister, Ah Chen and I have been actively trying to get pregnant again. After a lot of hard work, I'm finally pregnant again!
The test result was a healthy baby boy. Although Chenchen didn't get a little sister, she was very excited about becoming a big sister soon. "Mom, isn't my brother very naughty?
I'm going to protect him when the time comes!Chenchen said seriously. "Haha, don't worry about it, mom and dad will take care of my brother. I smiled and comforted her.
This kid looks more like me. Ah Chen said proudly. "Yes, Chenchen is more like me, and this baby is more like you. I responded with a smile. We named our son "Chenyang", which means the vibrant rising sun. Now, we are a family of five, happy and happy.
Ah Chen loves this newborn brother very much, and is always reluctant to let go. "Mom, my brother is the cutest!She said with a smile. Ah Chen and I also love Chenyang very much, and our home has become warmer because of our two lovely children.
As the kids get older, I'm starting to get back to work. Although I feel a little reluctant to leave my children for a short time, I am also looking forward to challenging myself again.
Ah Chen fully supported my decision to make a comeback: "Wife, you will definitely be able to balance family and work." Believe in yourself!"When my children were three or four years old, I went back to being an editor.
The company also welcomed me, an experienced "old employee". I have enough time to spend with my family because my working hours are very flexible. Ah Chen also tries his best to take care of the children at home, and we are all trying to maintain the balance of the family.
The children have also grown up and become more sensible. I will put more effort into their Xi. "Mom, I got a perfect score on the exam!Chenchen excitedly ran to tell me.
Great!Mommy's good daughter!"I'm so proud of her. Watching the children grow day by day, I am truly grateful. Thank God for giving me such a happy family.
From an ignorant girl to a wife and mother, I have gained unprecedented satisfaction. All of this is inseparable from Ah Chen's appearance, and I am grateful for the happy changes he has brought to me.
In the days to come, I hope our family will always be healthy and happy. I will continue to work hard to be a competent wife and mother. With all my enthusiasm to protect this small home, and hold up the sky that belongs to us with my lover.
In the blink of an eye, the children were all in school. Chenchen has now become a big girl, beautiful and smart, and is deeply loved by teachers and classmates. "Well done!We had the best morning!”
I happily took her around in circles and decided to take her to the amusement park. Chenyang has also gone to elementary school. He inherited Ah Chen's lively and cheerful personality, and his grades were also good, and he was a little sunny.
My son is getting better and better!Ah Chen praised him with a smile. Now that the children are gradually independent, Ah Chen and I have more time to spend alone as a couple. We will go to the movies and go shopping together to add to the atmosphere of the world of the two of us.
Honey, this skirt really suits you!Buy it back and show me!"Ah Chen will pick out clothes for me to try on when I go shopping. "Alright then, just buy this. "I'll pretend to be reluctant, but I'm already smiling.
Together, we will create more beautiful memories and deepen our relationship. I will accompany Ah Chen to learn Xi cooking, and he will also accompany me to do sports. "Your cooking is really better than the restaurant!”
Ah Chen was full of praise after tasting the food I cooked. "That's because you're my best diner!"I happily gave him a kiss. The children's independence gives us more time, and these precious one-on-one moments have made me more aware of the importance of Ah Chen.
Mom, this is Jiahao, my boyfriend. Chenchen shyly introduced his handsome boyfriend. "Hello Auntie, I will take good care of Chenchen, please rest assured. "The boy was a little embarrassed but polite.
Hehe, then please, be kind to us Chenchen. I smiled and accepted this lively "son-in-law". Watching the two of them go away, Ah Chen and I looked at each other and smiled.
Our daughter has grown up, too. Ah Chen sighed. "However, you will always be the most important woman in my heart. Ah Chen hugged me and whispered. "You are also the most loved person in my life. I kissed him hard.
Time flies, and life continues to change dramatically. But with you by my side, I have nothing to fear. You've given me endless warmth over the years, and now it's my turn to watch over you.