Life is like a journey, and the long road is full of all kinds of scenery. Some people are attracted by the beautiful scenery and wander in the gorgeous scenery, but they inadvertently deviate from the original trajectory, gradually lose their original intentions, and go astray. In this world full of materialistic desires, all kinds of temptations are constantly emerging, people's brains are stimulated by desires from time to time, and the weak-willed end up in it. ** The writer Lermontov once said: "The will is the spiritual power of every human being, the vision of freedom to create or destroy something, the creativity that can create miracles out of nothing." "In this journey of life, inner willpower is essential. The course of fate is completely in the hands of an individual's thoughts, and people who are really good at life can often do three not touch, and the more they keep not touching, the more comfortable they are.
1.Don't touch love outside of marriage, focus on managing marriage.
A person's happy life is closely related to the stability of marriage. People who live well know how to cherish their marriage and manage the relationship with their lovers with their hearts. Maintain the stability of the marriage and manage the relationship between the husband and wife in full swing, and life will become more enjoyable. On the contrary, the lack of the spirit of contract in marriage and the ease of getting involved in extramarital love may plunge the marriage into crisis and destroy the original stable life. In "The Right Way to Open Your Life", the protagonist Bian Liang's persistence and rejection of extramarital ** show his loyalty to marriage, respect for his wife, and persistence in a happy life. Not touching love outside of marriage is not only a manifestation of loyalty to oneself, but also a guardian of family happiness.
2.Do not touch bad circles and stay away from people with bad Xi.
The circle of life determines a person's value orientation, and it is very important to choose a good circle. For people who are really good at life, they often have a fresh social circle and good life Xi. As Yu Dan said: "What kind of friends a person has directly reflects his personality." To understand a person, it is enough to observe his social circle, where things gather like and people are grouped. "The circle of choice is the life of choice. Not touching bad circles and staying away from people with bad Xi can avoid the impact of negative energy and maintain the quality of life. Bad Xi is easy to infect, and once you get into a bad Xi, it takes stronger willpower to get rid of it. A truly good person knows how to restrain himself, not to touch people with bad Xi, and not to contaminate the bad circle, so that his life is quiet and fresh.
3.Don't touch things that harm others and are not beneficial to yourself, and be reliable.
In life choices, every decision has a profound impact on life. Hong Zicheng once said: "People only think of greed, they sell steel for softness, plug wisdom for faintness, change grace for misery, dye for dirt, and spoil the character of a lifetime, so the ancients thought that they were not greedy as a treasure, so they spent their lives." "A person's life can be boiled down to two things: being a person and doing things. Before doing things, first do a good job and be virtuous. Don't do things that are against morality, and maintain basic respect for being a human being. A person's success is not only about how much wealth he has, but also about whether he is based on good moral character. A person who is really good will not touch things that harm others and are not beneficial to himself, be reliable, and know how to establish a good personal image and morality. When getting along with others, you can be kind to others, accumulate good fortune with good deeds, keep the bottom line of being a person, and live with a clear conscience.
4.Don't touch things that hurt you, and stay away from negative influences.
Every choice in life affects the development of the individual. It is the choice of the wise to avoid touching things that may harm them. In interpersonal interactions, stay away from people and things that may negatively affect you. When choosing friends, you should carefully consider the other person's values and moral bottom line to avoid being hurt. Hong Zicheng's famous quote "Things gather by like, people by groups" once again reminds us of the importance of choosing friends. Not touching things that harm oneself and avoiding negative effects is a manifestation of responsibility for one's own life.
5.Hear the autumn voice.
On the road of life, you must be good at managing your own life. For those who don't realize that life needs to be managed, in the end they may achieve nothing, thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, every step of life is crucial. We don't need to ask too much, we just need to walk in the world with a scale in our hearts and understand what is necessary and what is unnecessary. When we are able to exercise some restraint on our desires, we win a victory. On the road of life, we can add to our thoughts and subtract our desires in order to live a simple and smooth life. Life is short and hurried, manage a good marriage, stay away from bad circles, stick to the bottom line of being a person and doing things, and gradually understand that contentment is a natural wealth.