The neighbor who has lived in an alley for more than 20 years, because of the two families fighting for building a house, the neighbor slapped me, I kicked him to the ground, the two of us were entangled together, since he is not emotional, then don't blame me for not being benevolent, if he does not agree to my request, his house will not be built.
The reason for my conflict with my neighbor is very simple, that is, because his family built a house, there are actually four windows on the back wall, he did this without my consent at all, when I went to him to theorize, he yelled at me instead, when I told him that if I didn't listen to persuasion, I would stop him from building a house, he reached out and gave me a slap, of course I refused to show weakness, and then gave him a kick, so the two of us fought, I was ten years younger than my neighbor, he definitely couldn't beat me, what I didn't expect was that his wife actually moved on me, two fists are hard to beat four hands, I was hated by the two of them to repair a meal。
The neighbor built a house inside
I live in an alley with my neighbor Wang Haitao, we have a good relationship on weekdays, often get together to eat and drink, his son is 20 years old this year, just a blind date was successful some time ago, it is said that he will get married before the year, so Wang Haitao is in a hurry to build a house, want to build a house before his son gets married.
Wang Haitao before building a house, invited our neighbors to have a meal at his house, because Wang Haitao's family lives in the alley, building a house and cars come and go, which will definitely affect the normal life of the big guys, so he invited guests to dinner, Wang Haitao is the first to build a house in our alley, he told us at the wine table, his new house will be built on one floor, not so high, will not affect the lighting of the neighbors, and it is his statement that we signed the application for building a house. (To build a house in our place, we have to go to the town to apply, and we have to sign and agree with the neighbors before and after before construction).
But what we didn't expect was that Wang Haitao suddenly changed his mind in the process of building a house, and he clearly said that he would build a one-story building, but he built a two-story building, and each floor is more than 3 meters high, his behavior caused the dissatisfaction of the big guys, because these people are all bungalows, only he himself is a two-story building, so that his house will be built higher than ours, then it will definitely affect our lighting, and we have already said before, he is treacherous to do this.
Because Wang Haitao's wife is the women's director of the village, so the neighbors will choose to let him have three copies on weekdays, in the face of his untrustworthiness, the big guy is just whispering behind his back, no one dares to question him face to face, after all, we live in an alley, look down and don't look up, no one wants to take the initiative to offend him, and Wang Haitao built a two-story house on my family has the greatest impact, the big guy saw me swallow my anger so I chose to be silent.
Of course, it's not that I'm afraid of Wang Haitao, the main thing is that I don't want to be like him, since he built a two-story house, let's build it, after all, the house has already risen, and it's too late to say anything, but what I didn't expect was that in the face of my magnanimity, Wang Haitao became more and more arrogant, and his next behavior was even more excessive.
No windows can be left on the back wall
According to the height of Wang Haitao's house, if he stands on the window on the second floor of his house and looks at my house, then our family will not have a little privacy, and he can see all the situations in my house clearly, which is tolerable or unbearable, and it is related to the privacy of my family, and I will not make any concessions.
In order to give myself courage, after I drank half a catty of liquor at noon that day, I went directly to Wang Haitao to theorize, I thought that in the face of my accusation, Wang Haitao would admit that he was wrong, and then choose to block the window, but what I didn't expect was that he didn't care about me at all, and he also said wildly: I built a house in my own house, I can build it as I want, why do you point fingers, in the face of Wang Haitao's unreasonableness, I was very angry, I told him: If you insist on acting recklessly, then I will take measures to make your house not built。
Wang Haitao listened to my words and responded very nonchalantly: I'll see what you can doIf you have the ability, you can do it.
The two of us were just quarreling at first, but Wang Haitao started to do it, I didn't have any defense, and I was slapped in the face by him, of course, I didn't show weakness, and then I gave him a kick, and so the two of us fought.
Because I am younger than Wang Haitao, he was not my opponent at first, but I didn't expect that the two of us were fighting, and his wife also moved at me, I was unwilling to do anything to a woman, so I could only choose to avoid Wang Haitao's wife, but this woman was ruthless and ruthless, so with the cooperation of the two of them, I was defeated.
After being taught a lesson by the two of them, I was not convinced, after returning home, I directly blocked the tricycle and car in the alley, Wang Haitao's house has not been built, as long as I block the road, their family has no way to build a house, and my camera is facing the alley, Wang Haitao does not dare to smash the car at all.
In this way, our two families fell into a stalemate, and finally Wang Haitao took the initiative to admit his mistake to me, because the weather is getting colder and colder, and his son's wedding date is getting closer and closer.
Eventually, Wang Haitao and his wife came to my house to apologize to me, and after negotiation, he asked the construction team to block all four windows, and I drove away the car blocked in the alley.
The back wall has no windows to protect your privacy
Many people may not understand what I have done, and they think that I am making a big fuss and should not interfere with my neighbors building houses, but from my point of view, it is a big mistake for Wang Haitao to build a two-story house and leave windows on the back wall, and he has seriously damaged my interests.
First of all, Wang Haitao's house is built relatively high, which seriously affects the lighting of our house, because his house is high, which covers the sun, so that our family is in the shadow all year round, which has an impact on our normal life.
Secondly, Wang Haitao's back wall window will invade my privacy, as we all know that in the northern countryside most of them are single courtyards, in the summer, everyone at home is more refreshing, because in their own home, how to wear how you want, but once the neighbor built a two-story building, and the back wall left a window, then this will cause, the other party can be in their own home, you can have a clear view of your home, and you don't know, so this is the main reason why I don't let Wang Haitao's house build a window on the back wall of the house.
I miss the carefree rural life Finally, it is not that I am wide, but in our rural areas in southwest Luxi, as long as it is not by the street, the general house can not leave a back window, this is a tacit understanding that everyone knows, and the neighbors will abide by this unwritten rule.
What do you think about this?Do you think I interfered with Wang Haitao's freedom to build a house?Or is he unruly?Do you have such rules for building houses there?