In recent years, the psychological problems of high school students have gradually become a major problem in the field of education. While lamenting the low psychological capacity of contemporary young people, do they really understand the pressure they are facing?As a teacher, I can't help but reflect: If I am also a 17-year-old senior high school student, can I carry these three years?
Looking back on the past high school days, information was relatively closed, and the competition among classmates was more about learning. At that time, life was simple and fulfilling, and the relationship between school, parents, and classmates was relatively simple. Today's high school students, however, face a very different situation.
Parents have higher expectations for their children and invest a lot of energy and money. The children, under tremendous pressure, had to become"Good boy", work hard to make up classes, attend private schools. For students who are not gifted, this pressure can become overwhelming.
In today's increasingly competitive society, even the best students may face employment challenges. This makes students with lower grades more anxious and even choose to abandon their studies before their senior year of high school and seek other paths.
The care and dedication of parents has also brought great psychological pressure to children. Expectant eyes, high make-up fees, daily companionship and care ......All these make the children in the sea of learning feel a heavy sense of guilt. Once they fail in the college entrance examination, they may fall into extreme situations.
The psychological problems faced by contemporary high school students are not simply due to the lack of personal tolerance, but from various pressures. Society, schools and families should work together to create a more welcoming and inclusive environment for young people to grow up. As parents, we need to care about our children's growth and mental health, and at the same time, we need to leave enough personal space for them.
As a teacher, I am actually very conflicted, and it is difficult to grasp the scale in the middle. I really hope that I will teach you according to your aptitude, and stop rolling up your life on the same road that does not belong to you.