Author |Mr. Nai (ID: renshengxiuxing).
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The ancients said: The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, and empty their bodies.
Everyone who can achieve great things has an unbearable experience behind it.
When Qin Shi Huang was young, he stayed in another country with his father as a proton and was bullied.
Zhu Yuanzhang came from a humble background when he was a child, and he was an authentic cattle herding baby.
No one is born with talents, and the gap between people is actually caused by the previous generation to help you open your eyes, give you wealth, and bring you the pattern.
If such a person does not have his own personal experience, it will be difficult for him to surpass his parents in his life.
There is also a kind of person who knows how to stand on the shoulders of giants in order to see further, although with the help of the power of his father, but not to follow the old path of his father.
Many of the time, they don't believe in fate, they are not satisfied with the status quo, and there are all kinds of signs that they are different from ordinary people.
Such a person is destined to be a late bloomer.
Don't admit defeat, don't give up, don't be willing to be mediocre.
I once saw a fun **, someone interviewed some students in the university and asked them what kind of annual salary they think they should get after graduation.
Surprisingly, most of the students said that they would earn millions a year after graduation.
Looking at it again, young people who go to work and crowd the subway every day, and cut down on food and clothing every day to save a little money to buy a house and a car.
They must have had such dreams when they were in college, but now they have been defeated by reality.
From the beginning, they had their own ideas and wanted to follow their own unique path, and in the end, they also walked into the established rules given to them by society.
Buying a house and a car, with few changes and stable development, is the belonging of most ordinary people.
But people who can really become late bloomers are restless in their hearts, and they have their own unique ideas at all times.
No matter what kind of blow they suffer, they will get up quickly, and the most admirable thing about such people is their ability to heal themselves.
As if nothing could hurt their inner purpose, nor could it hurt their courage.
For them, the only thing they need to do before they reach the finish line is to keep trying.
Life is a long-distance race, and a person cannot be judged by the results of any period of time, for late bloomers.
Before the end of life, there is still the possibility of progress.
In fact, their spirit is already very mediocre, how can people be mediocre.
He is very himself and works harder than anyone else.
The only thing in this world that will not fail you is your efforts.
Kazuo Inamori is a person who is very strict with himself and works very hard.
The moment that really changed him was the moment when he changed his mindset, and he understood the truth that only by putting in more and more effort can he get better results.
What people are most afraid of is living too comfortably, and after a little effort, they feel that they have done their best.
There are many people who are full of negative energy in life, all of them are lazy people, they have time to complain, but they don't know how to spend time on hard work.
Life will not be kind to anyone who only knows how to complain, who only knows how to be willing to fall.
Because everything needs to be paid and cultivated, God has given you life and blessed fields that you can cultivate, but if you don't cultivate, how can you reap the fruits.
When you see others reaping the fruits, how can you have the courage to say that others are blessed?
People who can really become late bloomers have created people who understand the truth of hard work and harvest, and those who do not know how to pay will never get the gift of life.
People who don't know how to work hard will never be able to reach the height they want.
Those who do not know how to self-discipline and cherish blessings will never enjoy good fortune.
Hold yourself to high standards and put in more than the average effort, and you will definitely get what you want.
People who can endure loneliness and sink their hearts.
In interpersonal interactions, I'm acting as a human observer a lot of the time.
Observe those who are not doing well, what are the shortcomings of them, and what are the advantages of those who are doing well.
It is not difficult to find that those who can achieve results with their lives are enlightened people.
What is called enlightenment, after enlightenment, people can abandon the useless information, only grasp the information they want, and have a strong sense of purpose.
People who know how to wait for opportunities, in the process of hard work, are most afraid of hearing too many things and understanding too much information, so that their magnetic field is too chaotic.
In such a situation, it is impossible for a person to make a completely correct decision.
People who can stabilize their mentality, understand what belongs to themselves, what belongs to others, what they are good at, and never take the initiative to understand those things that they are not good at and do not understand.
Stabilize your mentality, find the path you want to take, endure the loneliness and loneliness that should be on this road, and calm down and enjoy the process of improving yourself, such a person will definitely be able to become a late bloomer.
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About the author: Mr. Nai, a post-95 freelance writer, seeks to correct the three views than the facial features. Here you will feel that life is just a practice, and you must always maintain mindfulness, righteousness, and infect the people around you with positive energy. Here you will find the charm of words, and a heart full of sincerity. Here, you'll have a friend to talk to.