Author |Mr. Nai (ID: renshengxiuxing).
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As the saying goes: when a noble family is born, there must be signs.
In the view of the ancients, wealth is two words, some people are rich but not expensive, and some people are expensive but not rich.
Extravagance is hidden in people's bones, the embodiment of a family's good family style, and also the external manifestation of a person's good character.
If you have such a noble person in your family, congratulations.
Houde
For the ancients, virtue is the most important thing, people can not have talent, but they must have virtue.
After all, virtue can carry things, and people without virtue have no way to achieve great careers.
Only virtuous people can get help and respect from others.
Virtuous people have a big heart, beyond the patience and perseverance of ordinary people.
Tao Te Ching says: The big husband is thick, not thin;In fact, not in its glory.
People who are noble in their bones will not pursue worldly fame and fortune, nor will they go back to the crowd, although they live a simple life, but their hearts are rich.
It's like the higher the knowledge, the richer the heart, the more kind people become.
The arrogance in their hearts will only show unyielding to the arrogant and domineering magnates, and sympathize with the weak, and they cannot see any "sense of identity" in them.
With an identity but not revealing his identity, such a talent is truly noble.
Those who lack virtue are both talented and intelligent. But after all, they can only develop in their own small circle and cannot go out.
Kindness
In fact, in this world, the measure of interpersonal interaction is respect and kindness.
It's not money or status.
No matter how good a person wears or how good a car he drives, it doesn't make a big deal.
But the kindness that a person shows to a stranger is the true nobility.
Many people say that everyone is a person who hates the poor and loves the rich, but there is such a thing.
A Mercedes-Benz owner was driving when a student scratched his car with a bicycle.
The owner of the car just got out of the car and looked, and when he saw the student's helpless appearance, he just waved his hand lightly to let the student go first.
There is no baht to be compared, and there is no talk of asking students to compensate.
After this incident was issued, everyone said that he deserved to drive a Mercedes-Benz, and such a person deserved to be rich.
It can be seen that no matter how many things that make people feel bad, everyone's heart always likes kindness.
The true kindness that permeates the bones is a person's cultivation and connotation.
Kind people are destined to be full of luxury.
Be trustworthy
Keeping promises, no matter what era it is, is one of the most important qualities of being a person.
Why do people have to be novice promisers, because once the untrustworthy thing happens, there must be a second time.
Over time, a person's heart will also change, become complicated, and Xi will deceive others.
The ancients said: A gentleman is hard to chase after a horse.
There is also a saying called: a promise is a thousand gold.
It can be seen how much the ancients attached great importance to keeping their promises, which belongs to morality and cultivation, and those who keep their promises must be people with good character.
It is said that people cannot stand without trust, and people without integrity have no way to stand in the world.
Without integrity, his dignity and soul become cheap, and those with integrity have a noble soul that is admirable.
If a person is noble, he must be a trustworthy person.
Modesty
Knowing humility is a high realm, and it is also a rare state of mind.
Only when a person understands the importance of humility will he see his own flaws clearly and make himself better.
As the old saying goes: full of losses, humble benefits.
The more ostentatious people are, the more ignorant they are, and the more complacent they are, the more lowly they are.
Hemingway once said: True nobility is not superiority, but superiority over oneself in the past.
Only those who have seen the world can understand the vastness of the universe, and those who have seen the world understand that there are people outside the world and there are heavens outside the world.
What I thought was a small achievement was as light as a feather in the eyes of others, and only I was stupid and complacent.
Lao Tzu said: Jianghai can become the king of a hundred valleys, and he can do it with his goodness.
If you look closely, all those who do well in business and succeed in people are people who are humble in their hearts, because they understand that the world is difficult, and only humility is king.
Humility is a kind of wisdom, and it is also a wise way to deal with the world.
A humble person has his own nobility.
There is positive energy
In today's impetuous society, everyone seems to be very anxious for quick success.
It seems that you can see quarrels and things that make people unhappy.
This is a sign of a lack of positive energy, and you will see what you see when you know what is in your heart.
People with positive energy are full of righteousness, their thoughts are all mindful, they are bright and upright, and they are broad-minded.
Such people are beautiful people and things as far as they can see, and they will not think to extremes no matter what happens.
Confucius said: A gentleman is frank and unrestrained, and a villain is often a relative.
In other words, only when a person walks right, does things right, behaves properly, and is sincere and fair, can he be open-minded and worry-free.
Noble people, no matter what they do, are serious and responsible.
People with positive energy also speak with righteousness, bringing positive thoughts to people and guiding people around them to think about the good.
If you have such a person in your family, you must cherish it and don't let your dirty prejudice affect their positive energy.
People must be upright and upright, so that they can sit far and walk upright.
Having positive energy is a manifestation of a person's nobility.
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About the author: Mr. Nai, a post-95 freelance writer, seeks to correct the three views than the facial features. Here you will feel that life is just a practice, and you must always maintain mindfulness, righteousness, and infect the people around you with positive energy. Here you will find the charm of words, and a heart full of sincerity. Here, you'll have a friend to talk to.