Among the three children of the Zhou family, Zhou's mother values the eldest son Bingyi the most, and Zhou's father loves his daughter Zhou Rong the most"Old pimple"Zhou Bingkun is the neglected youngest son. The family's evaluation of him is always:"Simple-minded, ignorant of human feelings, a tendon"。Although the parents are not unfond of him, they will always be a little more favored and proud than the excellent eldest sons and eldest daughters. Even if they say it"Let me love and love our old pimple", but his eyes often still look at Bingkun's brothers and sisters.
Despite this, Zhou Bingkun's older brothers or sisters are always busy with their own affairs and don't care too much about their parents' attention. This often made him feel humiliated and depressed, and as a result, his temper became more and more stubborn and recognizable. In China's multi-child families, unpopular children often do unexpected things because of a competition for favor.
What Bingkun didn't know was what he couldn't tolerate the most"Eccentricity""It's not fair"In fact, the same exists between friends. In the whole volume of "The World", you will find that Cao Debao, who has always regarded Bingkun as his best friend, his"Blackening", all of which are Bingkun's"Eccentricity"caused.
The friendship between Zhou Bingkun and Cao Debao is very special. When Zhou Bingkun was just transferred to the slag workshop of the soy sauce factory, Cao Debao and Lu Chuan, as co-workers, once isolated him and even despised him. They heard that Bingkun came in through the back door and couldn't stay in the slag workshop for too long, which was a huge blow to Debao and Lu Chuan, who had been working in the slag workshop for four years. Their joint boycott of Zhou Bingkun is like fighting against social injustice. It wasn't until National Day and Catch-up intervened as Debao's classmates that they cleared up the misunderstanding and began to establish an extraordinary friendship.
The qualitative change in the relationship between Debao and Bingkun occurred at a family gathering on the third day of the first lunar month. At that time, Chunyan, who liked Bingkun, was arranged by Zhou's mother"Pursuit"Bingkun, but it turned out to be a good thing for Debao and Chunyan. In the drama version of "The World", in order to highlight Cao Debao's later break with Bingkun, the image of the actor may seem obscene and short. But in the original book, Cao Debao is actually one"Big handsome guy"。
That's it for you, the new text is semantically and grammatically correct, and contains the same information and meaning as the original. Bingkun ushered in two new colleagues, one named Lu Chuan, with a Chinese face, a beard, young and shaved cheeks, and was described as dignified. The other is named Cao Debao, thin and tall, more than 1.8 meters, with a big back, looking Sven, nicknamed "May Fourth Youth", everyone calls him "May Fourth".
Debao is a versatile and aspiring young man, and his cello is already a high-level talent when other young people only use harmonica and allegro for recreation or hobby.
It was precisely because of Cao Debao's distinctive and handsome appearance that the original Bingkun candidate changed, and he took advantage of the wine to get into Cao Debao's quilt and changed his fate. The next morning, Debao, who had woken up, fled the scene in a panic. Chunyan demanded that Zhou's mother take responsibility for her lost innocence, and Zhou's mother tentatively asked her if she would like to be married to Cao Debao. Chunyan replied, "That's fine!."For Chunyan, it means that the relationship is satisfying – because the corners of her mouth are up, and she looks down and snickers.
In contrast, Cao Debao was very reluctant to accept this "next" marriage, and was even forced to accept it. According to the original book, he is not only handsome and handsome, but also the only son in the family. His family was originally a wealthy family in Shenyang, and used to run a leather merchant and a soap factory. However, by the time of his father's generation, Cao Guanglu, the factory had declined, and they could only run small antique shops. In that turbulent era, various outsiders kept coming to the store, resulting in the smashing of items in the store, and the small antique shop eventually became unable to operate. Cao Guanglu can only sell some old objects on the street, and his income is meager. Until one day, he met the noble man of his life - a middle-aged man who was in love with a silver lighter in his stall, but forgot to bring money.
After Bingkun heard Chunyan's answer, he knew that she was satisfied with the relationship. And Cao Debao accepted this marriage in desperation. Despite the fact that he came from a wealthy family and had handsome looks and talent, a change of fate forced him to face reality. It turns out that I come from a humble background, but I have a different temperament. If someone appreciates it, just take it away, only if I have a relationship with him. This city leader led me to the path of destiny, he arranged a job for me, and reserved a 16-square-meter cottage for me. With a job and a place to live, I can finally start a family and have a son named Cao Debao.
Cao Debao, he has had a dream since he was a child, that is, to set up a stall to do business. He hoped to meet the "chief" and change his fate. However, as he grew older, his dream gradually changed, and he wanted to marry a "** daughter" who was in distress. He believes that such a fate will come, and he believes that he can "pick up the leak" like his father. Now, however, he needs to marry a daughter whose family background is not as good as his "photon film" - Qiao Chunyan, a girl who gets a pedicure in a public bath. It was so different from his dreams, how could I be willing to do that?
However, under the coercion and inducement of my friends, I had to give in. I am like a hero who has been tied up with five flowers, looking up to the sky and sighing. I knew that they would come to me, and if I wasn't responsible for it, I was afraid I wouldn't be able to even be a friend. Friendship is very important to me, to hell with my original thoughts!Even if you accidentally hit someone on a bicycle, you need to be responsible, let alone this kind of thing!
Debao married Qiao Chunyan entirely because of friendship. Compared with the reluctance of marriage, he is even more reluctant to lose Bingkun's friendship. In the social environment at that time, as an only son, if you want to take root in this society, you need these "good buddies" who huddle together for warmth. Not only Debao, but also his parents. When Bingkun and Cao Guanglu proposed the marriage of Debao and Chunyan and hoped that Debao would become the son-in-law of the inverted door, although Cao Guanglu hesitated, he agreed.
Whether it is Cao Guanglu or me, although we may be slightly better than these children in terms of family background, psychologically speaking, we are all weak. As outsiders to the city, we need friends like Bingkun. I'm willing to stick a knife in my friends, and they expect the same from me. We rely on each other and support each other. Such a relationship may seem incomprehensible now, but in the social context of the time, it was the norm in our lives. This is why when Debao found out that Bingkun's feelings for him, the National Day and catching up were "far and near", he was extremely angry and even wanted to take revenge. No matter what kind of emotion, it is "the depth of love and hatred", whether it is love, friendship or family affection. Debao has given great support to Bingkun's progress. For the sake of friendship, he had to marry Qiao Chunyan, but the young man changed quickly, and they were like glue after marriage, and Chunyan's joy was second only to Debao.
Even if he later learned the truth - on the night of the third year of junior high school, nothing unseemly happened between him and Chunyan, the so-called Debao broke Chunyan's chastity is purely Chunyan's lie, and the pregnancy is even more false. However, Debao's love for Chunyan has not diminished in the slightest. In essence, Debao is what people call the "stupid son of the landlord's family", he is tall, but he is cowardly and dependent at heart. He said this to his friends:
My long hair was shaved for my wife, Chunyan. I must have her as the core in my future life, and I will do whatever she does to my advantage, and I don't need to be reminded at all!Who am I?It used to be a soy sauce factory, and it smelled of soy sauce, but now it smells of vinegar. Who is my wife?She is a pacesetter in the city's service, and it is a great honor for me to be married to her. Am I asking for trouble if I don't take good care of her?”
Debao's 180-degree transformation surprised Bingkun and them. They unanimously agreed in their hearts that Chunyan, a woman, was "not simple", but to marry such a "not simple" woman, happiness or depression, only Debao himself could truly understand.
In Debao's mind, because his parents had planned the relationship between Bingkun and Chunyan, he thought that the relationship between him and Bingkun should be more intimate and intimate. Although the two families are not related by blood, they are better than in-laws.
Therefore, when Bingkun proposed to participate in the systematic art show in order to give them a "New Year's friend" - Qu Xiuzhen with a long face, Debao took his cello to actively participate. He is willing to play the role of a "foreign appearance", which makes Bingkun shine in the performance.
After the results of the selection were announced, their "Allegro Challenge Cello" won the first place in the second prize. Debao's active participation and support made Bingkun feel extremely gratified and grateful. It's also a testament to the power of their friendship and cooperation. This is an important cornerstone for him to be transferred to the magazine and successfully become a regular, which is inseparable from Debao's great contribution. The sons and daughters of these photon films, since they have stable jobs, their lives have basically been set. The fate of most people can only be fine-tuned between units or the same unit, such as Chunyan became a pacesetter in the city service, but remained a pedicure for a long time. However, Bingkun was able to leave the soy sauce factory and transfer to the magazine, which was as difficult as climbing to the sky. Although there are all kinds of obscure relationships involved, Debao spares no effort to help and has long gone beyond the scope of ordinary friendship.
Zhou's mother was frightened because of Zhou Rong's incident, and she fainted all of a sudden and became a vegetative person. The first to arrive at Zhou's house were also Chunyan and Debao. Looking at her godmother who was lying unconscious on the kang on her back, Chunyan cried a handful of snot and tears. She told Bingkun that she was afraid that she would not be able to take care of Zhou's mother often, and she was investigating who was involved in Zhou Rong's kind of thing.
Without waiting for Chunyan to finish speaking, Debao, who had always been obedient, yelled: "If you dare to say such things again, I will abolish you." Chunyan couldn't help but tell Debao and Chunyan all her secrets. After listening to Zheng Juan's narration, Debao immediately knelt down, and he said: "Sister-in-law is above, depending on your contribution to the Zhou family, please accept Debao's three worships!."”
In Debao's heart, he has always regarded Bingkun as his own relatives, his own brother, and Bingkun's family as his own family. He takes this buddy friendship too seriously, so he will despair when he doesn't get anything in return. After Bingkun was released from prison, he became the editorial director of the magazine, and he understood that this was inseparable from his previous efforts and efforts. At the source, without the help of an old friend, he may still be a soy sauce factory worker, and like an old friend, he may not have the power to help his friend. However, for Bingkun, he is more concerned about the impoverished National Day and the life of catching up. He tried his best to arrange a job for his sister on National Day, solve livelihood problems for some young people in Photon Film, and even turned to his brother and sister-in-law for help to catch up with his sister's work. However, he never gave Chunyan and Debao any help. Bingkun thinks that Chunyan is capable and can live well without his help. However, this just proves that he owes Debao more, and Debao's heart is even more unbalanced because of it.
The sons and daughters of the Zhou family have all succeeded, but they have drifted away from the former "godson" Chunyan and Debao. Chunyan's mother once said to Chunyan: "Yan, don't always go to your godmother's house in the future." Now and not the past, people are different from us. In the future, other people's people will go higher and higher, except for you, your sisters and brothers-in-law's lives seem to have no head, and you can only live one day at a time. It can be seen from Chunyan's mother's mouth that the relationship between Bingkun and Debao has been separated at this time. Bingkun's estrangement made Debao, who valued the friendship between the two very much, feel depressed and sad.
When there is a gap in life, when there is a high and low, the relationship between each other also becomes delicate and sensitive. The affair with the house completely broke the friendship between the two. As a result of the Luo Shibin incident, Bingkun was imprisoned for 12 years. When he regains his freedom, his relationship with Debao is reversed. It turned out that Chunyan and Debao were worried about being disliked and befriended the Zhou family, but now Bingkun himself is in a predicament. He is obviously closer to the catch-up and National Day, which are also in a difficult situation. In Bingkun's view, Chunyan is too shrewd, no matter how she goes, she will never suffer, she is already the director of the Women's Federation, but she is still "competing for favor" with the laid-off catch-up and the National Day. But Chunyan and Debao have another explanation in their hearts: they are Bingkun's "godson", and they should be closer. What's more, the Bingkun family has suffered an accident, and they should lend a hand.
Therefore, it can be seen that both parties have different interpretations and understandings of each other's emotions, which leads to changes in the relationship and the emergence of contradictions. The change in the relationship is not only because of the difference in material conditions, but also because of the collision of psychological feelings, emotional understandings and expectations of both parties. Interpersonal interactions are not simply a matter of one plus one equaling one, but contain many complex emotional and psychological factors. Every time, they always rush to the front, and that deep emotion is unavoidable. The interaction between people is like a unique chemical reaction, and when you give, you expect something in return. Zhou Bingkun's favoritism made Chunyan and Debao feel cold. Every Spring Festival, Zhou Rong and Dongmei will hand over some of their own things and gifts from others to Bingkun, hoping that he can have a rich Spring Festival. Due to the fact that there are too many gifts and the abundance is abnormal, Bingkun will always give a part to catch up and the National Day, but Chunyan and Debao are never taken into account. Bingkun may feel that Chunyan and Debao are not lacking in these things, and their living conditions are much better than those of Catch-up and National Day.
During the Spring Festival of one year, Chunyan came to Zhou's house. She found that Bingkun had already divided the New Year's goods, and said with a big grin: "There are so many delicious foods, you can't finish them, so the three of us will help you eat them." After speaking, she did not hesitate to take away scarce items such as prawns, hairtails, pig's trotters, etc., but Bingkun was a little unhappy, and asked him to keep the hairtail, saying that he would give it to the National Day, and the two of them love to eat hairtail. Catch up also likes to eat pig's trotters. Chunyan suddenly stood up and shouted at Bingkun.
Bingkun, what are you doing here?You're still not my brother?Am I still your own sister?Chunyan asked rhetorically. "The facts of the formation of history, do you intend to overturn?Why do you want to trample on my dignity as a sister?In front of the many relatives of the Zhou family, Bingkun's behavior made Chunyan feel very embarrassed. Actually, Chunyan doesn't really need that food, she fights for fairness. As the saying goes, "Don't suffer from few, but suffer from inequality." They are all friends, but they have to be close and distant, how can they be convincing and willing?"It's no surprise that Turbow's anonymous letter came as well.
Let's get back to the house. At that time or now, houses were the main concern of ordinary people. When he was about to retire, Bingyi finally fulfilled his father's wish and presided over the demolition of the photon sheet. This allowed him to help Bingkun, catch up, and National Day all be assigned to houses in the new district. He also helped Chunyan's family, so that Chunyan's mother was divided into two houses, one large and one small. Without Bingyi's covert help, Chunyan's mother might only be able to get one big house or two small houses. However, these two houses do not have Chunyan's share.
Despite all the difficulties, they persevered, for the sake of the most basic human rights and dignity. Like a tug-of-war, they face the pressures and challenges of life together and need to support and encourage each other. Everyone has their own difficulties and challenges, but only fairness and justice can convince them. This is a true portrayal of their lives and a microcosm of our society. All along, Sister Chunyan has lived with my mother, and the house they live in is also Sister Chunyan's. I rarely had the opportunity to be alone with my mother because she was always with Sister Chunyan. However, Sister Chunyan and my mother have always been very harmonious, and I have always been grateful for their care and support for me.
As for the house, it is the inheritance of Chunyan's sister, which she and my mother jointly own. Although I didn't get a house, I didn't feel lost or dissatisfied. On the contrary, I am grateful that they are willing to share this legacy with me and give me the opportunity to live with them.
In our daily lives, Sister Chunyan and I and my mother also often take care of each other and care for each other. They are always there to lend a helping hand when I need it, and I am there to support them when they need it. The relationship between us is very deep, and it also makes me feel very happy and warm.
Overall, although I didn't get a house, I didn't feel lost or dissatisfied. On the contrary, I am grateful that Sister Chunyan and her mother are willing to share their possessions and love with me. I believe that as long as we care for and support each other, our lives will be better and happier.