Zhou Rong is the second child of the Zhou family, she has shown intelligence and beauty since she was a child, and she is the most beautiful girl in all the light word films.
She has a strong belief in love, and is willing to go to Guizhou without permission in order to pursue love, marry Feng Huacheng and have a daughter. Her daughter was not reunited with him for various reasons while working in the field. For years, I haven't had the opportunity to return home.
Her loyalty to her marriage is obvious, although she has a loyal suitor like Cai Xiaoguang beside her, but deep in Zhou Rong's heart, she only loves Feng Huacheng.
For Feng Huacheng, Zhou Rong unreservedly dedicated the most precious years of a young girl and experienced hardships in the mountains with him.
In the original work, Feng Huayi was unfaithful to her three times in a row, first with his ex-wife, and then returned home with a different woman.
Every time Zhou Rong saw Feng Huacheng's betrayal, she felt like a knife.
After a period of patience, Zhou Rong finally chose to divorce. However, after the divorce, she read a poem written by Feng Huacheng, and used the attitude of "no regrets" to describe her deep feelings for Feng Huacheng.
Zhou Rong's attitude towards Feng Huacheng can be described as "I'd rather die than regret it."
Although she made great sacrifices for Feng Huacheng, she was betrayed many times, why would she not regret or regret even if she chose to divorce?
It was only after reading the original that I realized that there were more secrets hidden in it.
Zhou Rong's feelings for Feng Huacheng start from desire to final love.
Frankly speaking, Zhou Rong didn't understand from the beginning that her feelings for Feng Huacheng were not out of love, but out of desire. He's a kind of ** for her, and she's been fighting for this **. However, when their relationship came to an end, the reason was love.
Zhou Rong's experience reveals to us that when a girl starts a relationship, there are two key factors that need special attention, because paying attention to these two aspects can help her avoid some unfortunate things.
1. The poems written by Feng Huacheng aroused Zhou Rong's deep admiration.
In the original work, Zhou Rong's older brother Zhou Bingyi is a senior in high school at City No. 1 High School, and he originally planned to take the university entrance exam. After the outbreak of the Cultural Revolution, his dream of pursuing university was shattered.
In the days before they left for the countryside and mountains, he and Hao Dongmei chose to secretly read forbidden books at home because they could not continue their studies and work."
They are Xi to pulling the curtains tight, reading and listening, and going deep into the characters described in the book**. In the process, they will discover many interesting stories. At that time, Zhou Bingkun, Zhou Rong and Cai Xiaoguang were all participants in the event.
Reading during this period laid the cornerstone of literature for them, which is why Cai Xiaoguang chose to embark on a journey of literary creation.
Zhou Rong also has a strong interest in literature. When she was in junior high school, she read a poem written by Feng Huacheng and wrote him a letter about it. As time passed, the maiden developed a deep affection for the poet she had never met.
At this moment, Zhou Rong is in her youthful adolescence, and she can't judge whether she really loves Feng Huacheng or really worships him, so she went to Beijing to meet him without her parents' knowledge.
Subsequently, when Cai Xiaoguang discussed this matter with Zhou Bingkun, even Zhou Bingkun, who has always been taciturn, admitted frankly that his sister actually fell in love with Feng Huacheng's poems, not Feng Huacheng herself.
Cai Xiaoguang lowered his head and whispered the idea that people and poetry are sometimes indistinguishable.
Indeed, even Zhou Rong herself has a hard time judging whether she loves Feng Huacheng deeply or has feelings for his poems.
In many cases, a woman's affection for a man often begins with reverence for them. Worship is an emotional identity, while love is a spiritual resonance. This is similar to many girls in our daily lives, who may go from idolatry to deep infatuation, but does this really represent love?
True love is often what both parties are pursuing, and mere adoration or affection does not represent true love.
However, Zhou Rong mistakenly thinks that this is true love, so, after seeing off her eldest brother, she kisses his father affectionately at the train station and leaves a letter to her mother and younger brother, and since then she has traveled thousands of miles to find true love.
At that time, Zhou Rong was convinced that love was her belief. In the author's books, Zhou Rong is described as a female character born out of love.
Her good impression of Feng Huacheng gradually sublimated from the initial reverence. She said that she was a very ideal person and hoped that she could become an excellent girl. In the end, he did not hesitate to pursue true love. In her letters to her mother and brother, she also expressed the view that although her mother felt that the good times of girls were only a few short years, she valued a good life more than just good years.
Zhou Rong firmly believes that a good life is to spend time with loved ones, but she knows very little about Feng Huacheng's true character. She said that she was just being an ordinary person, and she didn't like that kind of love. Just by reverence and affection for someone, you can feel that he is the one she loves deeply.
All this has laid hidden dangers for Zhou Rong's tragic fate in the future.
After Feng Huacheng was sent down in 2, her desire for protection was aroused.
Initially, when Zhou Bingkun met Zheng Juan for the first time, he was deeply attracted by her beauty and the predicament that Zheng Juan was in, which further stimulated Zhou Bingkun's deep sense of protection for the weak.
Everyone has the desire to protect the weak, and Zhou Rong is no exception. She is an ordinary rural woman who teaches mathematics in a rural primary school. When she traveled to Beijing without telling her parents, she found that the letters and postcards she had written to Feng Huacheng were posted along the timeline next to the big-character posters exposing him.
A complex emotion emerged in Zhou Rong's heart.
Before going to Beijing, Zhou Rong sketched the picture of her encounter with Feng Huacheng many times in her heart, which was undoubtedly full of poetry and painting, but when they really met, they completely lost their poetry.
Feng Huacheng is currently under public criticism. He said he was good friends with the girl. Then, Feng Huacheng noticed her, because before that, they had shared ** with each other. As a result, Feng quickly recognized her as the young woman who often wrote letters.
After Feng Huacheng saw Zhou Rong, he was unwilling to give in because he always looked at her. He thought that this woman must be hinting to himself that she was going to break up with him. Unfortunately, the belt was sucked away and blood splattered on his forehead.
It was at that particular moment that Zhou Rong made up her mind to get through the difficulties with Feng Huacheng. It was a stormy, cold day. At that particular moment, Feng Huacheng's tragic experience deeply touched her deep desire to protect, which led to her silent departure later.
Obviously, it is not enough to rely on love alone, she also needs to give up her parents, brother and brother. In her life, there is another important person. Although Zhou Rong knew that her parents would dissuade her, she still resolutely left a letter and went to Guizhou. On the one hand, it is because of her views on love, and on the other hand, because of Zhou Rong's rebellious character deep in her heart.
In the original book, her rebellious behavior is also reflected in a large number of words and descriptions.
Among the three siblings of the Zhou family, Bingyi inherited the harmonious atmosphere of his mother, Bingkun inherited his father's stubbornness, he loved to death, and Zhou Rong was born with a rebellious character from the bottom of his heart.
Since she was a child, Zhou Rong has performed well in every exam and has always been at the top. Her teacher had an in-depth conversation with her and told her that as long as she could continue to do so, the school would consider recommending her to the top middle school in the city in the future.
It was originally a very honorable thing to be escorted, but Zhou Rong refused because she thought it was her own decision which middle school she wanted to go to. Because in her opinion, if the school doesn't give her an admission letter, she can't graduate. Although she rejected the teacher's kindness, she succeeded in getting the teacher to give up the plan of escort in advance.
Zhou Rong was a fifth-grade student at the time, and what she said shocked all the teachers. She is a very naughty child, often fights with other children, and likes to bully her classmates, the teachers have criticized her a few times, but she just can't change it. I noticed that there was a different kind of charm in this child, so I smiled and said to her: It's not your decision to decide who gives up this idea.
The teachers originally thought that Zhou Rong was just a willful child, and once she finished speaking, it would be enough. I guess this kid has her own ideas. Unexpectedly, Zhou Rong deliberately released water in the exam, and as a result, she unexpectedly entered a middle school that was very close to home but not particularly good.
Zhou Rong chose to give up everything because her rebellious personality drove her to Guizhou, and Feng Huacheng was the target of criticism and reform, which further strengthened her sense of protection against the weak.
Her feelings for Feng Huacheng gradually changed from initial admiration to later protection. He fell in love with her in order to get her, in order to get everything from her. It wasn't until she was in Guizhou that she really fell in love with him. He is her husband. They also have a daughter named Feng Yue.
They spent ten years in Guizhou.
In Zhou Rong's opinion, that was her most cherished time.
3 Feng Huacheng's repeated betrayals completely shattered the love in her heart.
In the TV series, Feng Huacheng is giving a poetry recitation at Peking University, while Zhou Rong is sitting in the audience, looking at her husband intently, and even her brother's topic about Cai Xiaoguang is interrupted by her.
In her heart, Feng Hua's success is always the most important. When she was still at Peking University, she still had a deep respect for her husband.
In the original work, a heated quarrel broke out between Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng, because she presided over the poetry recital, and she was shocked to realize that her husband was actually using her, using every opportunity to pursue fame.
In the original, the description goes like this:
From her face as a poet, Zhou Rong sensed the last thing she wanted to see, that is, unscrupulous means for fame and fortune.
At that particular moment, she was deeply struck. Her husband is an engineer, he's a writer, they both work for a company, and they are happily married. She is, as some have described, the kind of person who has no grains of sand in her eyes, and she has an intelligence like ice and snow, as if she was born with the ability to "read minds". She is their daughter, their wife. In the past ten years, there has never been any dispute or discord between the couple, and their lives have almost nothing to do with fame and profit. In their dictionary of life, there is nothing else except firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
At that time, Zhou Rong had never used the "mind reading technique" on Feng Huacheng, and her talent had almost completely disappeared. In her poetic career, this innate talent cannot be changed. However, in this love poem recitation activity, after a fierce debate with Feng Huacheng, Zhou Rong's talent seems to be revitalized. All this is due to her tenacious and confident will and tenacious character. Like a person who has never been in the water for ten years, when he falls into deep water, his swimming skills are naturally awakened out of the instinct of survival.
During the debate with Feng Huacheng, she was shocked by her latest discovery.
At this moment, Zhou Rong finally realized that she had misunderstood Feng Huacheng before, and he was not as beautiful as she imaginedShe was a talented woman, but he treated her like a plaything. He's the kind of guy who uses all sorts of methods to climb the ladder.
Zhou Rong finally saw Feng Huacheng's true face, and although she was full of disappointment in her heart, she never considered severing her relationship with him.
After all, marriage is not child's play, and she can't choose to leave because of her disappointment in her husband.
However, Feng Hua became an unexpected surprise for her day by day.
He drank all day because he was dissatisfied with his job, but he blamed Zhou Rong for all the faults, claiming that he would not accept the job unless it was for her.
Zhou Rong was very angry, and asked him in turn: If it weren't for the fact that I fell in love with you, would I have gone to Guizhou?
Feng Huacheng declared: Since you are in love with me, you will not suffer, because now I have made you a Beijinger. How do you feel?Did you know?Some women are willing to have sex with me because of the hukou problem in Beijing.
Zhou Rong said angrily: Nonsense, if I don't have you, I can still enter Peking University.
Zhou Rong's mood became more and more depressed because she realized that her husband had cheated on her for many years.
Feng Huacheng initially claimed that he was not married, but in fact he had already been married. His ex-wife was the daughter of a deputy minister, and after he was given the title of "reactionary poet", his ex-wife divorced him and entered into marriage again.
Hearing that he has been rehabilitated, his ex-wife approaches him, hoping to restore the old relationship. The two were discovered by the current husband of the previous wife during the date, so Feng Huacheng wrote a letter of guarantee to her, which calmed things down.
Zhou Rong felt like a knife in her heart, she once put love first, and she felt that her love was tarnished. She wants her love to return to its original place. When she proposed a divorce, Feng Huacheng knelt down to apologize, and Zhou Rong chose to forgive him again in consideration of her daughter.
However, after that, Feng Huacheng shattered her heart many times.
Because Feng Huacheng is a poet, many girls like Zhou Rong who love poetry have high respect for him.
Rong Zhou is busy finishing her master's degree**. He is a man, but he is very dissatisfied with his husband. When she returns home, she unexpectedly encounters a situation that even her wife does not want to see. His head hit the wall, blood flowing. He was taken to the hospital for resuscitation. She slapped him hard. Feng Huacheng knelt down and apologized.
Zhou Rong's heart was deeply devastated, her husband challenged her bottom line many times, and she also considered ending her marriage. But she still chose to stick to it, she believes that marriage is a lifelong thing. However, the relationship between husband and wife for more than ten years is full of entanglements, which cannot be achieved by simply letting go.
Wang Pipi, a writer, once mentioned that whether it is marriage or divorce, they are all in competition to determine the winner or loser, and once decided, everything is just a legend.
After more than ten years of married life, more than ten years of young years, and the daughter she shared with Feng Huacheng, Zhou Rong finally made up her mind to cut off relations with him.
Feng Huacheng's life has sprung up with a variety of female poetry lovers and female journalists, most of whom are young, and they all like to listen to his in-depth "poetic aesthetics".
She gave him a resounding slap in the face.
He knelt down.
She had no choice but to forgive again.
He also forgave himself and let the drama of the past play out again. Their residence seems to have become a "women's poetry Xi center", and discussion in bed seems to have become an essential part.
Zhou Rong was no longer angry, and she calmly asked him why he did this
However, Feng Huacheng revealed this information to her:
I always thought that those ten years were really unsatisfactory and wanted to make up for myself. In the poetry world, I also had several failures and setbacks, but in the end, I overcame all difficulties with tenacious perseverance and became a poet. Time waits for no one, and if compensation is not accelerated, it is already too late. Relying only on the creation of poetry, I can no longer truly experience the depth and richness of life.
Feng Huacheng's words were full of irony for Zhou Rong, she thought that those ten years were the best youth, but in her husband's eyes, these ten years were the most unsatisfactory. She said that she had been bullied in front of her husband and that she felt that she was the most unlucky woman. Feng Huacheng used this as an excuse to make his wife feel ashamed. Her parents were both intellectuals and did well in college. Because of him, she decided to cut off all contact with her parents and family members.
Zhou Rong felt extreme pain in her heart.
She eventually realizes that her relationship with him has come to an end.
She suggested ending the marriage. She said that if my daughter has the ability to take care of herself, she doesn't need me to take care of her. Her daughter was with her, and she did not ask Feng Huacheng to pay any child support. Feng Huacheng gave a positive response.
On the way back to Peking University, Zhou Rong hugged an ancient locust tree tightly, unable to control her sadness and crying loudly.
After the divorce, Zhou Rong had no regrets or regrets about her previous relationship at all.
After the divorce, Zhou Rong read a long poem written by Feng Huacheng in a magazine called "My "Dongfu" Career". The poem was written by Feng Hua as Zhou Rong, in which he described Zhou Rong as a queen and accepted orders from Zeus to protect her.
In his poems, he vividly describes the various emotional fluctuations between the couple.
The poem has received enthusiastic praise from many scholars, all in praise of it.
Zhou Rong calmly read the complete poem and was deeply moved, but there were no tears in her eyes. She said, I just thought the song was good, so I wrote it, and then I thought it wasn't a good song. She considered herself the most qualified person to comment on the poem.
At that moment, four words suddenly popped into her thoughts: no complaints, no regrets.
So far, Zhou Rong has made an in-depth reflection and summary of her relationship. The affection between her and Feng Huacheng originated from her admiration and protection of him. During her ten years in Guizhou, she gradually developed a deep affection for him, but when she returned to Beijing, she gradually revealed Feng Huacheng's true colors.
It took her a full decade to finally recognize the man. Still, she has no regrets.
Because that moment was the happiest moment of her life. It took her ten years of good time in exchange for a clear life, and it was worth it!
Liu Na, a writer, once mentioned that the true meaning of growing up is betrayal again and again. In youth, everyone is abandoned by themselves and becomes a forgotten corner. It is only when we turn our backs on that weak, evasive, painful, and broken self that we are likely to encounter that brave, sincere, free, and peaceful self in the passage of time and the healing of our practice.
In life, everyone will continue to encounter failures and setbacks, and then gradually awaken, continue to grow, and finally find a better self.
Although Zhou Rong suffered betrayal, she did not regret it, because deep down in her heart, no matter how tense that relationship was, it was a compulsory lesson in her life, and only after experiencing this incident could she truly mature. Before this, she had been deceived, trafficked, kidnapped, and **. But in the end, she still chose to be a good woman. For her, these experiences and challenges have been very valuable.
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When Zhou Rong was young, out of reverence and sympathy for Feng Huacheng, she mistakenly thought that she was in love with him, but in fact, this was just an immature wishful thinking when she was young.
Feng Huacheng chose to accept her because he wanted to use her as a refuge for his working-class daughter to protect himself.
Later, Zhou Rong became the youngest associate professor in the school, and the courses she taught were warmly welcomed by the students.
Through her own life experience, she admonishes all girls that worship and compassion should not be blindly seen as true love. Because in love, only when two people can feel each other's existence can they truly love each other. In love, these two aspects are the biggest taboos.
She finds her own meaning in the student community and meets a true love she never really cared about.
In this long journey of life, everyone will face various difficulties and challenges. As long as we can stick to our beliefs, maintain an optimistic attitude, do not complain, and bravely resist in the face of adversity, we can firmly protect our happy life.
We will realize that every corner of life is full of beautiful things!Even in the face of adversity, fragrant flowers can be found.
Zhou Rong chose the wrong partner when she was young, everyone has their own youth, the wrong choice is not the most terrible, what is really frightening is to be in deep pain and unable to extricate themselves. She once lost a lovely and beautiful daughter after a car accident, and since then she has lost all the joy of life and work, and her life has fallen into extreme poverty. Zhou Rong did not indulge in pain, but stopped losses in time and lived her wonderful life.
Zheng Juan has also experienced some unfortunate things, but she relied on her tenacity and self-reliance to win Zhou Bingkun's affection and live a quiet life.
In this world, things don't always go their way. If we change our way of thinking, adjust our mindset, accept and overcome those things that are not satisfactory, then we can all meet a better version of ourselves.