Discussing the topic of marriage with my husband, we opened our hearts and talked without any taboos. I asked him if he would ever remember his first love. My husband said that before I got married, all the emotional experiences would be shown in my mind like a movie.
But after getting married, the past is like a dark cloud of the past, and sometimes when you see an excellent woman, you will appreciate each other;
But there is always only one woman that married men really care about. Reliable men only care about their wives because they understand three reasons.
First of all, a wife is a person who has gone through life experiences with a man.
I read a particularly sad quote before:
How can I prove the meaning of marriage?
The meaning of marriage is not what two people can do together while the person is alive, but that the person is dead and you are the only one who can sign his epitaph.
To be honest, this perception suddenly made my heart extremely heavy. When I thought about having children, my parents were obviously out there, but when it came time for my family to sign up, my husband was the first choice.
For married men, the wife is the one who establishes a marriage community with him, and she is a relative who needs time and energy to choose.
Two people should experience emotions together, and they should also experience everything in life together.
This fate and intimate life experience is unmatched by other women.
Second, a wife is a person who has experienced a marriage community with a man.
I really think that marriage is a kind of fate, that is, two people who are not related by blood come together under the traction of time, from strange to familiar, and thus become a family.
Before marriage, everyone is an individual. After getting married, they became a marriage community. Life is ordinary. Open your eyes every day and you will find your significant other lying next to you;
Every day when I come home from a tiring day at work, under the warm orange light, it is the same woman and man who go through the passage of time and every bit of life together.
Property also becomes joint property between husband and wife. Every penny spent requires two people to make a decision and discuss it together;Every penny earned is destined to be in the hands of two people.
A community of marriage also means a community of destiny.
Although two people are different individuals, two different individuals combine to form the same whole, witness each other's lives, and become an inseparable part of each other's lives.
Even if love becomes bland over time, once the feelings dissolved in water are formed, they become a habit that melts into the bones day after day and can no longer be easily stripped from life.
Third, the two had a child together.
The philosopher Russell once said: Raising children is the most beautiful process in life.
It is true that before I had children, I often quarreled with my husband, and I was not at all worried about what I wanted to do. It doesn't matter if you're together or apart, it doesn't seem to be a bond.
With children, everything is different. Just as we love each other, children are the fruit of our community. His body is half my blood and half contains her husband's life.
After having children, life seems to be more lively and interesting, and the goal of going home every day is clearer, which is to go back and play with children.
In order to create a good living environment for the children, reduce friction with the husband, but make our relationship more harmonious. Intimacy between husband and wife is a prerequisite for good parenting;
In order to make the child's future more reliable, which was not very reliable, we began to work hard to earn money, work and rest regularly, and did not dare to waste any time.