One of the things that people have been saying a long time is that there seems to be a strange phenomenon in rural areas: they don't like to see others doing well. Of course, this is not the case for everyone, but it is more common.
In rural areas, it is common for people to live in friendship and harmony if they are in the same economic situation, such as being relatively poor or having similar family conditions. But once someone suddenly becomes rich or richer than others, this economic disparity can lead to tensions and contradictions, and may even become a barrier between people.
Recently, a woman in Xuchang, Henan Province, suffered such a thing.
Ms. Xu said that in order to make her new house more beautiful, she spent more than 20,000 yuan to carry out a careful relief design on the exterior wall.
The theme of this piece is "Welcome Pine", which is intended to convey the meaning of welcome and prosperity. Surprisingly, however, the elaborate piece was destroyed shortly after.
After the incident, Ms. Xu quickly checked the surveillance video in front of her home, hoping to find clues to the saboteur.
When she saw what was happening in the surveillance video, she was so angry that she couldn't control herself: an old man from a rural village actually brought a bag of cement into the white exterior wall of her house, and then smeared the cement with his hands on the original lifelike "Welcome Pine" relief, which completely changed the original beautiful relief.
Subsequently, Ms. Xu approached the old man to find out what caused the destruction of the relief. Surprisingly, the old man not only did not apologize for this, but firmly claimed that the relief was in his way.
Ms. Xu thinks this explanation is completely unreasonable, and she does not understand why the decoration of her house's exterior wall has any effect on other people.
Ms. Xu said angrily: "You say that the villagers lack quality, but in fact it is just because they are jealous that other people's living standards have been improved. "When the house was built, they started stealing materials and stealing them. Now the police have been called. Her words reveal disappointment at the lack of basic respect and understanding between neighbors.
Netizen attitude. Some people made some suggestions to netizens, believing that this issue should be dealt with seriously. Since the damage has been done, it should be compensated in monetary terms, and it is absolutely unforgivable.
There are also some netizens who have the same opinion as the female homeowner, believing that this kind of person typically shows hatred, only laughs at others and cannot bring happiness, and is jealous.
People in the village often misunderstand how to be nice to others.
To be honest, what the person said was a bit too subjective. Of course, it may be her own personal feelings, but said"The people in the village can't see the good of others"Such a statement is not entirely accurate, because this jealousy exists both in the countryside and in the cities.
Living in the city is generally faced with great pressure to live and work. They spend most of their time busy with work and daily chores, struggling to make ends meet and improve their quality of life.
In this environment, city dwellers may develop psychological dissatisfaction due to jealousy of others, but they often do not have much time to pay attention to or participate in the lives of others due to the busy daily life. Their social circle is largely limited to work and necessary social activities, so although they may develop some comparative mentality, they do not interfere or discuss other people's private affairs too much.
Compared to the city, life in the countryside is generally more relaxed and people are more closely connected. Many rural residents do not have the same busy daily life as their urban counterparts, and they have more leisure time.
In this case, the residents of the countryside will often visit and chat, which has become a part of their daily life. They use chat to exchange information and share news and opinions.
In these exchanges, people often talk about things in the village, and topics such as the situation of the neighbor's family and the upbringing of children have become very common. This type of communication promotes connection and understanding among villagers to a certain extent, but it can also lead to excessive attention or even interference in the private lives of others.
In this case, that strange phenomenon has emerged in the countryside.
On this issue, if what Ms. Xu said is true, then the old man is likely to be in trouble.
Not to mention the previous theft of materials, after all, it is a thing of the past. Now let's talk about the destruction of the relief.
The valuation of this relief is 20,000 yuan, and the suspect's behavior constitutes the crime of intentionally damaging other people's property, and the amount of loss is also 20,000 yuan, and it is a huge loss. I am afraid that this jealous behavior will bring unnecessary trouble to myself.