Grandma Lu, who lives in Chongming Yangtze River Farm, is nearly seventy years old, and since her daughter-in-law added a baby to the family the year before last, she has worked harder to take care of the housework, getting up early and taking care of the family, especially after the death of her wife last year, Grandma Lu has borne the burden of life at home, and the daily expenses of the family are paid by her.
Caption: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a conflict over trivial matters in life, and the police find a breakthrough to stitch up the relationship between the two sides Photo courtesy of Chongming Public Security.
In order for my granddaughter to eat river shrimp, I got up at 5 o'clock to go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, I can't ride an electric car, so I take the morning bus, I don't bargain for more than 100 yuan a pound of shrimp, and I am willing to pay for my granddaughter to buy. But it's not good to spend money and contribute like this. Grandma Lu said that her daughter-in-law couldn't rub sand in her eyes, and in the process of taking the baby, she felt that the old man was doing something wrong, and she had to say it, sometimes it was a reproach, so that she didn't want to stay in this house.
Some time ago, his son Xiaoyao, who was sandwiched between the two, also began to complain about Grandma Lu, he blamed his mother for not understanding her son, because the mother was not working hard and did not listen to her daughter-in-law, which caused the family to grunt all day long and not be clean. Grandma Lu heard that her son did not think of her dedication, but blamed her, and ran away from home twice.
On December 18, after the community police learned about it, in order to avoid uncontrollable incidents, the staff of the joint neighborhood committee came to do work.
My mother-in-law does a lot of work, but it is very rough, and the mop is always wrung out when mopping the floor at home, and the ground is often wet, telling her that there are children at home who are easy to slip. Sometimes I forgot to put salt and sugar in the dishes, and I even washed one of my clothes with warm water not long ago......Facing the staff, the daughter-in-law, Ms. Wu, was full of words and showed the clothes to everyone as she spoke.
The old man's hard work for the big family is taken for granted by his daughter-in-law, and the habits in life and the flaws in housework are magnified, and the old man is sad and acts impulsively. After the police and the staff of the neighborhood committee learned about it, they asked Xiao Yao and Ms. Wu if they were willing to let the old man move to his home in Pudong (the property that Lu and his wife bought before) to live alone, and Xiao Yao and Ms. Wu thought about it for a while and expressed their disagreement. It turned out that Ms. Wu had not worked well since she married from other provinces and had no regular incomeXiao Yao works in a supermarket, and he has no time to take care of his family and children when he gets up early and returns late, and his mother, Grandma Lu, is an indispensable right-hand man in their family's life.
Your mother is still helping you at an old age, and it is too late for you to be grateful, but you want to make her heart bleed. I want the elderly to selflessly support and help, but I don't want to tolerate some of the shortcomings of the elderly, how can there be such a good thing?The staff of the neighborhood committee criticized Xiao Yao and Ms. Wu.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is rigid, and the family environment is not harmonious, which is harmful to the 3-year-old baby, and the child grows up day by day, and she will imitate the words and deeds of adults. Seeing that the words of Grandma Lu and her son and daughter-in-law gradually eased, the police lost no time in pointing out that the child is the future of the family, and her growth needs a harmonious family atmosphere of mutual care. When Grandma Lu heard this, she seemed to have hit the weakness, and said with old tears: "What my daughter-in-law said about my problems is that I am forgetful. ”
Seeing this scene, Ms. Wu couldn't help but say emotionally: "I am also a mother, it is not easy to be a mother, in the future, I will definitely restrain my temper, tolerate my mother-in-law more, and set a good example for my children." "As the intermediary of the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I did not reconcile their relationship, but took sides, I am responsible, and I am an unfilial son. Xiao Yao took the opportunity to make self-criticism.
After the three adults in the family opened their hearts, they further understood each other, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was reconciled. On December 20, Ms. Wu took Grandma Lu's hand and happily went to the Changjiang Police Station to present a pennant and thank the police for sewing up the cracks in the family.
Xinmin Evening News reporter Xie Min.