There is such a passage in "The First Half of My Life":"People live for a lifetime, there is no next time, this life can not be improvised, it will be done, it is not like going out to eat, this time this restaurant is not delicious, just make do with the full, next time change one. I understand the truth, but all people are about to settle, and they will live a lifetime in this way. "
Everyone hopes that there will be such a person, who has traveled all over thousands of rivers and mountains, across mountains, rivers, lakes and seas to love you, spoil you for a lifetime, love you for a lifetime, and love you for a lifetime.
A relative, nearly 30 years old, is still single and unmarried. The phrase that always hangs on the lips of her parents is that when I was your age, you would be playing soy sauce. The love in the parents' era was relatively pure, and loving someone was a lifetime, even if it stumbled.
In this day and age, it is rare to see and hear pure love. Therefore, there are more and more single girls and boys, and if they can't meet the right person they like, they would rather be lonely than compromised.
There's a saying that goes like this:"When they are born, they are only half of them, and they walk in the world in order to find their other half. Some people are lucky and find it quickly, while others have to look for it for a lifetime. "I think even if you reach an age where the whole world thinks that if you don't marry, you will be old and no one wants it, don't make compromises easily. Clothes can do it, food can do it, but love never does. The remainder is precious, and a momentary compromise may bring endless pain and regret.
My cousin got married at the age of thirty-three, and her husband was a blind date that her parents thought was good. In her words, whoever you marry anyway is married, so it's better to choose one that your parents like. When she said this, I saw regret in the depths of her eyes.
Fortunately, my cousin bet was right, and now that she has children, her husband is also very good to her. I just don't know if she will sigh when she dreams back at midnight.
Not everyone can be so lucky, and what they will get in exchange may be just the loneliness of one person, but the loneliness of two people.
Marriage is a lifelong affair and should be happy with no regrets. Age and marriage are not reciprocal, and it is not necessary to get married when you are older.
We should not marry for the sake of other people's gossip, nor should we marry for our parents. If you can't meet someone you like, it's better to live alone.
A lot of misfortunes start from the future, choose to get married, then marriage will not be good for you, it will also be for you, so that you fall into a more desperate situation.
If one day you choose to get married, I hope it must be because, in that person, you feel favored, that person's appearance makes you a better version of yourself, and you look forward to and yearn for a life with that person.
Never just find someone to marry.
Because there are people who go through layers of hell and pull you back to the world;
And there are people who go through layers of heaven and drag you into hell.
Writing lyrically