My father-in-law is a 64-year-old single man who earns more than 8,000 yuan a month. Although he is retired and owns oneFacade roomHe rents out for extra income, but he is out and has frequent affairs with various women. Such behavior caused distress in the family, and the couple felt very embarrassed and did not know how to deal with their father-in-law's flowery behavior.
My father-in-law was originally a person who liked to dance, but his hobby became an excuse to go with a female **. Although his father-in-law had previously said that he was just looking for friends, he actually developed a relationship with two aunts in their fifties. This led to two women arguing downstairs, triggering community and ** intervention. The couple was helpless about it and didn't know how to deal with their father-in-law's problems.
Whenever the couple wanted to speak up or reproach their father-in-law's actions, they found that they had no reason to interfere in their father-in-law's private affairs. Although his father-in-law's behavior was morally criticized, he did not break the law and did not commit a crime. The couple could only condemn their father-in-law's misconduct in their hearts, and had no choice but to face his behavior.
For such behavior of father-in-law, we should not only stay at the level of moral condemnation, but also think about deeper issues. As elders, they need to set an example and set the right behaviour for future generations. We should not allow older people to focus on their own comfort at the expense of their childrenSocialExpectations and respect for them. Maintaining the reputation and harmony of the family is what the elderly should do.
Looking for a solution in a dilemma still doesn't seem to solve the problem completely. And as family members, there are ways we can influence the behavior of our father-in-law. First of all, you can take the way of family members working together, so that the father-in-law can feel the support and love of the family, so that he can be happy with the wind and snowlifeGradually, it fades away. At the same time, through communication with his father-in-law, he was guided to pay attention to the feelings of his children and the troubles of the family, and enhance his awareness of family responsibilities.
At the same time, the building of community and neighborhood relationships is very important. The community can organize activities that provide entertainment for the elderly so that they can better integrateSocial。Neighbors can also communicate with each other and pay attention to the elderlylifeand give the necessary help and support when needed. Such interaction and care can reduce the loneliness and bad behavior of the elderly to a certain extent.
Finally, as the younger generation, we should also think about how to do it in our old agelifeset an example. We should value ethics, not only to be responsible for ourselves, but also to respect others and to establish the right values for future generations. Only in this way can we truly respect the old and love the young, and make peace for the familySocialCreate a harmonious atmosphere.