Derailment is an unavoidable topic in a social phenomenon. For the cheating to the other half of the hurt is very big, and even makes the other half doubt about himself, cheating is really very sad and confusing, I don't understand why some people choose to cheat after marriage?This article will try to analyze the main reasons for this.
1. Women dislike men and don't make money.
In some marriages, financial issues become an important conflict between husband and wife. Because wives will miss the development of their careers due to childbirth and other reasons, the economy of many families is mainly based on their husbands, and when wives dislike their husbands for not earning enough money and cannot provide adequate living security, they may seek financial satisfaction, which becomes one of the reasons for their cheating. In this case, women may seek out men who are more financially capable to meet their material needs.
Second, men dislike women and spend too much money.
Of course, when men dominate the family economy, some men sometimes feel dissatisfied with their wives' spending Xi in marriage. When husbands think that their wives are spending too much money and blindly spends regardless of the family's financial situation, they may become dissatisfied and bored. And this boredom may prompt them to seek out other women to alleviate financial stress and psychological burden.
3. Men are too lazy.
Nowadays, more and more families are dual-career families, and if the men are too lazy to take on household chores and responsibilities. This behavior can not only trigger the wife's dissatisfaction, but it can also cause her to feel lonely and helpless in the marriage. When a wife meets a man who is willing to take responsibility and cares about her, she may be attracted to the idea of cheating.
Fourth, family reasons, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a complex issue in marriage. When the relationship between the wife and her mother-in-law is strained, the husband may feel torn between a dilemma. Prolonged conflicts and conflicts can lead to disappointment and dissatisfaction between wives and husbands. And the husband will also be dissatisfied with his wife because of the various complaints of his family members about his wife. In this case, both people may seek comfort and support from other members of the opposite sex, leading to cheating behavior.
5. Selfishness and self-interest, only thinking about yourself.
Some people still maintain a selfish personality after marriage, thinking only about their own feelings and needs. This behavior not only affects the relationship between couples, but it can also cause the other person to feel neglected and unvalued. When one of the partners meets someone who is more caring and considerate, they may choose to cheat in order to meet their emotional needs.
6. Other reasons.
In addition to the above several reasons, there are some other factors that can lead to infidelity after marriage. For example: conflict of personal values, disharmony in sex life, lack of communication, etc. These factors can become the fuse of conflicts and dissatisfaction between couples, which in turn can lead to infidelity.
In conclusion, infidelity after marriage is a complex social phenomenon. It involves many factors such as personal values, economic status, family relationships, etc. In order to avoid such behavior, husband and wife should strengthen communication, understanding, support and tolerance, and jointly maintain the stability and happiness of the marriage. At the same time, the society should also strengthen the publicity and guidance of marriage education and moral concepts to reduce the occurrence of infidelity.