There are many headaches for parents in the process of growing up, and one of the reasons that is often overlooked is that well-behaved children can grow up to be stupid. This is especially evident for some children, who are quiet at an early age, rarely cry and can play independently, which allows parents to do their own things with ease. However, over time, these children begin to exhibit different traits from their peers, such as not being interested in people, not making eye contact, and not knowing how to play with other children. They also have a sluggish reaction time, sometimes crying after being hit or falling. At the same time, these children develop their language slowly and become overly addicted to things they like. This article will help parents understand why well-behaved children become clumsy when they are young and provide some ways to educate them.
1. The critical period of brain development is missed
Infants and young childrenPeriod is a critical period for the rapid development of the brain. At this stage, children's playfulness and hyperactivity are obvious signs of rapid brain development. They need to grow up in a rich, diverse, safe and warm environment to promote synaptic growth and connection formation of neurons in the brain, so that the quality of the brain's network will be better and the child will become smart and cute. However, if a child's growth environment is not stimulated or too monolithic, their brain network will be simple, clear, and clean, which will cause them to appear stupid or even naïve, and their mental age is far below their biological age.
2. Poor establishment of sensory pathways
Infants and young childrenChildren in the period, if they do not cry or make trouble, are either weak and do not have the strength to cry;Either it is a dull sensation, less sensory pathways, not having enough feelings for external information and internal needs, so there is no reaction and need, so it does not cry often. In both cases, it is necessary to urgently help children establish sensory pathways, carry out full body massage and targeted sensory integration training every day, and at the same time, parents should interact with their children more and have intimate dialogues, so as to create a variety of rich and beneficial to perception, hearing, smell, taste, etcHapticsand vestibulenervous systemdevelopment of environmental stimuli. Only by establishing sensory pathways can a child's body correctly receive information from the outside world and transmit it to brain functional areas, thus facilitating the connection of brain networks.
1. Observe your child's expressions and mannerisms
Parents should carefully observe their children's expressions and mannerisms and pay attention to whether they present characteristics that are different from those of their peers. For example, if a child shows disinterest in people, does not make eye contact, or does not like to play with other children, this could be a warning sign. Also, if the child does not respond to physical pain in a timely manner, and the toy that has been snatched away by someone else is not angry and does not protect itself, it may also need attention. These can be signs of a severe sensory integration disorder that requires parental attention.
2. Seek professional help in a timely manner
If parents observe that their child has the above characteristics, they should seek professional help in a timely manner. You can talk to your doctor or child development specialist to see if your child is presentSensory integration disordersand get the corresponding training and coaching program. Early intervention and adjustment are the key to changing a child's fate, but not every child is so lucky, some children may not start to notice language delays until they are two or three years old, and some may not find themselves significantly different from their peers until they enter primary school. Therefore, parents should stay vigilant and find the cause and solution in time.
1. Learn more about children's developmental characteristics
Parents should take the initiative to understand the characteristics of children's development, learn Xi knowledge of children's growth, and understand children's performance and needs at different stages. Only by understanding the laws of children's development can we give children the right stimulation and attention in time to avoid the problem of serious sensory integration disorder.
2. Give children a reasonable environment for growth
It is very important to provide a safe and warm environment for children to grow up in. Parents should interact with their children, play and have intimate dialogues, create a diverse and rich environment and stimulate children's sensesnervous systemdevelopment. This can help children build sensory pathways and improve their ability to feel and respond to information from the outside world.
3. Respect children's individuality and needs
Every child is unique, with their own characteristics and needs. Parents should respect their children's individuality and provide them with appropriate support and guidance. At the same time, it is also necessary to pay attention to children's emotions and inner world, listen to their expressions and needs in a timely manner, and give them emotional support and a sense of security.
Well-behaved children may face various problems growing up, including becoming stupid. Parents should observe their children's expressions and mannerisms in a timely manner, pay attention to whether there is a serious problem of sensory integration disorder, and seek professional help in time. At the same time, parents should also give their children a suitable environment to grow up, respect their individuality and needs, help them establish sensory pathways, and promote brain development and connection. Only in this way can children truly show their smart, lively and lovely state of life.