Trust your own instincts, and if you don't feel loved, you don't love. People who love you won't lie to you, and they won't do what you care about. Every time you say something, if you don't pay attention to it, he will float. will think that you are a bully, and can often find reasons to prevaricate in the past. Either the words don't make sense, and they go around in circles with you to suffocate your anger. Either that, or what was said, was left behind afterwards. If you don't implement it all the time, you may even feel that you are picking on thorns. Many of the details in the process of getting along can find the answers you want.
People who give a lot in a relationship are more difficult to give up, and they will want to confirm their ideas. Even though the facts are already in front of you, you still want to seek psychological comfort from your partner. Many times, it is you who are tolerant, so that he often treats you perfunctorily. Even sometimes they even beat you upside down, pointing the finger at you and fighting you to the end. It's because you didn't pay attention to getting along before, so he formed a habit that he couldn't figure it out.
So, both people have problems, you are more and more tolerant, and he is more and more arrogant. From the beginning, you asked him to prove it, but he asked you to prove that others love you. So many times of deception and so many things that are sorry for you have already broken your bottom line of principles. If you lose the bottom line of principle, you will lose yourself, which is equivalent to a lamb to be slaughtered. It is not meaningful to seek the answer of love or not love again, and it is necessary to hurry up when you can stop the loss in time and wake up. You try to give him a chance to adjust and change, and he agrees but still doesn't feel loved. That can only say that it is really inappropriate for you to get along with each other, and it is better to get rid of it as soon as possible than to struggle with internal friction like this. If you can't change others, you can only change yourself.