When "Snail House" debuted, it was in the winter of 2009, when I was still in the first half of my senior year, and I was working hard every day to prepare for graduate school. The other girls in the dormitory, more precisely, were deeply attracted to the TV series "Snail House". A few girls came to chat with me because they watched "Snail House", saying that they wanted to buy her a TV series they liked, and then they started searching the Internet for relevant information. They are talking about this TV series every day, and there is a lot of discussion about this work on the Internet.
I hadn't finished producing the show before my graduate exams, but it was so real that it sparked a heated public discussion and was taken down for rectification.
Set in the metropolis of Jiangzhou (meaning Shanghai), Snail House depicts the experience of a pair of sisters from a small town who build a home and live in the metropolis. The heroine in the play is a little person who is too ordinary to be ordinary. Sister Guo Haiping (played by Haiqing) and sister Guo Haizao (played by Li Nian) live at the bottom of Jiangzhou. Because Guo Haiping's sister wants to buy a property, the two sisters have experienced many life choices and twists and turns in life. For the sake of her sister, Guo Haizao's sister broke through her own boundaries and fell into a complex love-hate relationship with the mayor's secretary Song Siming (played by Zhang Jiayi), and paid a heavy price for it.
It's been more than a decade since the TV series debuted, and although many post-90s and post-00s don't realize it exists, in my opinion, it's undoubtedly an outstanding work about real life. In this materialistic era, our hearts actually need a calm spiritual home, and "Snail House" is such a work. For those who have ever experienced renting and buying a house, they will deeply understand the plight of Haiping buying a house in "Snail House" and her days renting around, and have a deeper understanding of the choices of the two sisters, Haiping and Haizao.
For adults, especially those at the bottom of the city, their lives are full of reality and helplessness. Love is short-lived, so how many loves and marriages can really withstand the test in this cruel life?
In addition to deeply feeling these situations, many people also have deep memories of the emotional dispute between Guo Haizao and Song Siming. Because they're all so committed when they're together. Can they really be called love for each other?Because of such a person, this pair of lovers has come to this day in this world. Why did these two people cause people to sigh so deeply?
1.Song Siming satisfies the girls' fantasies about love.
For a young woman in her twenties, a man who is successful in his career and mature and steady, and at the same time full of tenderness and thoughtfulness, has a huge appeal. This is not only because of his financial ability, but more importantly, because of the wisdom, ability and thoughtfulness he has accumulated over time, which makes the female ** particularly safe.
In the work "Snail House", Song Siming not only has abundant resources, powerful power and wealth, but more importantly, he also cares about others very much, knows the truth of the matter and understands the fun. He loves seaweed, loves her, and loves her in the way of loving her body, loving her soul. His love for seaweed is not only because of the youth and beauty of seaweed, but also because every time he sees her, he seems to see his first love time back in time, and the innocence of seaweed makes him deeply heartbroken.
Seaweed developed a deep affection for Song Siming, not only because Song Siming had deep financial resources and could help her solve many thorny problems, which these simple Xiaobei (Haizao's boyfriend) could not give, but she also experienced thoughtfulness, care and possessiveness because of love in him.
Xiaobei and Song Siming are not the same person in the ranks.
In the work environment, Seaweed meets Song Siming for the first time, and she fully understands her boss's intention to treat her as a "vase" and keeps her distance from Song Siming. Seaweed has a deep affection for her boyfriend, Becky, who is the one she plans to spend the rest of her life with in the future, even though Becky is poor like her.
Seaweed warned herself that her relationship with Song Siming was just an intersection at work, and she shouldn't be too close to Song Siming. Song injected water, seaweed knew, Song injected too much water. Since my sister only needs 50,000 yuan to buy a property, the family is at risk of economic collapse. Seaweed had nothing to do, so he borrowed 50,000 yuan from Song Siming. In order to avoid having too much to do with Song Siming, she managed to get back 50,000 yuan from Xiaobei and return it to Song Siming to clarify the boundary with Song Siming.
If life had remained so peaceful, Seaweed might have lived a sweet and stable life with Becky, getting married and having children. But for the sisters Haizao and Haiping, who live at the bottom of society, ordinary people's ability to cope with risks is too weak.
Fate gradually led the seaweed in Song Siming's direction.
Haiping encountered constant difficulties in the process of buying a house: she was humiliated by her superiors in a Japanese company, and failed to receive a year-end bonus through disguised layoffsBrother-in-law Su Chun was framed and at risk of imprisonment as a result of earning extra income to support the family's expensesHaiping's rented house has become unsheltered due to demolition.
In the vast Jiangzhou (Shanghai), life is so harsh, the two sisters have little to rely on due to lack of strength, and can only support each other. Seaweed can't stand her sister's torture, and whenever her sister faces a predicament, the only person she can think of is Song Siming.
Seaweed has firmly decided to cut ties with Song Siming many times, but when her sister feels that there is no way out, she still has to ask Song Siming for help.
Song Siming has abundant resources and great power, and he is able to handle various problems perfectly every time, solving problems for the two sisters, which makes them deeply grateful and unconsciously inclined to support Song Siming in their hearts.
Song Siming is unique in that he does not immediately ask for reciprocal returns, nor does he condescend and remain calm. In fact, he did a lot of things silently for the two sisters, Haiping and Haizao. It wasn't until later that Seaweed learned from others that it was Song Siming who helped them.
Song Siming made Seaweed feel deeply cared for and cherished, and he was willing to make any sacrifice for Seaweed, as long as Seaweed was in demand, as long as he Song Siming was willing to provide.
Love is often a woman's vulnerability, and few people can resist Song Siming's low-key but deep-rooted feelings, which led to the gradual fall of seaweed.
2.The relationship between these two people was like a pair of little lovers.
If the moral aspect is not considered, the love affair between Seaweed and Song Siming can also be compared to the average couple. Seaweed is a very special character in the seaweed kingdom, it can't speak, but it can convey emotional messages with its eyes - seaweed likes the taste of seaweed, and seaweed will take the initiative to share their love with seaweed. Seaweed, who has never been in the kitchen, will do her best to prepare delicious food for Song Siming. When Seaweed tastes the delicious yellow croaker noodles outside, he will take Song Siming to taste them together. In the process of obtaining a driver's license for seaweed, Song Siming held strict standards for the safety of seaweed.
Song Siming is committed to assisting Seaweed in solving the problems she encounters in her work, providing her with work guidance, and patiently listening to her comfort and advice when Seaweed is in trouble.
The love between the two is very sweet, but the feelings between the four seem overcrowded and chaotic.
When Song Siming finds out that Xiaobei is with Seaweed, he will feel jealous and deliberately sabotage, which makes Xiaobei learn of Song Siming's existence. Song Siming selfishly decided to let Seaweed and Xiaobei sever the relationship that belonged to Song Siming alone.
When Seaweed finds out that Song Siming is with her wife and children, she will also feel extreme pain and loss of control.
After a breakup and reconciliation with Becky, Seaweed is determined to atone for her past mistakes and enter the palace of marriage with Becky. Despite Song Siming's heavy heart, he conveyed his blessing through Haizao's sister Haiping.
For Seaweed and Becky, it's hard for them to really cross their inner barriers. Becky has never been able to re-establish his trust in Seaweed, and he often recalls the scene when Seaweed was with Song Siming, which not only tortured himself, but also Seaweed. Seaweed is a very nice man, he likes the gentleness of Seaweed, but Seaweed can also have some prejudice against Seaweed, which makes Seaweed feel sad. After an argument between the two, Seaweed finds Song Siming in the middle of the night and sits sadly next to his car. Song Siming felt very heartbroken and advised Haizao not to marry again, and it was better to return to him.
Seaweed and Song Siming, also known as Shuo Potian, represent a male and a female, respectively. It seems to me that there is indeed love between them. In the first half of this unfortunate fate, they were like ordinary lovers, and they also experienced many sweet and beautiful moments.
Song Siming is a man who is more than a decade older than Seaweed, and he has both sincere feelings and a selfish side to Seaweed. He can neither put a formal label on his marriage to Seaweed, nor let this unhappy fate be exposed in the sun, which is his greatest selfishness.
3.At the critical moment, the self-rescue operation was abandoned, and the seaweed mother and child were appropriately placed.
Due to a variety of factors, Song Siming had a hunch that he might encounter misfortune. He tossed and turned in the middle of the night, trying to entrust the pregnant seaweed to the person he trusted most, his original wife, so that she could take care of the seaweed and the soon-to-be-born child. However, his wife firmly refused his request.
In order to alleviate his crime, his wife ** took possession of her own property and raised a large sum of money for him to return his stolen money, so that he could get a lighter sentence in the future, and possibly even be found not guilty. But unexpectedly, Song Siming gave 5 million seaweed (5 million in 2009 was more than now).
Song Siming's wife uses the money she received from her wife's sale of the family property to save Seaweed and her children, which causes her to lose control of her emotions and come to her door to ask for a conflict with Seaweed, and Seaweed suffers an accident.
After learning the news of the misfortune that had happened to Seaweed, Song Siming did not hesitate to visit Seaweed in the hospital. But on the way, he discovers that Seaweed not only lost his child, but also had his blood drained and his uterus removed. Since then, he has lost the idea of having children, and he did not choose to avoid the oncoming truck, and finally died on the spot.
After Song Siming's death, his close friend Mark came from overseas and traveled abroad with seaweed. Only then did everyone understand that before Song Siming's accident, he had carefully planned the future life for Seaweed and her children, and asked Mark to take Seazao and her children abroad to stay away from the strife in Jiangzhou.
As soon as Haiping heard the news, she immediately burst into tears, yes, Song Siming has a deep affection for seaweed and children. Seaweed also knew that her life was not good, but Seaweed did not choose to give up. Many viewers of the show think that Song Siming has sincere feelings for seaweed, because he once loved seaweed deeply, which is why he made so many arrangements for seaweed at critical moments.
However, what about Song Siming's main wife?She was the lover of her husband, who was the prime minister of the Song regime. Isn't she also deeply in love?She really didn't know how to choose what was best for her husbandShe has accompanied Song Siming through 20 years of ups and downs, using her mother's resources to pave the way for his career, taking care of his parents and family, cultivating his daughter, and being diligent and thrifty in keeping the family, isn't she true love for Song Siming?In the end, the wife who only has chaff is only worthy of being a stepping stone?
I have to say that there is love between Seaweed and Song Siming, but at the same time, it is also a wrong love, which is destined not to end well!
Both Seaweed and Song Siming paid a heavy price for this unfortunate fate, which made their lives full of regrets and remorse.
A relationship that cannot be shown in the sun is destined to be neither blessed nor have a good ending.
No matter how much you love or like it, you should not interfere with the emotions and family life of others, and the expression of emotions should not be limited to etiquette, in addition to sending blessings, you should keep your distance. We need to find the person who can make your mood happy and happy, there are no conditions, as long as you are willing. The person we are looking for who can walk with you without reservation in the sun is the deep emotion that can be blessed by everyone under the sun.
No matter how far we go, the wrong direction will only lead to more mistakes.