In the original, there exists a file called"When I looked down and smiled, I suddenly went back to my college days"This actually reveals the deep meaning of seaweed for Song Siming.
It was the first New Year after Song Siming and Guo Haizao met. Song Siming said to Seaweed early: "During the Chinese New Year, please give me a few days to go to Tongxiang with me." This is the first time that Song Siming has publicly demonstrated the existence of Guo Haizao to everyone.
Almost all of the old classmates will feel a sense of familiarity when they see Guo Haizao, this is because Guo Haizao's appearance is very similar to their college classmate Su Hui, with a temperament that seems to be non-existent, and some expressions.
Seaweed once expressed that she was just a somen girl with no much physical appeal, and she didn't understand why Song would show her such a loving and gentle attitude. Seaweed has spent her whole life looking for happiness. In fact, what he really loves is not seaweed, but what he makes for himself after gaining choice and ability.
When a person decides to embark on a higher path, he or she will have to let go of some of the details that are more obvious in the original book that reveal the real reason why Song Siming became the current Song Siming.
During his college years, the poor young man fell deeply in love with Su Hui, the daughter of a university professor. He has deep feelings for her, but he doesn't know how to express them. Despite his intelligence, he felt extremely inferior, and this crimson dream had been shattered before it could be realized.
At that time, he silently made a vow that as long as fate gave him another chance, he would have enough courage, conditions and ability to never miss any more opportunities.
Seaweed presented him with a great opportunity.
Does Song Siming really like his wife?He knew he was a man who couldn't possibly get her, so he swallowed his anger and accepted the fact. In fact, he first came together with his first wife, behind which he had a secret intention to climb upward, believing that she was a virtuous wife and mother who was willing to give everything for him. So when he realized that he was not his wife's first companion, he chose to endure: those who aspire to rise should let go of the tiny details.
Out of deep affection for him, Song's wife did not need real estate, but was willing to live with him in a staff dormitory. After Song Siming went abroad to study for a year, she brazenly returned home and begged her parents to take care of her children, while she herself went out and worked hard to make money to make up for Song Siming's lack of life abroad.
The reason why Lao Song failed to return to Su Hui after a successful career was simply because the woman he had been thinking about died of illness within two years of graduation, causing him to lose his dream of pursuing her.
In the end, when Song Siming's behavior was revealed, Secretary Sun was very shocked: everyone's evaluation of Song Siming is pragmatic, pragmatic and steady, if they can't find a clear entry point, how can they accept a bribe?
In fact, every effort Song Siming has made is to be fully prepared to be able to control the weather in the future. The source of his instability and instability was the seaweed that was very similar to Su Hui.
Frankly, Song Siming doesn't like seaweed. It's not just about getting Seaweed pregnant when she's unmarried and turning into a permanent "gutter rat", it's about how he always transforms Seaweed into a silhouette of her own unfulfilled dreams and saves her life by falling from the sky like "Superman" to make up for her inner regrets.
In fact, he brought Seaweed to the class reunion for some purpose. Rather than showing that he was no longer a poor young man, he was showing everyone a copy of the female classmate who had no story and who was now next to me.
He is not indifferent to the details, but hides all the details deep in his heart, looking forward to being able to show them one by one when he succeeds, to practice and realize his dreams. His dream is to be a qualified accountant and to be a good accountant.
When he realizes his dream, he once again becomes the cute and somewhat dull young man of his college days, wholeheartedly expressing his feelings that have turned yellow and old, whether it is in accordance with the rules or not.
People often say that omnipotence is actually just to make up for the inferiority complex in the heart;The so-called regaining of passion is actually just a return to the dream of youth.
Song Siming has experienced many ups and downs in the political world, but he has always maintained his innocence. He is not interested in those personable women, and whenever there is an improper relationship, he will take the initiative to cut off relations with them. In this regard, he is undoubtedly a real "good man." He is a very honest man and never deals with women. However, in the matter of seaweed, he unleashed all the dark side of his heart.
Let's observe how he skillfully draws seaweed to himself many times:
When the two are not very familiar with each other, they can be gifted"Try it out"mobile phones and sleepwalking dolls, and then generously lent them 20,000 yuan;
When Seaweed begged Song to lend him 60,000 yuan to make up for the financial gap left by his brother-in-law like a helpless little white rabbit, he did not hesitate to hold Seaweed's hand tightly, saying that any problem that could be solved with money was not a big problem;
When the Seaweed family didn't have their own home, when Seaweed had to change clothes with her sister, and even after they ended their relationship for the first time, Song Siming quietly went to find Su Chun.
He was proud not because of his ability to care for the young woman, but because he had two other motives:
His seaweed bears a striking resemblance to the silhouettes of his life, and he longs to reunite the woman he loves with his past dreams in this way. He wanted to show his body to the woman he had cherished for a long time, hoping that she would have a child of her own, and that after years of self-restraint and reciprocation, the woman he loved would have the power to change her fate;
He is no longer the young, ignorant man who has spent more than a decade building a powerful network of contacts for himself, whether it's a real estate agent, a lawyer, a doctor, or a director of a manufacturing plant. His secretary Song only said a few words, and no one could not help but give him a little face.
Deep down, he once again sees Seaweed as his once lost self, and he longs to remove all obstacles for a fragile girl through this "gods and Buddhas don't get in the way" method, just as he once expected others to achieve for him.
In fact, even if Seaweed successfully resists Song Siming's kindness, he will still use other means to pull the woman to his side, he will make her soft, and use his heart to plead with her - he is not pursuing Seaweed, but his first love.
Several scenes in the play profoundly show his inner world:
After many years of life experience, he has come to see his wife as his family. He is not the kind of ungrateful person, he has the most basic moral values. Considering the deep relationship between the two families, whether it is a daughter, a parent or a brother, all problems are closely connected and cannot be solved by simply "not loving". His "love" and "hate" both come from his women.
More strictly speaking, Song Siming's influence is based on everything Mrs. Song has prepared for him, such as his parents' birthday, his brother's job, or the whereabouts of the family's little-known funds. He needs a woman who can manage the housekeeping of the house, just like he himself is someone else's "Secretary Song", and Mrs. Song is "Secretary" in his subconscious.
To say that I don't love is that it feels too cold;Saying I love it feels too reluctant.
His computing skills are excellent, but he loses contact with Su Hui. He gave his life for this woman, who only appeared twice in the original book and in a few short sentences. This woman has worked hard for him for twenty years, and the happy youth that the young woman once had.
Do you think Song Siming is a successful person?
In fact, he never really "made it" to the depths of his heart – he once told Seaweed that a man longs to have a vehicle like a Land Rover, to be able to get off the shackles for a short time, to be able to speed down the road, and once you get on it, you can feel its charm deeply.
It is indisputable that what he desires most is to have a family, a woman he loves dearly, and a path that can be flexible in dealing with all kinds of situations. However, his success was entirely based on someone else laying the way for him.
Lian Po is old, can he still make a living?You think he's succeeded, but he thinks it's too late.
In the original work, the first description of Song Siming and seaweed is quite subtle.
Song Siming deeply regretted that he had exposed his not young body to this almost transparent and pure young woman.
In this original work, Song Siming's main task is to help Seaweed solve various problems, and he does not feel powerless for a short time. At other moments, whether it was in bed or in the process of dealing with government affairs, he always felt a tightrope, a pain in his temple.
In the end, Song Siming dismantled the five million funds left to him by his wife and gave them seaweed, all in order to make a complete account of her young feelings. All of this was too late for Song Siming, who was furious about it.
He couldn't understand why he hadn't achieved anything remarkable during his college yearsHe hated why he had always spent his life in a one-man world, and it wasn't until after his death that he realized that he had been waiting for someone to call him back. I also regret that I didn't become a dragon because I missed one move in the chess game. He felt that everything was too late.
The main reason why this drama is deeply rooted is that it tells the story of the struggle between Haiping and Seaweed for the house. Although it seems reasonable on the surface, in the context of moral turpitude, it is also mixed with some sadness of ordinary people.
However, few people have really examined Song Siming, an elderly man, whose past behavior and half-life experience are actually to make up for his past regrets and regain the lost youth.
How horrible is a man's inner world?You only have to look at the Song Tai, who can neither fall nor stay, to understand;
How horrible is a man's stubbornness?One only needs to look at the ill-fated seaweed that is similar to Su Hui's to understand.
Song Siming's ultimate fate may also imply that if you insist on pursuing things that you can't reach, it will not only cause harm to yourself, but also to others. In the end, he not only destroys the two women, but also his most cherished first love moment.
Dear girls, please do not believe in any fate. When you are deeply in love with a married man, you should understand that there are only a few things he really wants for you:
1st When seeking emotional comfort, if he has a strong big woman in his family, then you are the little white rabbit he wants to overlook;
In the work "Deep Love and Rain", Lu Yiping's father Lu Zhenhua is a very trustworthy character. He has spent his entire life collecting stamps, and the roots of this hobby are Pinkie. There seems to be no clear end to his life, he doesn't really love anyone, but deeply loves the persistence and obsession in his heart;
No. 3: Pursue the time of youth. For middle-aged men, even if they take good care of themselves, they will still have large pores, a slightly smooth crown of the head, a waistline and abdomen full of meat, and no longer attractive bed activities. Youth brings them a kind of comfort, not the pressure and frustration of life.
A young woman brings us not only endless enthusiasm, but also a temporary comfort brought by the reverse flow of time. Such comfort gives them an extra boost on top of having some living capital, but also the possibility of being abandoned at any time.
Please mention at the end of the article:
When "Snail House" premiered, the young women of that era were all interested in this middle-aged man who knew the details well, and they even wished that Song Siming could be by their side, even if she became a seaweed, they were not disgusted.
Girls, you are not fairies in the sky, and the more experienced you are, the less likely you are to do such a thing.
If his love for you is more than thousands of miles, he will definitely not hesitate to cut off his relationship with you and face you bravely.
However, if he just wants you to have a deep affection for him instead of pursuing fame or a return, then consider pretending to be Song Siming.
As she experienced when Seaweed's attitude towards him became more indifferent after Song Siming's misfortune: when the two were together, the longest time they stayed in that big bed full of ambiguity, except for those crazy moments, she seemed to know nothing about the man's life and career.
Being attracted to a married man is truly a scary thing.
Think about it, it's not trustworthy to entrust your all to anyone.
Don't gamble your youth on your tomorrow.