Recently, a program about the marriage record of a middle-aged couple has sparked heated discussions on the Internet. The show reveals the marriage status of many middle-aged couples from a real perspective: there is a lack of emotional communication between each other, and they rely on their children to maintain their relationship. This phenomenon has aroused heated discussions among netizens, who have sighed "It's too real".
In the show, several middle-aged couples talk about their daily lives. These couples have been married for many years and have grown up children. In the long years, their love seems to have been consumed by the trivialities of life, replaced by responsibility for the family and love for their children.
One of the husbands on the show said: "We don't talk more than 10 sentences a day, and the topic is always children. It feels like our relationship is no longer husband and wife, but the parents of the children. Another wife sighed: "Sometimes it's really boring, but we seem to be Xi to this kind of life." ”
This kind of marriage state of "you and I have no chance, and we all rely on the entanglement of the baby" has resonated with netizens. Many people say they face similar problems in real life. The romance and passion of youth gradually disappeared in the tempering of the years, and the relationship between husband and wife became as plain as water.
Experts say that the marital problems of middle-aged couples are largely due to the lack of communication and emotion. In long-term family life, couples may focus too much on their children and education and neglect each other's emotional needs. In fact, maintaining a good relationship between husband and wife is just as important for the stability of the family as it is for the growth of children.
Faced with such a marital situation, experts suggest that middle-aged couples should actively seek change. Here are some suggestions:
1.Increase communication: Communicate with your partner to understand each other's thoughts and needs. Try to talk about topics other than your children to strengthen your relationship.
2.Develop common interests: Finding common hobbies, such as sports, traveling, reading, etc., can help increase interaction and intimacy as a couple.
3.High-quality companionship: Set aside a certain amount of time every day, put aside distractions such as mobile phones and work, and concentrate on accompanying your other half.
4.Keep it romantic: On special days such as festivals and anniversaries, prepare surprises for each other to keep love fresh.
5.Focus on self-growth: Constantly Xi learn new knowledge and skills, improve your attractiveness, and bring freshness to your marriage.
Finally, I hope that middle-aged couples can realize the existence of problems, actively seek changes, and regain the beauty of love. At the same time, society should also give them more attention and support, so that every family can be happy.