Read a book
When you come here because of this topic, it is basically due to two points: the first time you read it and the feeling that you didn't feel much before you didn't read it, especially after graduating from a big university, you are still confused. Second, look at why they are reading, because reading has become a problem-solving habit.
If a person does not read books, then his values will be determined by the people around him, because he has no other way to input, he can only imitate the people around him or slowly be changed by the environment, and follow what is popular around him, and he will never find himself. ”
This may sound true, but if you think of books as people around you, you may still lose yourself.
When you've read enough books, you'll have a firm value judgment of your own. You will know what kind of partner to choose to spend your life with, and you will understand whether to accept it by luck or refuse it calmly. ”
This sentence seems more reasonable, but the premise is that you don't know how to implement it, such as "enough", how can it be enough?100 or 1000 or 10000?
These words seem to make you transparent, but in fact, it is just a person who has turned himself into a book, and he still can't get rid of the influence of others.
How should I read a book?"There is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book", this is also true, daydreaming, no one can limit you. But what you want is to put down the book and turn your dreams into reality, and what you are looking for is the tools and ways to realize your ideals.
Start planning my 2024 Zen Buddhism is called "self-nature and inward seeking", which is to find oneself and realize oneself. Reading is a way to find yourself, you must know that this is just a way, and to realize yourself, it is not enough to have a way, just like a highway, civilians also walk, rich and wealthy people also go, it may be on the same road, but why are the destinations different?Or is it a different outcome?
First, the way of reading is different, don't immerse yourself in the "fun" of the book, but "use", you have to know what is the purpose of reading this book, what knowledge do you accumulate?What problem do you solve?It's like someone who reads ** will only fantasize about being a certain character in it, but some people are studying why it is described like this, why it is attractive, and some people are wondering what they would do if they met the storyline in it, these books are all there, and you have to learn to "take yourself".
Second, the books read are different, some people say that many people have not read books and still have a very successful life, just like the little six sons in "The Great Dyeing Workshop" is a beggar, he likes to listen to books, and he can still do his cloth business very well, he is "learning from life", he learns to be a man, learn to do business, and the things in the book are not also words that intellectual people transform reality into
1) "Learning without thinking is reckless" This thinking is reflection, "believing in the book is better than no book", we must read it with a critical learning vision, and the book is not all right, and the environment is not the same at this time and that time, the conditions are not the same, and it is good to be able to live and learn and use it.
2) Books for ability improvement should be read extensively and quickly, and professional books should be read extensively, but deeply.
3) The use of Feynman's learning method is to dictate the books you have read, which is conducive to your mastery and application of knowledge. The learning method is to make yourself more knowledgeable, and many brain maps are now beyond that.
4) To know what you want to do, and then go to a planned study, few people do not need to work, study, devote themselves to reading, so to adjust their own time, energy, with their own plans and goals to read, so that the book can be beneficial, will be successful.
Remember, it is we who are "reading" and drawing useful knowledge from it, not wasting our time by letting the book read us.
Original sharing, reading well, practicing hard.
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