Do you like these three words?Someone sends you a greeting "What are you doing?"."Do you like to do this way?Actually, sometimes "what are you doing?".These three words are not only not liked, but also disgusting. If we don't want to say what we're doing, it's hard to answer. Sometimes, when others know what you're doing, they ask you again, which is actually an extra move. Smart people will be in "What are you doing?".Before these three words, add these words. 
01, "Are you busy?".Is it convenient now?”Before you find someone to talk to, ask if they're busy. This gives yourself a step, in fact, it is a hint to the other party, if you don't want to chat, you can say that you are busy. After all, we have a lot to do in adult life. We're always on our own devices, and we even find time to connect. When we politely ask the other party if he is busy, it is inconvenient, in fact, we also give him leeway. The implication is that I don't bother you when you're busy, I want to chat with you, but I don't want to be a problem for you. "Busy?Is it convenient now?"People who ask others this way are often people with a sense of proportion. 
02, "I'm here, I miss you".If you like someone, just say it bluntly. Sometimes we want to talk to someone, just say to him "I'm here, I miss you", it's straightforward and simple, no nonsense. In fact, when the other party has you in their hearts, when they see the words "I miss you", they will feel warm and happy. "I miss you" is simple, I don't need to go into too much detail about why I contacted you, just because I simply miss you, so I want to talk to you. These three words are more likable than "what are you doing". Especially if you are a couple, we sometimes express our love and cherishment, which is more conducive to our relationship!
02, "Come out and chat!."”When we find someone, there is no need to ask what the other party is doing, just say "come out and chat", the purpose is very clear. Of course, if the other party doesn't have time, he will tell you what he's busy with, ask you to wait, or make an appointment to talk to you. We care about a person, so we will often and actively talk to him. People who also care about you will also take the initiative to make an appointment with you to chat. Chatting is the fastest way to get to know each other, especially when we are very interested in each other. It's also a pleasure to chat with someone you like. Therefore, we don't need to say "what are you doing", and call him out to someone who is very familiar with him. In such a sentence, it is actually easy to see that two people have a close relationship, care about each other, often come and go, and often contact.