Among the 108 generals in Liangshan, which hero is the most popular?There is no doubt that it is the prodigal son Yanqing!He can not only get along with the two big brothers of Liangshan, Song Jiang and Lu Junyi, but also coexist peacefully with Li Kui, who is the least welcomed, showing a unique tolerance. Yan Qing even successfully attracted the attention of Master Li when recruiting An, which can be said to be deeply popular and deserved.
So, how did Yan Qing win everyone's love?It's not just because he's handsome or versatile – after all, no matter how handsome and beautiful he is, there are times when he gets tired of aesthetics. The key is that Yan Qing is good at being a person and handling affairs, which is embodied in three speaking skills.
First of all, he is good at expressing points in a gentle tone and grasping key issues. When negotiating with Master Li, Yan Qing encountered an unfamiliar environment, and he skillfully adopted the technique of "speaking softly and grasping the key points". In the face of Yahuan's inquiry, he succinctly said that he wanted to see the person in charge and not get entangled with secondary issues. Then, he made his purpose clear, mentioning that he had the support of the rich in Shandong, and he was willing to donate generously, just asking for a drink with Master Li. The grasp of these two key points successfully broke the vigilance of Master Li and smoothly facilitated the meeting between Song Jiang and Master Li.
Secondly, Yan Qing is good at creating suspense and does not explain the problem clearly at the first time. He demonstrated this skill in his dealings with Lu Junyi. When Yan Qing told Lu Junyi that he had an ominous dream and suggested not to participate in the battle that day, Lu Junyi ignored it. Yan Qing cleverly created suspense, and then proposed that 500 soldiers were needed, but did not explain the purpose. This technique of "hanging the appetite and not explaining" successfully aroused Lu Junyi's curiosity, and finally made the plan a success.
Third, Yan Qing is good at clarifying responsibilities and determining the priority and importance of affairs. In the dispute with Li Kui, Yan Qing did not hesitate to formulate the "Three Chapters of the Law", clearly telling Li Kui the rules that need to be followed in the process of fighting. This shows Yan Qing's ability to clarify responsibilities and prioritize and ensure the smooth progress of the task.
In general, Yan Qing was able to become a "heartthrob" not only because of his appearance and talent, but also because he was good at using speaking skills. His three skills: speak softly and focus on the main point;Hanging appetite, not explained;Knowing his responsibilities and setting priorities has added a lot to his performance in Liangshan 108 generals.
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