Marriage is a besieged city, and those on the outside want to enter, and those on the inside want to escape. For men, marrying a woman who can manage a marriage will have a higher family happiness index, do you know what kind of woman can manage a marriage well?
The so-called forbearance and humiliation is not men's domestic violence, women will make compromises. Instead, in the face of the contradictions between family, parenting, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc., women can stretch and bend at the right time, and there is a kind of acceptance of external bad emotions, and they can also silently transform bad emotions. How many families have conflicts are actually trivial things, and small contradictions accumulate. This forbearance and humiliation is the wisdom that women need to learn, don't let trivial things affect their mood, and learn to deal with it calmly. Being able to endure humiliation also means that women need strong psychological construction ability and a soft temper to bear. When encountering things, don't be in a hurry to lose your temper and resolve the conflict reasonably, so that the family will be more harmonious.
II. II. II, a filial woman
Women can be filial to their parents, honor their ancestors, love their children, and filial piety can bring blessings to women. How can you tell if a woman is filial?See if she usually thinks about others, whether she is willing to share things with the people around her, whether she is patient with her parents, whether she is kind and pleasant, and whether she is willing to support her parents with part of her salary. If a man marries such a woman, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also be solved under the filial piety of such a woman.
Three, an independent woman
A woman's independence, spiritual independence and economic independence, she will have her own world, can work diligently, and strive to improve. Such a woman will also pursue the quality of marriage, and she is also willing to put in the effort to manage her married life.
In the end, marriage also needs both parties to go together and work hard to build, provided that we can find a partner with the same three views of the soul, and the marriage will become more and more fit.