"Love class" is a must-have lesson for adolescent children, and now that the school is missing, I have to make up for a few children.
Last night, before each child finished his homework and was about to leave me, I used 20 minutes or so to give these five or six children a serious "love lesson".
This week, when one of the girls came back to me every day after school, she generously admitted twice that she was in love, saying that a boy in the age had confessed to her, and she was happy to accept it, and she had already begun to call herself "He is my boyfriend, I am his girlfriend" at school. But when I came back from school last night, I shouted that her boyfriend asked her to develop further, and she talked to her a lot of "love words" alone at school, and even asked to "open a room"!So I came back last night and reacted very strongly, thinking that boy was disgusting and contrived!I don't want to fall in love with him anymore.
Although at first, I didn't pay much attention to this child, and accompanied them to make all kinds of jokes. But after everyone quieted down and started to do their homework, I quietly thought about the girl's recent performances, and finally decided to use a little time tonight to give them the first serious and serious "love lesson".
First of all, I told them clearly and generously that they are at this critical juncture in the second year of puberty, and it is extremely normal and common for any male and female classmates to like, attract, and love each other, and there is no need to make a fuss!There is no need to be overly sensitive and worried, scared, or avoided. As adolescent male and female students, if there is such a feeling, face it bravely, speak it out loud, seek help and analysis, guidance and advice from teachers or parents, it is the most appropriate way and the smartest way, such as this so-and-so today, he did a very good job!She generously admits it, and speaks out bravely and generously, so that we can listen, judge and discuss it, and then we can really understand what we should do when we meet this kind of classmate.
Secondly, I seriously and sternly put forward a few things to them that I must do in my daily growth process
1. At all times and on any occasion, male and female students must keep a certain distance!The sense of distance is the most beautiful, and only by keeping a certain distance can we keep each other only in a state of mutual appreciation;Keep a certain distance so that you don't feel too casual with each other;Only by keeping a certain distance can you get a better self-protection .........
2. Know how to refuse and learn to refuse. Reject the good of others;Rejection of someone else's purpose;Refuse certain requests and behaviors of others;Rejection of other people's potential risks ......
3. We must work hard and study hard, and strive to grow into stronger, more excellent, and more independent. Only if you are good enough and independent enough can you have the qualifications and rights to choose excellent boys in the future.
4. Life must have a pattern, must have a vision, must see their own vision farther, see a little more open, the mind needs to be broad-minded, and the mind needs to be ambitious ......
5. We must know how to protect ourselves at any time and in any situation throughout our lives, and we must learn and temper our ability to protect ourselves.
After talking about these five o'clock, an order was given, and they went home, and on the way home, a child said to his parents: The teacher's "love lesson" tonight made her sober in the world!
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